What can a woman do to ruin your temperament?

There are too many good-looking vases in this world, and too few interesting souls.

Although some people are not amazing in appearance, they can give people a feeling like a spring breeze, which is called temperament; And some people are born with a good deck of cards, but they break it in their own hands.

Today, from a man's point of view, let's take a look at what behaviors make women look cheap, and see how women ruin their temperament.

1. Raunchy.

In this era of looking at faces, no one will want to get along with sloppy women, you can not be beautiful, not stunning, but at least make people look comfortable, whether you are too busy at work or have no intention of taking care of it, please keep it clean and tidy, this is not only respect for others, but also responsible for yourself.

2. Complaining too much.

Do you still remember how Sister-in-law Xianglin got to the end? Complain when you meet people, once or twice others may sympathize with you, many times, others can only avoid you, complaining is a kind of negative energy, no one wants to be with people who consume their own energy, so, when you encounter less complaining, more action.

3. Emotional out-of-control.

If you lose your temper at every turn, breathe your anger, no matter how good your friends are, you will become cautious and uncomfortable with people who love you, and learn to control your emotions, I suggest you watch "Nonviolent Communication".

4. Love to chew the root of the tongue.

5. Be careful.

I like hearty girls, I can see everything, if I care about some small things, I can only say that my heart is not big enough, but I will lose my big because of the small.

6. Over-dependence.

Men like independent souls, interesting individuals, you can trust, but don't rely on him, it's better to be by him, without him, you still have a good life, don't rely on anyone, economic independence, spiritual independence is a woman's greatest confidence.

Complaining excessively. It is not easy for women nowadays, not only to show up to earn money to support the family, but also to have children and take care of housework, it is normal to complain, as long as you pay attention to the occasion, it is not harmful to complain. If a woman's complaint turns into nagging, it will give a bad impression of a resentful woman.

Attractive women generally don't complain in front of others, and even if they complain, they will do it moderately, so that their friends can know their feelings and their husbands can understand their hardships. Since complaining does not solve anything, therefore, it is better for a woman to complain more than to complain less, and it is better to complain less than not to complain. <>

Boasting too much. Most women love vanity, and when they hear praise, they will smile, and when they hear criticism, they will turn cloudy. Women do not leave their husbands and children in three sentences, some will babble and praise how capable their husbands are to show that they are well married, and some will exaggerate the performance of their children in order to boast about their godson.

Although women will always exaggerate when talking about something, moderate exaggeration will not cause others to be offended, and if it is overdone, it will give a bad impression of dishonesty. Therefore, women can talk about the sea and the sky, and it is better not to talk about sesame seeds as watermelon.

Grab the word and be rude. Language is a communication tool for human beings, and people's interactions are inseparable from language, but it is an art to use language well. Speaking is a woman's strength, whether the timing of speaking is appropriate, and whether the words are appropriate or not, all reflect the cultivation of women.

Some women are informal, they like to whisper to the people next to them when they are talking, and it is rude for people not to answer the phone, and they are worried about being disliked by others, which is really annoying. Some women love to be in the limelight, like to interrupt the conversation, and are very impolite. Since grabbing words is a manifestation of lack of cultivation, women must listen more and talk less on the scene.

Read books, watch news broadcasts to learn about current news.

Of course, I read books, I think I read some ancient literature.

There is also some knowledge of etiquette.

You can also take a look at columns like "Hundred Lectures".

Temperament and connotation are not cultivated in a day or two.

What is needed is accumulation and learning.

Just be yourself, a woman's temperament is from the inside out.

A confident woman has a temperament.

If you say no, it's a lie. If you say yes, you can only do it.

Pursue what you are after, and you will get answers even if you don't achieve it.

In addition to femininity, as you grow older and have social experience, you will become more charming and temperamental.

I think it's okay, first to keep yourself clean and tidy, and then think about the rest.

A woman who is knowledgeable and has connotations is very temperamental.