Deep inferiority complex confusion, the cause of inferiority

First of all, you have a very good figure. About falling in love, it actually depends on fate, why should you compare with others? You have to appreciate yourself first, and others will appreciate you more.

Be confident, be clear or for yourself, and don't live in the eyes of others, let alone for any boy. Know what you want first, have a good grade, go to a good university, get a good job, and earn a lot of money. If you have a big face, you can do it with makeup or plastic surgery, Nicks.

You're in your third year of high school! Everyone is preparing for the university entrance examination, but you are thinking about why no one is chasing me! When you go to college, you have a lot of time to think about it, people are tall and have a good figure, I envy it, a little dress up is very beautiful, fashionable!

However, if the person is tall, it sometimes gives boys a sense of pressure, after all, boys still prefer small birds! Feelings depend on fate, and there will naturally be when it arrives, so don't worry.

What's the hurry, isn't falling in love now all about delaying learning and delaying the future? Maybe it also delayed the innocence. Fate can't stop it. Happiness awaits you in a queue.

What is there to be inferior, you also have advantages, no matter how perfect a person is, there are shortcomings, don't be inferior, be back to the most true self, the real self is always the most beautiful!! Trust me, don't feel inferior, keep your head up, and be the self who has no inferiority, is uneasy, only happy and happy.

Perhaps, your low self-esteem is the main factor that has put you in this predicament. Do you really think you're that bad? If so, then no one can help you, first of all, you have already vetoed yourself, so is there any room for negotiation?

I'm not a veteran psychologist, so I'll give you a message: optimism is the most precious quality of human beings. If you want to start something, just go with the flow.

The original family code for people with low self-esteem.

1. The degree of tolerance of parents shows an overreaction to their children's intentional or unintentional mistakes. Second, the sense of distance between parents and children is obvious, and parents are reluctant to communicate with their children on many topics. 3. The attribution method is incorrect.

Blaming others for problems and pinning one's hopes for the future on one's children will be said to be useless and unproductive if their children do not perform well. Fourth, do not support children to express their own opinions, a sentence of adult speech, you are not your turn to interject and often hang on the lips. Fifth, if one of the parents lacks love, there will be control and extreme excess of one parent.

6. Often compare, sarcastic, and sarcastic with one's own children and other people's children. 7. Use us all for your own good as an excuse and habitually deny your children's choices. Drink advice, be too frugal, deduct the rigid consumption of children in the process of growing up, and even use the current family situation to kidnap children's pursuit of material life.

For example, my mother said to her daughter who had just started school, "If you buy this book, your father and I will be hungry, or you and other classmates should make do with it." Becoming a person with low self-esteem is not our own choice, most of it is due to the environment in which we grew up. Happy people spend their childhood ** for a lifetime, and unfortunate people use ** for a lifetime ** childhood.

This sentence is an exaggeration, but even if the original family will not affect us for a lifetime, it will affect us for at least a while. The only way to solve it is to realize the independence of spiritual and material life as soon as possible, break the negative self-perception feedback practice formed between the family of origin, and make good use of past experience to inform the inner inferiority. Your previous judgments reveal educational faults, but that doesn't stop you from being a good person yourself.

Regarding inferiority complex, Adler noted that "no one can endure inferiority complex for a long time". In other words, although everyone has an inferiority complex, it is so heavy that no one can endure this state all the time. Having an inferiority complex is a state in which you feel that your current "me" is lacking.

Feelings of inferiority can also be an opportunity for hard work and progress.

To make up for what you lack, the healthiest attitude should be to want to make up for the lack through hard work and growth, such as studying hard, practicing diligently, working hard, etc. However, people who do not have this courage fall into an inferiority complex.

An inferiority complex is a state in which one's inferiority complex is used as an excuse. Specifically, it is like the idea that "I have no success in Bitong because of my low education".

Not being able to succeed is actually not wanting to succeed, simply put, being afraid to move forward or not wanting to really work hard. Unwilling to sacrifice the pleasures you currently enjoy – such as play or leisure time – in order to change yourself. That is, they do not have the "courage" to change their lifestyle, and even if they are dissatisfied or unfree, they still prefer to maintain the status quo.

The philosopher's words are really heartfelt and thought-provoking, and it is normal to criticize unsatisfactory external factors.