Are good people more likely to be looked down upon?

Good people, there is no subjective opinion in the face of right and wrong, the principle is blindly to make money, sometimes in the case of right and wrong is very clear, there is no obvious judgment, the choice is not offended, for both sides of the people are offended, the most important is the following points.

1. Soft-hearted. Accustomed to being soft-hearted, without a bottom line and principles.

Whether in the workplace or in life, we have seen too many sad people, even if they know that the other party has hurt them again and again, but after three or two good words, they immediately relented, and the nightmare began again.

2. Bear with your breath. Most of the good people are used to swallowing their anger and blindly giving in, and they can't win the respect of others.

Humility" "indisputable"....These excellent virtues are vividly expressed by these good old people, even if it is their own thing, these people feel that they should not fight for it, sad to cry!

Born in troubled times, blindly retreating, will eventually be buried, only by working hard, can we seize the opportunity and rise in the wind.

3. Always too stubborn about yourself. There will be no proper compromises and turns.

The saddest thing about the good man is that he is the most unprincipled person, but he thinks he is very principled, and he is stubborn and uncompromising in what he thinks.

4. It is easy to trust others. When I grew up, it was difficult for me to trust other people anymore, and I was critical and reflective about everything, because people are too easily influenced and influenced to judge.

And the good old man not only has no thoughts of his own, but also a joke of others, which will be taken seriously and become a plaything for everyone.

A really awesome person, not gullible, does not mean that he does not believe it, he has a thousand years of heart, and it is unpredictable, this is a master.

I don't know if there are so-called good people who opened this article today, and if so, I would like to advise you, don't be proud to feel that you are showing kindness, your so-called kindness is just a fool in the eyes of others.

Good people are generally less courageous, have low self-esteem, do not want to conflict with anyone, and do not have their own unique personality. Good old man, not a derogatory term, but it is by no means a compliment, learning to refuse, is the respect for the friends you want to associate with your heart, but also for yourself, I hope it will help you.

It's true, the good old man is even more despised

What is Good Old Man? A good person is a person with an easy-going personality, a good temper, a person who does not want to offend people, does not reject others, and lacks principles. The good old people seem to be popular, gregarious, and mingle with everyone, but the reality is that they are very despised.

Good people are afraid of offending people, and they lack principles in doing things.

We can be a little confused about the little things, it doesn't matter. However, in major matters, we must stress principles and the bottom line.

Good people are afraid of things, in the face of big things, they have no opinions, no position, never express their views in public, they wait and see what happens, they don't say a word, and no one wants to offend. Good old people are very unfit to be leaders. If they go to be leaders, he will not want to offend people or criticize their subordinates who do not commute to and from work on time, who are afraid of the severity of their work, who are perfunctory, and who are cheating and cheating, and who let them do whatever they want.

After a long time, those who work conscientiously and steadfastly will be very dissatisfied with the leaders of the good people, and the leaders will not pay attention to principles, which will discourage their enthusiasm for work. And those who cheat and cheat will not be grateful to the leader when they take advantage, they think that the leader is incompetent, and they look down on the leader very much. I didn't want to offend people, but in the end, it backfired and offended everyone.

In this case, how can the work be done well?

Good people have an easy-going personality and will not refuse others.

Good old people are good-tempered, easy-going, and easy to get along with others, which is a plus. But good people are generally cowardly, unassertive, and will not reject others, which is their weakness. As a result, others will take advantage of their weaknesses, treat them as fools, and like to make them do things.

Good people work hard to help others, and others only take it for granted, without gratitude, and look down on them from the bottom of their hearts. In the long run, the good old people felt uncomfortable, but they were embarrassed to refuse in person, only they held it in their hearts.

We must be good people, but we can't be good people without principles, good people without a position. A good person, you must have a sharp edge, so that others will respect you from the bottom of their hearts.

In real life, or in the real workplace, the so-called good man is indeed likely to be looked down upon, because such a good man, it seems that no one can be offended, when encountering contradictions, choose a neutral attitude, on the surface of the world, but such a good man often has no clear position, no clear yes, the concept of non-concept makes people feel that they lack a certain principle, therefore, in the competition in the workplace, it is easy to be isolated and excluded to a certain extent. And on some specific occasions, such a good person is often prone to when the two parties have contradictions, in the mud or mud, and even to a certain extent, it will stimulate the contradictions between the two parties, and sometimes the contradictions between the two sides will become more and more intense, so this seems to be kind, but for the other party, it will give one or both of the two parties a more hypocritical impression, thinking that such people do not want to be the kind of indisputable on the surface, and such a good person, on the contrary, gives people the feeling that they are more schemingIt can even be said that in the workplace, in order to achieve their own goals, there are some unscrupulous means, and time is the best standard to test a person's ability and character.

