What should I do if the circle of life is too small, and it is difficult for me to be attracted to t

Expanding the circle is the most important thing, in fact, the circle of life is a good thing for girls, at least it proves that you are a gentle personality, considerate good girl, single life, two points and one line, don't change your personality, 10 people have 10 kinds of character, or keep your own character better.

If you want to have a boyfriend, it is better to tell you that there is a suitable introduction to you, and everyone will also help you find a suitable object for you, as well as family, family factors are also very important, you can let your family help you take a look, the family will never harm you, and will also help you find a suitable boyfriend for you, and then take the old road, that is, blind date, most of them are eating and chatting, suitable for development, not suitable for pulling, When I asked the reason, I said that the personality was incompatible, which was not bad.

I used to have a big circle, I was outgoing and lively and willing to make friends, but it was a woman like me who didn't call men like me at all, I don't like extroverted men, I don't think this is suitable for me, it's good to have one in the family who is so embarrassed, and I really can't stand another one, so when someone else introduced my husband to me, oops, I fell in love with him, at that time my husband was quite reserved, since I didn't agree, it didn't matter, I came, I had to get it in less than a month, and I accidentally dealt with it for 7 years, Married for 5 years now, well!

Therefore, introverts need an extrovert, and extroverts need an introvert. So you need to find a boyfriend with an extraordinarily aspiring personality to fit in with you, so send all your relatives, friends, colleagues and classmates to find it!

The circle of life is too small, so it is not harmful to expand the number of friends, friends can know each other or take the initiative to communicate with others. Maybe you feel that the people around you are very familiar, and there is no such feeling that can make you fall in love. We all have to learn to change the status quo, and there will always be times when we get tired of seeing fixed people and fixed things.

Give yourself a vacation, let go of the baggage in your heart and go outside.

I recommend that you can go out on a proper trip, one or two people, go out to see more scenery elsewhere, make a few travel friends, make more people, and you will know that you want that kind of love and that kind of person to accompany you. Now there are a lot of hostels in every place, most of them are young tourists or students, people from different places live together, the boss sometimes organizes activities for everyone to know each other, I think it is more lively than going to live in an ice coffin and know a lot of people. You may not meet the person you want on the way.

Or maybe you can try to get to know the people around you again. Rediscover their strengths, everyone has a different vision and disagreeing style, looking at them in a different way can always break your original perception of them. Ask yourself which one you want, try to pursue it, don't sit still, otherwise your side will remain the same for a few months and years, or you will become unmotivated, and the final result will be either a single or a single person.

Life is full of variety, and you have to try to know. Start with self-change. You can also make yourself very good and confident, show your charm, and there will always be people who will see your shining point to pursue you and know you.

Since you know that the circle of life is small and there are no people who are tempted, it means that your ideal state and inner taste are higher than your current life. If you want to get rid of the current unsatisfactory status quo, then try to change yourself first! If you are a student, then study hard, continue your studies, if you have the ability to study abroad, when your ability is good and can not control your ambitions, you will work hard silently, strive to go to a better environment, go to a better university, you must know that a better university means a higher vision and a broader platform, your environment will shape you into a better person, and you will also meet him you like.

The foundation of it all is that you want to be a better version of yourself. <>

If you're already working and living a bland repetition of 9 to 5 every day, it's a good idea to develop a hobby. You can go to the gym to sweat and develop a good habit of exercising, which can not only make friends, but also stay healthy; or to learn dance, learn vocal music or something, and cultivate sentiment; You can also learn to cook and learn to make biscuits. Go camping, go to a bike club.

The important thing is to find people who have the same hobbies as you, you have a common language and understand each other, and gradually you will find that you will meet more people through these people, and this is how human connections are established, don't think that you are not interested in anything, you have to do it first, to participate, no matter what you do, as long as you take it seriously, you will find that everything is so fun.

Life is not as bizarre as in the TV series, and there are not so many accidental things that happily fall on us. Many times we need to create opportunities by ourselves, job opportunities, study abroad opportunities, and even the opportunity to meet the other half, and sometimes, we are not willing to bravely try to jump out of our circle, but choose to make do. Our unwillingness to be dull energy is slowly worn away by the dull life, we lament how fate does not arrange a gorgeous reversal for ourselves, most of the time we overestimate the power of fate, in fact, we are the master of life.

I don't know whether to use "sympathy" to describe it, or to use "the same end of the world" to describe our situation, in short, I am also in the same state as you, my circle of friends is very small, the circle of life is not large, and the friends around me are also some same-sex friends, or even if there are friends of the opposite sex, it is also a good relationship between brothers and sisters, and can no longer cross the line to become other relationships, so friends around me can only be friends. So if this situation continues, will we really be the kind of people we are left with? What should we do?

Originally, I watched my friends around me have the object of showing affection one by one, but I still don't even have a score, they began to divide again, and then they joined together, and they divided and merged several back and forth, or the people around me changed several times, and I was still alone here. In fact, I am very anxious, why can other good friends be paired with the people I like and like me, but I am alone and have not made progress? Is it because she looks ugly, has a bad personality, or is she too girly?

I have considered many possibilities, but in fact, the main reason is that we are too closed and unwilling to go out and meet more people, so that the number of people around us has decreased but not increased, and the relationship has not developed for a long time. If we were willing to go out and get out of this small circle, would there be a difference in progress?

