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In fact, I used to have such an idea, afraid that others would look down on me. But then I thought about it, and I hope that this kind of thinking can help you.

You can think of it this way, the reason why you have this kind of thought, it shows that you care about yourself a lot, and that's fine, at least you know how to respect and love yourself, but don't care too much about yourself, because it will make you more and more "careful", maybe you are thin-skinned and can't listen to your friends say a bad word about you. But if you think about it, everyone is busy with their lives every day, and they won't pay attention to you and laugh at you. Even if he says bad things about you, as long as he doesn't say anything to you in person, it shows that he still respects you.

Of course, the man who chews his tongue behind his back is not worth our anger for him. If you are a very introverted person, then you should be an introvert and you don't have to force yourself to communicate with others. If you are an outgoing and talkative person, then you should communicate with others more.

In short, don't envy other people's characters, let alone learn from others' personalities, because everyone has their own advantages, don't bury your own characteristics, be true to yourself. There are some things that cannot be forced. You don't have to be anxious, if you encounter setbacks, you also have to be calm, don't be deliberate, otherwise it will make you empty.

Rest assured, your good fortune may be getting closer and closer.

How can you care so much about other people's eyes? Wouldn't it be enough to be yourself? Are you afraid that others will look down on you and say bad things about you, so you won't live?

Life in the world is to live for others to see, so what can you care about? It's good to be yourself and have a clear conscience.

Don't care too much, no one is perfect, besides, the mouth is made by others, you just need to be yourself, give yourself more confidence, you like yourself and nothing. It can be seen that you care a lot about some of your external factors, in fact, everyone is unique, and you can't ask people all over the world to agree with you, so don't be so neurotic, as long as you don't hear it in person, don't think about it.

It's okay.

To change your thinking, that's when others are paying attention to you, to be honest, if you haven't done anything wrong, then others are paying attention to your ** is her inner jealousy, you have to be more yourself, live better than her, and when you far surpass her, you won't mind these.

The line is right, the work is straight, don't care.

More sensitive and inferior, too concerned about other people's opinions......To be a man, you should still be confident and strong, as long as you are strong inside......

Actually, I'm just like you, but there's always something that will make you feel at ease, every time I don't have self-confidence, I'm afraid of being ridiculed, as long as I see my mother, I will relax a lot.

I'm like this, to actually tell you, my mom said that my biggest flaw is pride, it's okay, don't worry!

Actually, you don't have to care very much, if you ignore the ridicule of others, others will not laugh at it anymore.

You volunteer to be someone's pants, and you have to follow whatever the other party's fart.

Ignore them, in fact, sometimes you have to be arrogant, and ignoring them is the biggest humiliation for them.

Go your own way and let others say go.

Cuss. What bad words are you referring to? Can you add that?

1: If you say something bad. Referring to the Human Attack?

That would be the way a wise man would deal with it would just be to ignore it. For the mouth groweth on a man's mouth. People say you can't stop it.

If you are right. I won't be afraid of people saying anything bad. Even if you say it.

If there is such a thing. It's also your own business. Be yourself.

Go your own way. Let someone else say it. Don't bother with boring people at all.

I can't talk to those low-level people.

2: If you say bad things. What does it mean to be at work?

That way in a clever way to deal with it. If this is the case. On the good side.

I'm not afraid of what people say. Words on the bad side. Then you can only look for your own mistakes.

Why don't people tell you in person? Now that you know that people are saying bad things about you behind your back. Do you want to correct it?

If a colleague says it. Chances are you're making them jealous. There are villains in this world.

It's easy to get people to slander you everywhere. Then he can behave in front of the boss. Falling into the well and so on.

One word. Do yourself well. What do people say. You're going to him. Someone who attracts envy. There is a certain talent. There are things that no one else can do. will attract people's eyes. That's why I said you.

If you can endure it, you will endure it, and if you can't bear it, you will be regarded as someone else who is jealous of your goodness

Try to forgive

Listen from the left ear, come out from the right ear, or don't listen, it doesn't matter anyway!

You have to think about it, everyone will.

Being said badly. Since that woman is happy to speak ill of you, it shows you.

There is something in her body that she is jealous of (this is the truth). Ignore her and move on with your life because of your friends.

will believe you, and will not alienate you because of her trickery.

The so-called "gossip does not talk about people's wrongs" should be a rule that cultivated people must abide by. However, in today's material society, there are often some people who are driven by interests and always like to talk long and short behind the backs of others. It is recommended that the landlord strictly require his speech and demeanor on weekdays, believe that "the body is not afraid of shadows", facts speak louder than words, and believe in himself.

Some people say hello, naturally some people say bad about you, it's impossible for everyone to say good things about you, don't care about so many people, do your best, the people you care about think you're good, it's good, everyone cares, it's going to be very tiring.

As long as you are honest with yourself, don't care what others say. Someone framed me behind my back, but others didn't believe what that person said, because they knew who I was, but the person who framed me was still spurned by everyone. It's okay, the innocent is innocent, the eyes of the masses are bright and they will know.

Go your own way and let others say go.

Repaying grievances with virtue is a kind of cultivation and quality.

Don't punish yourself for someone else's mistakes.

Frank and swaying. Other people's slanders and rumors will be self-defeating.

If you are betrayed by a friend, don't be rash at the moment, I hope you can calmly analyze the whole process of your conflict.

If I am betrayed by a friend, first of all, I must learn to calm down, try not to be too impulsive, because too much rashness is likely to make the problem worse, in addition to calming, I will carefully analyze the whole process to see why things are like this!

