Why do you feel like you re doing something wrong for a moment?

Because first of all, you are a self-critical person, and you may even have a little inferiority, in recent times, everyone may accuse you more or less, isolate you, because you are doing something wrong, and then someone will keep accusing you, thinking that you are not right or wrong, but in fact, you may just do something wrong, and then you think of everything, and then feel that everything you do is wrong.

Everyone has a time to do something wrong, because you are already an adult, no one will forgive you unconditionally, once you do something wrong, someone will immediately accuse you, maybe this matter is more serious, all people feel that your mistake has caused a great impact, so it is immediately a thousand people to point to, but in the face of other people's accusations you can not refute, can only accept silently, and then reflect on yourself, no one will come to comfort you, because the reality is like this, do wrong things have to suffer the consequences, so we have been improvingLearn how to avoid making mistakes and being blamed from accusations again and again. To be a perfect person, we are far from such a goal and cannot achieve it, so we often fall into self-loathing.

When you have a moment when you feel that you can't do anything, everything is wrong, and everything is wrong, don't be discouraged, come on, one day you can do it, even if you do something wrong, no one will directly point at your nose and scold, but on the other hand, sometimes you make mistakes or something, everyone will make them, but it depends on what status you are in your circle, if you are a person who everyone can scold, then you will definitely point out if you make a mistake, if you are a person with status, If you make a mistake, your superiors will only scold you.

But in general, make fewer mistakes, and have a good attitude, your situation will be much better, mistakes are inevitable, you must have a good attitude, be positive, and don't give up your current study and work because you are blamed.

The reason why we think that everything we do is wrong and everything we do is wrong, it is just that we doubt our own ability at that time, and we are not confident enough in ourselves, coupled with a period of continuous mistakes, so we feel that everything we do is wrong.

We all have times when we are confused, sometimes we doubt ourselves, and we don't even believe that we have the ability to accomplish some simple things, and over time, we will become more and more decadent, until we are completely like a different person. It can also become a person's heart disease.

We say that there is a cure for the disease of the body, but there is a cure for the disease of the heart, then there is no way to find a cure.

When we are doing things, sometimes we are full of confidence, but we don't know what reason we messed up, not only sorry for our own efforts, but also live up to the trust of family and friends, so we feel that we have done something wrong. And to do things with such emotions, no matter how simple things are, will be messed up by such low emotions, and then negative emotions will follow, and finally they will begin to doubt their own abilities, feel that what they do is wrong, and even feel that they are a mistake.

It's not that I'm really incompetent, it's just a kind of subjectivity of the brain that I made when I made mistakes in the recent past.

The judgment is the subconscious of the brain.

Although the subconscious mind is very mysterious, it is real, and it can also affect our judgment.

There are times when precision instruments make mistakes, just like some pictures on the Internet, our eyes sometimes make mistakes and make us have illusions. Or maybe sometimes you look at a word, write a word, write a few more in a row, and you will feel like what you are writing, and this character is really written like this?

These are all wrong judgments given to us by the brain, so we don't have to be too nervous when we encounter such a thing, we are afraid that it will have a bad impact on us, we just need to relax and give our nervous nerves a vacation. Don't really feel like you can't do it, it's all temporary.

Why do you feel that what you are doing is wrong, because you will subconsciously compare with others, you will have this kind of thinking about why others can do so well and why I can't, and you will also completely deny yourself because of a little frustration, to put it mildly, your thoughts are completely influenced by others, and you can't see yourself.

You should relax yourself properly and look at the problem from a different perspective, not that you are doing something wrong, but how hard the person is trying compared to you. Don't let too many negative emotions affect you. Envy and jealousy will devour oneself, so grasp it.

Don't compare everything to others or care about everything they say. If you think what others say about you, you will be very tired, and life is about finding ways to make you happy. <>

On the good side, you can laugh and have fun, and on the bad side, you can secretly correct yourself, learn to choose, and don't be too glassy or extremely negative about yourself. It's impossible not to do something wrong, calm down and think about how you did it in the first place, why can't you do it now.

Learn to see the effort behind everything, how much others have given to it, and how much you have given yourself. If you don't do anything right, do you concentrate on doing something or really understand something? Don't give up halfway and want to do everything, then you are destined to be a poor learner.

I feel like I can't do anything well, and I feel that everyone is not sincere to me.

Hello, if this feeling and doubt has affected your normal work, study or life, you need to pay attention. First of all, think about whether something bad has happened to you recently that has hit your self-confidence, or whether you have been hinted by the people around you when you do something, such as: why can't you do such a small thing, what else will you do, etc.

Also, what do you think is the reason why others are not sincere? Did someone deceive you about something? You need to think about it before you can find a solution to the cause, and you can tell me so that I can better help you analyze and solve it.

Psychoanalysis: Hello, subject!

Hug you, dear, in fact, there are many people like the subject in this world, who feel that they are not good enough, and belittle themselves in Sakura, in fact, this kind of psychology can not be solved in a few words.

Yes, self-confidence is not the patent of excellent people, even if you become a beggar, you can be a confident and happy beggar, this is an attitude to life, an evaluation of yourself, a question of whether the satisfaction with the status quo is high, not a question of how bad the subject is.

