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First, take the initiative to seek and pursue with heart to obtain.
2. Expand the field of life and try new things.
3. There is not only one answer to all things in the world.
Fourth, dare to pursue dreams and hopes.
Fifth, only compare with yourself, do not climb with others Sixth, care about the people and things around you.
7. Don't be too confident, and you can't be unconfident.
8. Slow down a little when the pace is too urgent 9. Thick-skinned can be a little thicker, happiness is not without troubles Everyone knows the following eight secrets, and naturally has a happy life. 1 No one is perfect. You must admit your weaknesses and be open to advice, help and advice, as long as you have the courage to admit that you need help, success is assured.
2 Learn from setbacks. The attitude in the face of failure or setbacks should be to learn from them and continue to work hard. 3 Life must be honest and righteous in order to attract good friends to help you.
The famous psychologist Bardas was once asked, "What are the most basic and deepest psychological needs of human beings today?" She said
Human beings need love. But this is not limited to love between men and women, from the point of view of psychologists, good people are always happy. 4 Able to bend and stretch.
In good times and bad, our attitude towards life should be calm. If you make a mistake, correct it immediately. 5. Be zealous to help others.
If you want to be truly happy and respected, you should help others and have a good relationship with others. 6 To be nice to you, you must first be nice to others. When you are treated unequally, you must forgive and empathize with others.
7. Hold fast to your faith. When you do anything, you have to stick to your personal beliefs. 8 Happiness is always in the heart.
As long as you keep your mind open, it is difficult to give up happiness without you.
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Be true to yourself, be true to yourself at home, and get rid of all the false things. Tolerance and tolerance, less luxury.
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Integrating yourself into a big family allows you to find joy in the subtleties.
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First, change the perspective of your own view.
There are two sides to everything in the world. One side is good, while the other is bad. In order to make ourselves happy, we try to look at the good side.
Only by having a positive and optimistic attitude can we make our lives happier. For example, if you accidentally drop your phone when you go out, you should think that if you want to get a new phone anyway, you will drop it, but you have to freeze the bank card immediately, so as not to let others take their money away.
Second, when you think of something unhappy, stop immediately and shift your thoughts to the happy thing.
When a person is bored, he will definitely think of some unhappy things, so immediately stop such thoughts, change his heart and think about happy things. Try to let your good mood outweigh your bad mood.
Third, when you encounter a problem, you have to think about how to solve it.
People will encounter many, many problems in their lives, and when faced with these problems, we try to think about how to solve them, rather than thinking about the problems themselves. When you solve the problem, you become happier, and at the same time, you will find yourself growing up a little bit. If you're always there wallowing over the problem itself, there's a good chance you'll just complain.
Fourth, listen to some songs that make you happy.
** can bring me happiness and sadness, in order to be happy for yourself, try to listen to some happy songs. Let our own hearts flutter with joyful songs.
Fifth, keep smiling.
It is said that "a smile is less than ten years". A smile is a magic that dissolves all unhappiness. Keeping a smile makes us happier.
Sixth, fill yourself up.
Make your life more fulfilling, and have time to think about such sad things? For example, you can arrange time outside of work to read books, listen to **, watch sketches, etc. Of course, you can also go to tutoring such as painting or calligraphy, in short, just enrich yourself.
7. Socialize more with positive people.
Positive energy can be transmitted. People's moods also change with the mood of those around them. The people around you are full of positive energy, will you still be in a bad mood? Stay away from people with negative energy, or you will become unhappy.
In short, you can live by yourself, how to be happy, but you must have your own principles. There are tens of thousands of days in a person's life, and being able to live happily is the greatest happiness, and of course, it is also the greatest meaning of being a human being. We are looking for happiness all our lives, but happiness is in your heart, not in anyone else.
It's a day to be happy, and it's a day to be bitter, so why don't you let yourself be happier? Our heart is big, it can accommodate many people and things, but we try our best to accommodate people and things that we are happy about, as long as we put happiness in our hearts, happiness is very close to us. There is sunshine in my heart, and I can't do it if it's not bright.
May you all be positive and optimistic, and spend every day happily.
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Hello, according to your situation, I think that you are wrong in terms of ideological understanding, because you say that communication is useless, and you have too much error in this understanding!
Man is a higher animal because he can think, because she can work, because his way of communication is colorful.
Without communication, without communication, how to make your home happy and warm?
I suggest that you first correct your attitude, because you have your life, your family has your family's life, maybe they are busy with business or other things every day, and they care less about you, and you go to school every day, they are busy with things, and there is less communication, so now you feel that the family atmosphere is relatively cold...
At this point, I think that your parents are at fault, that is, they care too little about you, they are not active enough, and they may think that you have been more self-reliant since you were a child, and they want to give you a purely personal space; And your misconception is that you don't say anything, and you are stuffy about any questions and questions, and it is easy to give your family a sense that you are very self-reliant.
I think it's time for you to change your mindset and say whatever you want, and the reason why your friends can talk to their family members is because they trust each other and say everything, and you don't say anything, so there is a gap.
Now all you have to do is communicate with your family first, say what you want boldly, and don't feel that there is anything wrong with it, because you are a family!
Another is to be more considerate in life, so that your family can feel warmth in you, the role of love is mutual, this situation in your family is your family's negligence of you, they may not realize it now, but if you say it, they will feel sorry for you all these years!
Well, there are so many holes in the pants, and I don't know if it can help you, if there is anything else you need, you are welcome to ask...
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Read a book, listen to **, or visit a distant friend, take the opportunity to go out alone, go home and stay with your parents for a while, in short, a person to think quietly, after that time you will feel that things are actually very simple, happiness is actually very simple, as long as you relax, open-minded, learn to accept something, full of gratitude to the world, you will feel much better. Wishing you a happy o(o
In the face of such a situation, I suggest that the landlord should not insist on what a person stays in this way, I personally think, on the contrary, go out for a walk, know more people, drink more people outside, see the scenery of different places, let yourself be open-minded, the mood will be better, and then do some things that can accumulate mind such as chess, do yoga, do handicrafts, etc., and there is more participation in ** body activities, if you are really irritable, it is recommended to travel, change the mood and place, Meeting different people and things at different times and places will give you a sense of life. Finally, you can find a book that you have wanted to read for a long time, and it is recommended that you can learn to read a little prose, poetry and other articles, and you can listen to some soothing **. In short, you can't stuff yourself in the house, even if you don't go out, you have to communicate more with friends and family, think twice before you do, learn to be the master of your emotions, control your thoughts, remember, only you are your own master, and everything must be rational and emotional.
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Always let yourself smile、This smile is a sincere and happy smile、
You have to know how to buffer the atmosphere and let the people around you know that you are very sunny
There will be no pressure to get along with you
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First of all, you have to feel happy, when others are unhappy, you will also be infected, and learn to be humorous, it's okay to look at jokes, remember one or two, it's also good, the most important thing is not to lose your temper with others, smile often, it's best to be happy.
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Use your happiness to infect others.
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In fact, if you want to give happiness to others, you must first be optimistic, no matter what difficulties you encounter, don't be miserable! Only if you are relieved, your heartfelt happiness will infect others!
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If you want your friends around you to be happy, then you yourself must be happy, as long as you think he is your friend, just be friends with him, say anything, and let your heart open by his side. As long as you both open your hearts to each other, then you are happy, and she is happy.
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