If you find out afterwards that it was your fault, you must sincerely apologize to the other person. Of course, if the other party is at fault first, then I will also choose a suitable time to find him calmly to talk, if he can admit his mistake or say something acceptable to me, then no problem, we are still friends! If not, then I'll take a fresh look at my friendship with him, and probably we'll just be it in the future'Ordinary'Friends!

Also, if you can't save your face, you don't have to talk in person, and writing a note is also a good way to express your meaning!

These bad things said by others may hurt you, so you should question him, clarify the facts, and let him speak in the future.

If these bad words don't hurt you, just laugh it off.

It's like this from person to person, sitting and talking about others, standing and being talked.

Maintain an optimistic, calm, calm, and happy mood.

Method 1: When you are in a bad mood, consciously change the topic, or do something else, (such as listening, watching TV, doing sports, playing casual games, or going out for a walk, etc.) to distract yourself, which can relieve your emotions.

Method 2: Tell your relatives or close friends about your troubles or even cry, or use pillows, sandbags, etc., to vent the accumulated troubles in your heart, which will also be conducive to physical and mental health. However, pay attention to the object, place, and occasion of catharsis; The method should also be appropriate to avoid harming others.

Method 3: When you want to get something, or want to do something but fail, in order to reduce the disappointment in your heart, you can find a proper reason to comfort yourself, which can help you be realistic in the face of setbacks and maintain a more optimistic attitude.

Of course, I get angry when I hear people say bad things about me, but after I get angry, I will find problems from myself little by little, and if I still have the flaws that others say, then I will listen to their opinions and change myself. Don't seek perfection, but strive to achieve perfection.

Watch and see what happens. He said bad things about me behind my back to prove that I still have something that can make him jealous, the reality is cruel, friends don't ask for more, seek truth.

Who's behind no one's back? Who doesn't talk about people behind their backs? Remember these 2 sentences, people are inevitably vulgar when they live, you don't have to live under other people's words, just be yourself.

A faint smile, reflecting your atmosphere, others will admire the atmospheric person, and despise the villain who says people behind his back.

You will cut off all ties with him.

Have you ever talked about someone behind your back? If there is, think about your heart at the time Maybe the other party didn't mean to be malicious and seriously injured If there is, you can also make it clear to him, alas, the more you talk about it, the more troublesome it is, in short, it is still the Chinese saying that "the body is not afraid of the shadow crooked".

Virtue repays grievances and cultivates.

Quality should be different.

Mistakes are punished self.

Don't slander with your frankness.

Rumors are self-defeating.

The most effective way not to be bullied is to make yourself stronger, for those who chew their tongues behind their backs, they are mostly jealous and envious of others (provided that the person who is envied and envied has a good character), and cannot see others better than him. For this kind of person, if they are talking behind their backs, just treat them as farting, and walk over directly when you see them talking (most of these people bully the soft and fear the hard), after all, the body is not afraid of the shadow. If they are too much to get bumped into by you while talking nonsense, sue them directly for defamation (even if it is effective without hurting themselves, it can also remind those who want to talk nonsense).

In the past, I was often bullied because I had a soft personality and felt good to bully. But then I thought about it, even if I was despised by others, I couldn't be bullied to death. I'll give you a word - even if the world is my enemy, as long as my heart is still transparent, I can refract hope.

If it's just a few people who say bad things about you, the landlord doesn't have to pay attention to it, and no one will be praised by everyone.

If your good friends have been estranged from you recently, the landlord should reflect on himself and correct it, mistakes are not terrible, and being able to overcome mistakes is the strongest.

Keep yourself clean, don't put on any expression when others bully you, just keep one expression there, and then they won't bully you if they think you're boring.

Some people say bad things about you because they are jealous of you!

Those who are clean are self-purifying, so why care. When the other person says bad things about you, they are nothing more than venting their frustration and ruining your reputation. And if you choose to be silent, he will become a person singing.

If you can still say good things about him (of course, if it is true, you can't make something out of nothing for the sake of saying good things), others will compare, and you will naturally know who is a villain and who is a gentleman.

Man must learn to be strong, to fan him, and to ignore him.

Whoever in the world does not speak behind his back, and who is not spoken by anyone.

Go your own way and let others say go.

Whoever doesn't say anything in front of him, and no one behind anyone says that it's decided.

Well, this is a question, although it is very immoral for others to say bad things about you behind your back. But there are also reasons for it: will you provoke him, or will you also say bad things about him behind your back??

It's really not easy to live in this society, sometimes in order to have a good relationship with other people, you have to obey his words, hey brother, I can't help myself, I believe he is just a momentary impulse, you can reconcile with him, or you can alienate him, it can only depend on what you mean, of course, I still say that.

Brother: I can't help myself

Don't punish yourself for other people's mistakes, you must remember this sentence Luo The widest thing in the world is the ocean, and what is wider than the ocean is the human heart.

Maybe you don't agree with me, but I'm going to state my own point of view.

A word to you:

How can the world treat me with despise, deceive, slander, deceive, laugh at me, envy me, insult me, harm me? Answer: Only respect him, tolerate him, let him, endure him, follow him, avoid him, and ignore him.

I've also taken care of this situation, you think.

Du Fa is also reasonable, it is a progressive process, in other people's minds if your deeds are denied too much, you will really be snubbed by others. Of course, some people don't snub you, they will notice it themselves.

If things get so big that it affects your normal life, you can openly tell others that you have been wronged in this way. I can't force it! It is not recommended to do it at the beginning, it is very stiff.

Then you personally go to find one of your own friend groups, and the people in that community are people you trust, of course, they will also trust you, and naturally how others slander you will only make him feel left out. In this way, the person's reputation will not be good for a long time, and he will be snubbed by everyone, and he will be to blame. (Highly recommended).

This is entirely personal experience, and the right to interpret it belongs to the individual. Thank you.