Therefore, the first thing to change is not what others say about you, or the environment, but the subject's heart.

So what can you do to make yourself feel better?

1.Stop internal friction.

From this moment on, stop criticizing, blaming, belittling yourself, such a voice will really ruin yourself, even if others evaluate you like this, you can't be affected by this voice and let yourself fall into endless pain, 2Encourage yourself.

I can, I'm fine, I'll try, use this kind of autosuggestive language, constantly encourage yourself, people are very easy to be suggested, so even if others belittle you, encourage yourself and let yourself be confident.

Even if you don't do your job well and mess up, it doesn't matter, you can do it once.

If you really can't do it, then pause for a while, calm yourself down, and try again.

Let yourself calm down and find your own tricks, so that you will become confident.

Finally, I wish the subject a happy life!

Hello! It's a pleasure to be with you** on the question of self-confidence.

A truly confident person should have self-confidence at all times", this is not wrong, but this is only from a certain point of view, it may be a more idealized description of the state of self-confidence, not absolute, in fact, we can also look at it dialectically:

It is important to have a confident mindset when doing things. A confident mindset will lead to more optimism, lightheartedness, more active thinking, and easier success in doing things. At the same time, if you succeed, you will be able to increase your self-confidence.

When you enter a positive cycle, you become more and more confident. So, self-confidence and success are mutually reinforcing. As more and more of this experience of self-confidence increases, there will be more affirmation of the self overall, that is, more inner self-confidence, which we call true self-confidence.

But true self-confidence is not blindly thinking that they are omnipotent, because everyone has their own shortcomings, no one can succeed in everything, truly confident people can accept their own failures, they will not think that failure is their own bad person, and will not label themselves as losers, but will find the reasons from failures, summarize experience and lessons, and figure out which ones can be controlled and improved, as the goal of the next improvement. This makes it easier to move on to the next success.

Give yourself more positive psychological cues.

Don't ignore the role of a positive mindset, psychological cues can help us a lot of the time. The subconscious mind knows best about language with strong emotions, and we may write these positive factors into our subconscious when we use words and actions to repeat or create positive environments that are beneficial to us. Don't blame yourself too much for your shortcomings and shortcomings, feel more about your own experience when you succeed, and see more of your strengths and potential, in fact, everyone has potential abilities, positive psychological hints can stimulate our positive emotions and inner potential, and stimulate self-confidence.

Grow steadily and cultivate your own realistic ability.

In the final analysis, self-confidence is based on successful experience, and if you want to succeed in something, you still have to do a good job in basic work, constantly enhance your ability, and truly make achievements and self-confidence will naturally be improved.

We are not born to be full of self-confidence, invincible, for some new things, there is always a process of learning and mastering, everyone's ability and potential is also different, don't always see those who fail, just like half a glass of water, don't always see the empty part, you must have a lot of colleagues who do very well and successfully, look at them more, learn from them. Through your own down-to-earth efforts and seeing your every progress, your self-confidence will accumulate little by little.

Hello, the most uproar is not psychologically stressful, so it has caused trouble to yourself!

Although you are working hard, don't put too much pressure on yourself, and have time to relax, so that you can better complete your work and achieve satisfactory results.

This is a psychological problem, don't let this psychology affect the functioning of your life, it's not good if the mood is too negative! Originally, you just did one thing, or a few things that you didn't do well, but if you continue to maintain the mentality of "why can't I do anything" and have this negative psychological hint to yourself, you must not be able to do anything! I hope you have a peaceful mind, treat everything, things are not done well, everyone has this time, not just you!

To be a man, you must be clean, clean in appearance, a kind of comfort, clean in heart, good character, clean to treat people, a kind of sincerity, clean work, is a quality.

The so-called cleanliness means that the heart is free of impurities, the quality is flawless, the line is standing firmly, it can be said and done, it is not playing with the heart, not playing tricks, not agreeing with villains, and not colluding with bad people.

Be a clean man, do not take advantage of others, and do not harm people's interests.

Do things cleanly, without conscience, and without harming nature and reason.

Live a clean life, don't be lazy and slippery, don't be tricky.

Work cleanly, do not cheat, do not choose the light.

A clean person will not stain his character and his conscience.

They regard character as their life, regard their conscience as a treasure, and will never destroy their character or discard their conscience for the sake of money, fame, and fortune.

Clean, make the character more pure, clean, and make the conscience more transparent.

A clean person must be a reliable person.

Cooperate with them, not afraid of losses, and get along with them, not afraid of losses.

Be a man, clean and clean, worthy of heaven and earth, worthy of oneself at the bottom, not afraid in the face of gossip, not weak in the face of discussion and guidance.

In life, you can not be rich, but you must be kind, you can not be excellent, but you must be clean.

Only if you are kind-hearted can you be favored by God, and only when you are clean can you be respected!

In your lifetime, be a clean person, have a clean heart, use cleanliness to ensure that your character is not dirty, and exchange cleanliness for a worry-free life!

Are you not confident in yourself? Don't think like this, everyone has their own advantages, you can't feel that you can't do anything well because you haven't done something well, as long as you think you're doing it right and doing it well, it's okay, just live for yourself, just be happy, it doesn't matter what others say, ignore them.