Love your father, but you don t love your father, does your father not love his children?

Your situation is very common and very normal. Looking at your description, I believe you have a certain understanding of Freud's theory, here I don't need to explain to you again, for your advice in this situation: love is sinless, but there must be several principles, first you must protect yourself, do not give yourself completely (as an 18-year-old girl, you should understand this meaning); Second, you can tell a friend you can trust, and then talk to him or her about it, and you calm down during the discussion. Third, if you still feel very painful and can't think about it, go directly to the teacher (remember, only ask him alone), tell him what is in your heart, and then face it bravely.

All of this has only one purpose, that is, to let you go through this period of psychological turmoil smoothly and without serious consequences, and when you grow up over time, one day, you will suddenly open up and turn your past into a beautiful memory, into a scenery on your long road of life.

Love and hate are always so inseparable.

The father's "wild woman" took away the mother's husband and the daughter's father. You hate her.

But whether the "wild woman" exists in reality, you can't effectively vent your hatred for her. So, you need someone you can hate and vent your hate.

How can I find this object most easily? - It is to turn yourself into a person you hate. Little girl, have you noticed that you are trying to get down the path of the "wild woman"? Your current pain is the result of your deep hatred for yourself.

Little girl, you are fighting with yourself, and the loss of love makes you angry, and the object of this anger is being played by yourself.

It is an indisputable fact that your father hurt you. But life is often more complicated than people imagine, maybe my father has his own hardships and reasons. Little girl, hate comes from love, and love can also come from hate.

When you are able to give up your hatred for your father, you will find yourself too to break free from the mire of pain, your mother did it, can you do it?

Hehe, you have the potential to be a good psychiatrist.

It's like there is a saying that "a long illness becomes a cure".

You know very well what you are in, what you have lacked fatherly love since childhood, what is very painful, what is likely to fall, what is confiding in someone safe (mother), what is a long-term sense of distress, ......

All of them are basic for a psychologist to consider for patient counselors.

I think you're only 18 now, and seeing a psychiatrist is too bad from an economic point of view.

From an environmental point of view, whether your friends and family (mainly mom) will have a negative impact on them?

So I suggest that you should find someone who understands psychology or a direct psychiatrist as an ordinary friend.

Then slowly study psychology to adjust yourself.

This solution is the most effective and sustained medicine for you.

Look at everything else, look at this and that, and the money that spends money is not suitable for you.

The 18-year-old girl should not bear too much weight on herself.

To put it simply, you will study psychology and aspire to become a psychiatrist.

You have the potential to be a good psychiatrist.

That's a good answer, I'll leave a mark

No, most fathers love their children.

The love of parents is embodied.

1. Nurturing love.

The grace of nurturing is greater than the grace of birth, raising children, educating children is the embodiment of parents' love for children, and children will also feel the full love of their parents in the process of growing up.

2. Care for children's physical and mental health.

Physical and mental health is important as children grow up, and every parent wants their children to be healthy and healthy. Therefore, they are very concerned about the physical development of children, because children's physical health is more important than anything else, and the older generation says that the body is the capital of the revolution.

3. Think about your child's future.

The most important thing about your future in this world is your parents, because they are the ones who gave birth to you and raised you, so they are always concerned about you and your future.

4. Encouragement and support.

Or do good deeds, and many parents will praise and encourage them. Because parents want to see their children do more good things. Their encouragement and support also make children more motivated.

5. Respect children and make them more confident.

Respect children's privacy, respect some of their choices, respect children's views on certain things, and let children be more confident in front of everyone and show themselves assertively.

6. Tell children some principles of life.

Parents who love their children will tell their children some rules for dealing with others. Let children understand the importance of self-discipline on the road to growth. And so on, there are many manifestations of parental love.

There is no parent who does not love his children, but the father buries this love in the bottom of his heart and is not good at showing it.

1.The appearance of the child's father-love complex shows that the father has established a glorious image in the child's mind, which should be affirmed, because the child will learn more from the father. Of course, mothers should reflect on their own shortcomings and actively correct themselves.

2.As a mother, don't show dissatisfaction in your words, affirm your child's father-love complex, and actively join in, so that your child can feel your love and understanding for him, and show his excellent side.

3.It is normal for children to love their mothers, because in the growth of children, mothers will pay a lot, and there are very few children who do not love their mothers, so the father should show understanding, communicate more with the child, communicate more, and let the child feel that the father is equally important to him.

You belong to a deformed relationship, to distinguish the difference between dependence and love, you can go to a psychiatrist to communicate, control your pathological emotions.

It's okay to choose a mate next time.。。。 It should be a little more specific (Prince Charming in my heart).

This is normal during puberty, but it is not normal if it is mature.