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Hey, it's weird, it's not your dad and your husband's problem.
To be recognized, you have to have achievements. If you don't get results, you won't be able to recognize your husband.
Besides, it's normal for the father-in-law to find a son-in-law with pigtails.
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There is a saying that the smart will hide it, and the unsmart will pass it on You can go one step further That is, say in front of your father how your husband says he is good (don't praise your husband directly) Buy things for your husband and wait for him The same is true in front of your husband This is the principle of doing things Oh, I hope it will help you.
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I was also so afflicted that I couldn't do anything about it.
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It will be good when what your husband does impresses your dad.
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praised her husband in front of her father for how good she was, and her father-in-law just wanted her daughter to live well. Besides, he is already his son-in-law, what else can he hope for? The father also wishes his daughter's marriage well.
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It's been almost three years since the incident, and I still don't know how much my husband and parents owe about their finances now.
After the incident came out, in addition to the 100,000 yuan repaid, my husband also carried me behind my back to his parents 50,000 yuan, and I knew about it afterwards, and now I will take care of all the wages and expenses.
The house I rented for 2000 per month was returned, and it was replaced by a bungalow in the countryside for 4500 a year, and after I moved, I learned through my mother's verbal chain or instructions that I sent the child back to the child's grandmother's house, and my grandmother went to see her and told my mother.
My parents offered to let us spend about 150,000 yuan to buy an old house for my husband and parents to live in. I asked my husband, and he said that his mother is here to bring us the children, and his father will not come home, so let's rent it first.
The current situation is that my husband and my husband and mother can't control my husband and father, and he is still hanging around the cities and counties around his hometown, not knowing what to do, and swiping his fucking credit card.
My husband's mother is a little dead to save face, and I always think that his father can make a comeback, saying that he has eaten a lifetime of mental work, and he can't eat physical labor, what should he do if he is tired? In addition, my mother instructed her husband to buy this and that for her behind her back, and I didn't object to it, I just felt bad behind my back. Every year for her birthday, she has a lot of money to buy clothes and shoes, but I don't plan to buy her in the future, because I need to face the reality and downgrade consumption.
The most unbearable thing is that I have lived together for so long, and my mother is a little pretending, saying that I don't eat shrimp and fish or something, and I will leave it at night, and I will come back the next night anyway, but I won't eat the first meal. I ate the fruit I bought secretly, and it was put in the fruit bowl, so I had to carry it to the kitchen to eat.
My husband didn't dare to face the problem, he didn't dare to face his father, and I felt that he was afraid of his father when he was a child.
In the face of such parents, I have no choice.
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A daughter who knows how to love her father must be a woman who knows how to love her husband;
A woman who loves her husband must be a daughter who knows how to be considerate of her parents!
This is not a contradiction. It's true!
The problem is: after all, there is a generation gap with your father, and your husband will not be able to understand and accept your love for your father at once.
My father's love may have been deeper, he just didn't say it. Of course, he wants his daughter to be happy. He certainly doesn't want to see a rift or estrangement between you and your husband because of him.
Communicate more with your husband! Both your father and husband are the most important men in your life, you have to instill your love for your father in your husband, don't make him jealous!
Your ten greetings to your father are not even as good as your husband's greetings to your father. Therefore, you must use your love to move your husband to accept your love for your father and transform it into a natural love for your father from the heart.
There can be no rush, there is a process. I believe that in the near future, especially after you have a baby, your life will be sweeter.
There is an old man in the family, which is better than the three treasures, don't dislike the old man, and one day, you will grow old and ......
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Hello! Your husband wants his dad to come over, you should go with your husband to pick up the old man and take the old man to your house. You take care of him with your husband, and this is not in vain for a good daughter-in-law who knows books and etiquette and is filial to the elderly.
As the saying goes: It is natural and natural to honor the parents of both husband and wife, although it is said that your in-laws did not give birth to you and did not support you, and you have no obligation to support them and serve them, but you and their son are husband and wife and a family, so it is relatively reasonable for the wife to bear some things for her husband and the husband to bear some things for his wife.
If you take good care of his father, in turn your husband will treat your parents well, you are so filial to your parents and each other's parents, and you will also be a good example for your children, in the eyes of your children, you are very filial elders, and when you are old in the future, your daughters-in-law and sons-in-law will definitely be filial to you.
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Remember the bottom line, don't live together in the same house. Even if your husband gives his dad the same street in the same community, you can rent a house. Your family doesn't owe him anything, to put it bluntly, both of you are naked marriages, and there is no such thing as a bride price.
Your husband's idea actually understands, that is, to make his father. Pick up and drop off the children to take care of the children, you can earn more money by going to work and finding a good job, so that the family is more relaxed. And your parents are not in good health, so they will share less energy.
These ideas are good, but the problem is that you are really not familiar with his father, and there will inevitably be a big conflict between a stepmother, you and your husband have a good talk and tell your bottom line. Say you've rented a house nearby or something, or buy a house as an investment. But don't live together, that's your bottom line.
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You don't understand the relationship between your husband and your parents, this is the relationship between blood is thicker than water, of course, your in-laws did not help you in any way, but this family relationship still needs to be maintained, this is your husband's filial piety, don't worry about your father-in-law will bring trouble to your life, will reduce the burden of your life.
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Although your in-laws may be very strange to you and your son, they may have deep feelings for your husband. First of all, let's accept life first, after all, feelings can be cultivated in addition. Don't stress too much, just go through it first.
It's good to live normally, if you and your children are still uncomfortable or even have some friction after a period of time, you will discuss it with your husband at that time, and you are willing to marry your husband like this, you can also see that you are very affectionate. I believe that your husband will weigh the relationship between the two sides well. You are a family, and if you have more than two people discuss, there will always be a solution.