The more honest you are, the less you are valued, the more you are looked down upon, and you have to change! If you don't change, you may have a rough life, which is a very important piece of survival wisdom.

In fact, if you pay attention to observation, it is not difficult to find that in this society, most of the good people are in a position of not being valued, although their role may be important and their contributions are not small, but they do not have much influence, and it is difficult to become too big a leader, and most of the people around them look down on the good people.

Why do honest people have such an embarrassing living situation? This is because honest people have too many weaknesses that do not seem to be in tune with this society.

Most good people don't like and are not good at expressing themselves, and when competing with others, they are always easy to give in, and they don't know how to fight when they suffer losses. Such an honest person, no matter how good he is and able, is difficult to be known, so the more honest he is, the less he is valued, and the easier it is to be looked down upon.

The more good people are, the less they know how to use some skills and skills, or they disdain to do so, when doing things, they always seem to be more than principled, and the circle is insufficient, it is difficult to deal with some complex situations, they will only go straight, not only are not taken seriously, but also easy to offend people.

In fact, there are many reasons why good people are not valued and looked down upon, and as long as they are changed in time, it is still easy to solve. It is a pity that many honest people do not think about the reasons, do not know how to adjust and change, but just blindly conservative and incomplete or even give up on themselves, their will is becoming more and more depressed, and their fighting spirit is getting lower and lower, and the result can only be more and more unvalued, more and more looked down upon, and even a bumpy life.

To put it simply, this person has done good deeds and been a good person for a lifetime.

The innate kindness of doing good deeds is also my own belief, as the saying goes, it is easy to do a bad thing, but it is very difficult to do a good deed for a lifetime. A good person is someone who has done good deeds for a lifetime.

They will consider problems from the standpoint of others, from the standpoint of the country and the nation, which is the way they think and the way they behave.

In fact, a country especially needs such good people. In order to do a good deed for a lifetime, he rejected any revenge, any greed, so it was very difficult to do.

Because this is a kind of faith, I don't know how to refuse and be afraid, which affects the honor of my good man.

There are a lot of good people.

On the one hand, exercise eloquence and improve the ability to deal with the world and express oneself in language.

On the other hand, the eyes of the masses are bright! Those who take advantage of it will be disgusted and condemned.

And honest people will still get support, help and trust.

Good people are often insecure themselves, so they pay more attention to what others think, which can lead to a further lack of security. Don't dwell on past failures, forgive your past self, focus on your strengths, and believe in yourself.

Organizational aspects. For some daily work or work that they think is very important, the system of requesting instructions and reporting has not been strictly implemented. Ideologically, they do not resist or struggle against rumors and false remarks that appear in society, and there is the idea of a good old man, and the depth of criticism and self-criticism is insufficient.

The Aronson Effect:

This is due to the famous Aronson effect. The so-called Aronson effect refers to the gradual negative attitude as the reward decreases; A psychological phenomenon in which the reward increases and the attitude becomes more and more positive. Someone once conducted an experiment in which the subjects were divided into four groups to give different evaluations to a person in order to see which group someone liked the most.

The first group always praised it, the second group always derogated it, the third group praised it first and then depreciated, the fourth group first depreciated and then praised, and finally after the experimental subjects conducted dozens of people, it was found that most of them had the most favorable opinion of the fourth group and the third group the most disgusted.

We often hear people say: "People are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden." Why is it that the more honest and kind people are, the easier it is to be bullied? What kind of psychology are they doing to bully honest people?

OneSubconsciously think that honest people should be bullied, and some people subconsciously think that honest people are easy to bully and are taken for grantedThis subconscious may be influenced by some environment or some people, which has created their wrong psychology, so they will bully honest people.

IIThinking that honest people are cowardly and incompetentHonest people are kind, they don't like to fight, and they don't like to show themselves, some people will take other people's kindness and love as their cowardice, and they think that honest people can't, and then destroy their body and mind.

3. Bullying the weak reflects their strong psychology This kind of people are despicable and shameful, they bully the soft and afraid of the hard, how dare the egg touch the stone, they only pick the weak to bully, in order to reflect their strength, to bully honest people to prove that they are also a strong person, in fact, they are a shameful weakling.

Fourth, think that people are honest and have no "worries" after being bulliedHonest people generally choose to swallow their anger and not resist, and they will pretend to be obedient for a long time. This also makes some people feel that bullying honest people has no worries and can be unscrupulous. Fifth, it is easy to vent bad emotions to the weak psychology Now in the fast-paced society, there is a lot of pressure, some people will vent their bad emotions on the relatively weak, bullying honest people who make them feel weak, so that they have a sense of superiority.

Fifth, easyThe psychology of venting bad emotions on the weak is now a fast-paced society, where there is a lot of pressure, and some people will vent their bad emotions on the relatively weak, bullying honest people who make them feel weak, so that they have a feeling of being superior.