Ask Teacher Ji! MZ, thank you, Mr. Ji Xuesong! mz

When this dissatisfaction is directed at oneself, it is manifested as self-pity, and when this dissatisfaction is directed to the outside, it is manifested as self-pity.

This type of person often has difficulty accepting dissatisfaction or frustration, so they cannot absorb these things, but exclude them from themselves, and it is easy to understand that when they feel sorry for themselves, they are also "external".

Self-pity and self-pity and self-pity are essentially the same, but the specific direction is different, and the choice of this direction is related to each person's specific life, with habits, but they often transform each other under certain conditions. Therefore, those who complain about themselves often complain about others, and those who complain about others often feel sorry for themselves.

As for how to solve it, it is not clear in one sentence.

So why feel sorry for yourself?

Life is only a little more than 30,000 days in the world, and you should enjoy every day of your life, including happiness and all the unsatisfactory things, because this is life.

Know how to free yourself, chat, bounce, and drink with friends! Accompany your family to do housework, think more about work, and spend more time with your girlfriend, isn't this liberating!?

You think so much because you feel too lonely, and the more you feel, the more isolated you will be.

No matter what, as long as you put your mind at ease, there is nothing that can't be solved!

Find a reason to break the condom

I would like to thank my teacher, Mr. Ji, because I will never be able to see ...... teacher who cares and helps me

I remember when I first entered the first grade, I was still a timid girl, and I couldn't talk happily with my classmates like others. Until I met Mr. Ji, my blood was like the waves of the sea, constantly boiling. Maybe it was because of the teacher's amiable face, but I suddenly wanted to raise my hand and speak.

Desire knocked out fear, and I spoke vividly and concretely, winning a round of applause from my classmates. After the teacher asked me to sit down, he asked me kindly: "It's good to speak, and I will speak more in the future!"

My face immediately turned red, but my heart flew up to the sky with joy.

I remember that in the homework book, the teacher's first comment to me was: You are a smart little girl, you must break your timidity in the future! I'm sure you can do it, work hard!

You are like a diligent gardener, carefully nurturing the flowers of the motherland so that they thrive. Teacher, I thank you, you are like a golden key that leads us to the treasure house of knowledge. Teacher, I thank you, you are like spring rain, sprinkling bits and pieces of knowledge in our hearts.

Thank you, Mr. Ji, for a long time, I often communicated with you through the Internet and asked you some psychological questions, and you answered them carefully and meticulously every time, like an elder to a junior. So that my confusion can be solved. Thank you very much.

Just in these insignificant words, I pay tribute to you! I wish you all the best and success in the days ahead!

Okay, stand it up for you.

Thank you to so many friends and teachers who have served us for free. Thank you.

Oh, I don't know who it is, but I'm cheering you up.

The weather itself does not have this magical power.

It's just a personal psychological factor, and when a person's mood is connected to something outside the body, the sensitive person remembers the connection.

And when it reappears in the future, it is unconsciously connected to the mood, and over time, I feel that the weather can change my mood.

In fact, this is just an illusion of consciousness.

The specific reasons will vary from person to person.

But what I can explain is that it has to do with the human body.

When the weather is cold, the secretion of adrenaline hormones decreases, which has a certain impact on people's mental state, just like feeling irritable when you feel hungry.

Also, it has to do with mentality.

Perhaps when people are unconscious, and the mental hint is "the weather is so bad, and the mood is also bad", the mood will naturally not be so good.

It's normal, don't worry.

Just give yourself a few more positive cues.

I used to be as open as you were to the Agitation, and I was very sensitive to the weather. When the weather is bad, the mood is bad.

Later, after studying psychology, I realized that in fact, I had a problem with my psychology and was unwilling to face it, so I found an excuse to make myself uncomfortable, "it has nothing to do with the weather".

In fact, people have to learn to face their own problems, and many problems have already been solved by the time you face them.

Now when the weather is good, I tell myself that I like to see the sun, and when the weather is bad, I tell myself that in fact, Yuyou wax water is very good for the dealer, and flowers and plants are needed. Think about it from a different angle, and you won't be nervous if you think about things better.

For friends who are interested in psychology, especially psychology, psychoanalytic books are a must-read, however, this kind of book is more difficult to understand, but it is very helpful to deeply understand the inner activities of human beings, and there are many such books on the market now, of course, for beginners, it is a good choice to read Freud's "Introduction to Psychoanalysis" first.

Psychology and Life", People's Posts and Telecommunications Press.

It's normal, some people just think it's funny to do that, after all, your husband didn't really date them, and if he did, then there would be a real problem.

I used to have a classmate (female) who also likes to talk to girls as a man, and sometimes behaves very "badly" on the Internet. Later, I asked her, in fact, the reason is that it is fun and funny. At that time, QQ was just popular, maybe many people had a sense of freshness, and everyone added it as a friend.

But slowly people are getting serious :)

I guess it's not your husband who has been in contact with QQ for a long time! But now it shouldn't be a problem :) Couples should communicate more, after all, it's not a thing to chat online every day, don't ignore your family.

I passed by, it was a personal hobby, and it was not a big problem if you didn't go to extremes, you don't have to be too strict, can you open a male account and be his husband.

You guys just have fun playing together.

One of the uses of the Internet is that it can do things that can't be done in reality.

Everyone has a curiosity, and maybe your lover's curiosity is to know what other men are thinking about ......Hehe......It shouldn't be too much of a problem, and when he's annoyed, it won't be like this.

Lonely!! Isn't it too much for him to do such a thing over and over again without knowing it and in your way?

It may be obsessive-compulsive disorder, it is best to go to the hospital first, a detailed psychiatric examination will be more clear about your situation and what to do.

It's in your subconscious.

There is a demand for perfection.

You may be a perfectionist in some ways.

Go see a doctor, early**Oh!

There are three points in the dream you mentioned:

Trucks – life and work.

Tires – an important part of trucks.

Needles – difficult and painful.

In this way, it seems very clear, you may have been plagued by some kind of hardship since you were a child, if there is a problem with the tire of a car on the way to your destination, the result can be imagined, this little "needle" is consuming and destroying your success little by little, and you have actually seen the problem - since you have seen that the needle is the little defect that has been hindering you, then why not remove it in time, and then repair the tire?

When you see water droplets and hear the sound of water passing, it is actually a hint of time, and its slow-motion scene is likely to have an impact on the overwhelming advertising techniques you usually experience on TV.

The psychology is not Zhou Gong, he will not tell you what this dream brings.

This is a very deep impression on you, so you will pay special attention to this dream, you need to relax yourself, maybe the pressure of work is too much, take a good rest.

Is it something you've experienced before, or something you've seen before, or ......something elseIt has too much of an effect on your shallow consciousness.

I used to be like this when I was a child, and I always had a dream: there was a big bad wolf that ate a little sheep, and it chased me ,......Damn, it's horrible!!

But when I grow up, I don't have this dream anymore, I think it may be the sequelae left by my grandmother who scared me when I was young!

Hehe, it doesn't matter much!

Dreams and psychology are linked. You are going to have this dream, which may indicate that you are an acute person in real life, and you will be a little nervous because something has happened that you did not expect. Do some relaxing activities, create a relaxed mental environment for yourself, and you will be happier!

It must have something to do with something you've been through! Have you ever thought about it?

This shout may mean "don't know".

Because I think of the hen

It may be that I don't know Mr. Ashimasa.

Ji is a princess meaning... The latter one,It's easy to understand.。。。