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Let's come, the old man is a treasure, and there is a pension, it will hurt the grandson, but you must communicate with your husband in advance on the issue of educating your children. If you are used to bad children, you should ignore your past suspicions, measure more, and make money with kindness, if you are good to your husband's parents, you are good to your husband! But the whole family will love you as a daughter-in-law.
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Hello, it's nice to know to answer your questions, your current situation is that your husband's father is retired, and your husband wants them to come over and help you take care of the children. But they haven't taken care of the children all along, your parents brought them up for you, and now they come here, and you don't think it's suitable, because after all, they haven't given you any help before. I think this problem can be analyzed from two aspects.
As soon as they have just retired, if they are in good health, I don't think there is any need to come over, after all, there are your parents taking care of the children. If they are old and in poor health, then take it over, because as your husband, he wants to fulfill the responsibilities and obligations of a son. So you should consider these two aspects, and then consider whether or not to come.
This is a little advice from me, I hope it can help you, and finally I wish you good health, all the best, all the best.
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I think you have the answer in your heart, you don't want his father to come, but you don't know how to refuse, in fact, you can tell your husband the truth, after all, if you don't want to, you will be unhappy to live together in the future, and there will be many conflicts after a long time, which may affect the relationship between your husband and wife, and you can keep the status quo.
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If you have a stepmother, you will have a stepfather, which is a very real problem. It's no problem to travel here for a few days, but if you live together for a long time, there will be many problems. He is still very young in his fifties, and he didn't pay much affection as an elder at the beginning, so why should he ask the younger generation to pay reciprocatingly.
Is it just because of the junior! It's better not to let those two come to live, otherwise you will definitely regret it 100%. People who can only make people filial piety, the knife does not cut on their bodies, they don't know the pain, they only don't listen to the cannons!
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What should I do if my husband always wants his dad to come over, you should let him come over, if you don't agree, let his dad come over, my husband will be angry, and he will say that you are not filial.
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If you should refuse, you will say no unequivocally!!
If your husband's starting point is to ask the elderly to help you pick up the children, then you can make your own reasonable arrangements without the help of the elderly. If you really need the elderly, then maybe your parents will come to help.
If your husband is for the elderly, then wait until the elderly can't move.
If your husband wants his father to help check the post, that's another matter.
But no matter what, as long as you think that the coming of the elderly will affect the life rules of your small family, then you should clearly oppose it!!
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People are heart-to-heart, and his obligation does not mean that you must have it, it depends on the situation. If your husband doesn't give money and doesn't take care of your parents, then your father will pay for all your living expenses. If your husband has money to support your parents, then you can pay for and take care of his parents.
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In fact, after all, this is a relative with your husband, if you don't think about your husband, then you should also consider a feeling of your husband, after all, this is his father, no one can, forget the parenting grace of your parents, after all, it is an old father who raised your husband, you should also honor her old man, so that your children can see the power of your role model as parents, so that your children will repay your parenting grace in the future.
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Husband, the fellow asked his dad to come over, I think you should feel relieved. Prove that your husband is a filial child. She is so filial to the old man, she must not be able to rely on you.
If you think that your husband does not honor his parents, you think that he is a rebel. He asked his dad to come over, and you should treat the old man with a positive attitude and mentality. Caring for the elderly and taking care of life is the responsibility and obligation of our next generation.
You care about the elderly, but also for the next generation, and you will have children in the future. How do you feel when your children don't like you and avoid you? Therefore, whether it is a son or a daughter-in-law, they should be filial to the elders on both sides.
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You'd better do your husband's job, your husband hasn't retired yet, that is to say, they can still take care of themselves, there is no need to live together, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is still beautiful, but when they can't take care of themselves, you can take them to support the elderly, so as to avoid a lot of contradictions.
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As a man, I suggest not to let him move over, although filial piety to his parents is a matter of course, but there is no need to live together, they will have a stable economy after retirement**, and neighbors are also familiar with each other, it is difficult for you to get along well in this relationship, and the son is often the most difficult person to do between the daughter-in-law and the parents, so it is the best way not to break this balance.
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I suggest maintaining the status quo, the children should be taken care of by themselves, and the children's education is more important than making money.
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Husband, Lao Xie asked his dad to come over, what should you do? I think your husband's father is your father-in-law, and your husband often hopes that your father-in-law will come over, right, I think you are a daughter-in-law, and it is natural for a father-in-law to come over, because he is a son. Your father-in-law married his son to a daughter-in-law who is also a memory of e-sports, and it is not easy to say anything, if you want to say something, then others will say that you are not filial.
I don't think you should say anything more, let him come over, your father-in-law went to his son's house, and Uncle Li also came.
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You can consider renting a house nearby, and it is definitely inconvenient to live together. It is recommended to explain the problem to your husband and put your doubts, but it is best not to mention the things you mentioned above, which is easy to cause misunderstanding by your husband.
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You have to communicate more with your husband. If her father is in very good health, I don't think there is any need to come over and live together. If her father is old and in poor health. It is your duty to support the elderly. You can talk about your thoughts with your husband.
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Empathy, what are you doing to your parents, you are doing to your parents.
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Husband, I always want his dad to come over, what should I do? It depends on his father's age, and if his physical condition is not good, you can't strongly object to it. Well, we should have maintenance. The obligation of the elderly.
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1.Be prepared to go to bed at night, and be woken up by your child's crying at any time without losing your temper.
2.Be prepared for your wife to complain to you about the hard work of bringing up children without showing impatience. I also have to care about her in every detail.
3.Be prepared to be a full-time math husband should learn to do everything you miss.
4.Prepare things for the baby with your wife in the future, from the crib to the pacifier.
After going through these preparations, you are basically more than half mentally prepared.
Wishing your baby good health.
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