Now I have thought about it, this kind of thing is not in a hurry, the more anxious I think about these things, in the end we will only live a good life, we have to look forward, make ourselves excellent, I believe that one day, God will give us a perfect "him", I always believe in fate, now we are destined to be just fate has not arrived.

The circle of life is too small, this is your own problem, your life circle is too small, which leads to your own narrow understanding of love, and even you will think that you have no sense of love, and you are just friends around you, but you will feel that you are very lonely, you very much hope that you can mingle with the friends around you, and long for yourself to be favored by the god of love, but in reality you are very withdrawn, unwilling to associate too deeply with friends, you always exclude yourself around your friends, and do not want to talk to themYou'll also feel like you're not on the same level as them. So in the final analysis, it's your own reluctance to let yourself mingle with them, it's your own exclusion from their circle, everything originates from your own heart, your heart is troubled, your heart is struggling, you want to find a friend who can talk to you, a friend you can talk to about everything, but based on the fact that you haven't found it yet, so your selfishness is troublesome, you yourself are competing with yourself, you always refuse to let yourself admit defeat, you are always complaining, Don't expose yourself to the sun until you tell your heart that you haven't found a close friend yet.

You may try to relax your standards, don't bind yourself so tightly, let yourself relax appropriately, you have to understand that friends are obtained by sincerity, if you have been closing your heart, and have been making yourself feel that your ideas cannot be recognized, then it will be difficult for you to be recognized, and you will even lose a lot of friends.

I hope you can let go of your defenses, carefully sort out your interpersonal relationships, know how to cherish, grasp your own moral standards, re-acquaint yourself with your friends, and correct your own attitude.

Hello, you still have to think about it yourself, do more things that can improve yourself, and don't let yourself think idlely. Especially for girls with a very small life circle, they must make more friends, communicate with others more when they have nothing to do, especially good friends, what thoughts can be told to good friends, so that they can untie their hearts and make themselves sunny. I hope it can help you, please adopt.

It's very simple to say, expand your circle and look at the point. Don't care too much about those who may not care about you.

But to do it... I'm stuck in that kind of problem right now. I also told myself not to think about what I should let go, but I couldn't let it go, and I was still haunted. I care about it all the same. If you can't see it, you can't see it.

That's because she's too introverted and has a lot of self-esteem

Taking a good look at the people around you may also make you feel excited, but you just don't notice it.

I wish you the best of luck finding your perfect partner soon.

Since there are a few people chasing you, it's almost enough! It's all 25! Don't pick! Wait any longer and there will be no one to chase! Only blind dates!

In today's society, when we want to fall in love, our parents don't want to. When we want to fall in love, the time of love has passedSo do you know how many marriageable single men and women are in China this year? A full 200 million!

Isn't this number a shock to many people?

That's right, it's not just that you can't find a boyfriend, he can't find a girlfriend, it's that almost all young people are struggling to find a partner, so how can we find a boyfriend?

First of all, don't blame yourself for being too small, because most people go home from work at two o'clock and one line after work, and go home from work! It's impossible to have extra time to go out and make friends, if you really want to find a boyfriend, then you might as well look for it through the following two points, it will be more reliable.

Blind date, there is no doubt about this, I believe that 99% of people have walked such a road,When I was in high school or college, there was no way to fall in love, or it was said that the incompatibility of the personalities of two people led to a final graduation breakup, but the breakup was a breakup. In the end, you will always go on the road of blind date, only blind date can get married, and only blind date can find a boyfriend, which seems to be an immutable principle in China.

The second point is to dress up beautifully with a happy mood every day, and go out to meet or encounter by chanceOf course, this chance encounter and encounter can only be a stroke of luck, because the man you meet is not necessarily sincere, and he does not have to be single!

And the person who is introduced to you on a blind date, he must be single, because parents and friends will not lie to you, so if it really isIf you want to find a reliable one, then it seems that there is only an old and earthy stupid way to go on a blind date, but it is very practical!

4 5 The building near the water gets the moon first.

Observe whether there is a suitable candidate in your unit, although many people are now worried about falling in love within the unit due to the intricate relationship, afraid that it will not end well, but if two people go home together every day and go to work together, it is also a very good thing.

2 5 classmates and friends.

If your college, high school or even elementary school classmates happen to work in the same city as you, they are all long-distance strugglers far from home, they like the city they work in very much, they want to put down roots in this city, and they happen to meet each other, then you might as well think about it and see if it can develop into a relationship.

3 5 Gatherings of all kinds.

Young people will always find various opportunities to hold gatherings, such as hometown reunions, alumni reunions, unit celebrations, festival celebrations, etc. Attend these gatherings more often, and pay attention to the young people around you, but don't give people too deliberate feelings, as long as there is fate, they will definitely get to know.

4 5 Others introduced.

The unit is a very enthusiastic sister, aunt, will knock on your feelings, whether you have a boyfriend, what are the requirements and standards, etc., and then will enthusiastically match you, don't refuse these big sisters or aunts, their vision is very accurate, if it doesn't feel the same, they won't introduce casually, they are colleagues, if you live unhappily in the future, they will definitely complain.

5 5 bachelorette parties.

There are many activities or parties in the society specifically for single men and women, you may wish to participate in more, do not have a strong purpose, the right to entertainment, maybe your destined person will really appear, such as singles clubs, Singles' Day large-scale meet-and-greets, etc., you may wish to participate with a peaceful mind.