What are the manifestations of a person who has suffered a severe emotional injury?

Some people don't dare to give their sincerity again if they are hurt by love once. People in this category usually have the following symptoms after being injured:

First, it is very cold to the opposite sex. People who have been hurt in a relationship have a very disgusting attitude towards the opposite sex. After they learned from the past, their image of the opposite sex who had hurt them was too deep, and they no longer dared to trust others easily.

I don't want to believe that there will be good people. They were bitten by a snake once and were afraid of grass ropes for ten years. They hate because of love, and they can't love anymore.

It's that kind of vigilant attitude towards everyone. They don't trust anyone anymore in their bones.

Second, often say things that are desperate for feelings. A man whose heart was broken. Their attitude towards feelings is very negative and pessimistic.

There are a lot of people who can't get over this hurdle. Even after many, many years of passing this hurdle. They're still going to be haunted.

After all, how can people who have been in their hearts say that they forget and forget.

Third, I don't dare to accept the object I like very much. The most obvious manifestation of a heartbroken person is even if he meets his beloved. But he no longer dared to open his heart.

will become very conservative in dealing with relationships, and dare not accept the next relationship easily. Such a person is the kind of person who is very affectionate, and the most distressing person. There are many opportunities to seize happiness, but I dare not grasp it because of the scars in my heart.

So until the end, I was still alone to face the miserable life.

Fourth, they are used to enjoying life alone, and they are used to shopping alone. I'm used to eating alone, and I'm used to handling everything by myself. Treat love without heart and lungs again.

No matter how much the other person pursues, he always feels like he can't love anymore. I feel like I'm on my own. I used to think that money was not important, but now I feel that only money can bring security.

They will be very realistic.

On the surface, it is calm, but deep down you will never trust the other person, no matter how good you are to him. Because they will never give their hearts away again, they sometimes look at their deep relationship from the perspective of a bystander. However, I will also silently observe in my heart to judge whether you are sincere to him, and once you realize that you are not sincere to him, then you will leave decisively regardless of the sunk cost.

Severe emotional trauma can lead to two manifestations: indulgence and closure. After suffering a serious emotional injury, he didn't believe in the existence of love, and indulged himself from then on, regardless of drunken life and dreams. Otherwise, you will go to the other extreme, for fear of being hurt again, close your feelings, and hide away from other people's feelings.

If a person has suffered a serious minor injury, they will become very distrustful of others, and they are also very sensitive when they speak, they will have bad thoughts because of other people's words, and they are also very sensitive, they dare not start a new relationship, and they will always have a long distance from others and cannot get along.

Insecure, and prone to crankiness, and his nerves are particularly sensitive, and he is also very introverted, and his personality is also very withdrawn, etc., these are all signs of too serious emotional intelligence.

Even if you meet someone you like, you don't want to start a relationship with the other person. He will be particularly insecure, and he will be very defensive of other people's pursuits, feeling that the other party may have some bad thoughts and is not sincere to himself. He will be suspicious of your relationship and have a special inferiority complex.

It's especially easy to get cranky. I usually like to be by myself and don't like to go to some parties. Particularly cold and silent, not very willing to speak.

I rarely talk to others about my previous relationship.

Unwilling to touch feelings easily, and will keep a distance from boys, At the same time, they will not believe in men's words, they will protect themselves, and they are particularly inferior, and they have no majesty in front of men.

Normally, they will close their hearts, they will not be willing to open up, they will not be willing to trust anyone.

And every time I face the person who confesses to them, I always refuse, I don't agree immediately, and I don't want to open up to others.

I don't trust anyone, I don't fall in love with anyone.

In our lives, there are many boys or girls who show very low emotional intelligence when they fall in love, so sometimes their sensitive and prudent Zen behaviors are very businessmen, and even because of their behaviors, they will lead to the end of their feelings.

First of all, the other party in public does not give the other party, especially for boys, he is a very good face of biological filial piety, if you step on his bottom line in front of his friends, have been touching his inner things, do not give him face then the boy's feelings for you will be simple, although he may not have broken out at the time, but it will be reflected in the future, of course, girls are also very good-looking, so boys should also give girls a certain amount of respect outside, A good relationship is always to praise each other and treat each other as their ideals.

Secondly, it is also a very wrong practice to compare your other half with others too much, because if you care too much about the feelings of others in the relationship, then your other half will feel pressured, because the relationship is a matter of two people, if it is very unworthy to affect the relationship between you because of external factors, especially to compare with other people, it will only make you constantly disappointed in your lover, then your emotions will also have an impact on the other party. Smart people will only spoil the person they love and let others envy them. Therefore, you must know how to tolerate each other in your relationship.

In the end, it is also a very sad heart to always talk about the shortcomings of the other party, because there is no one in this world, he is perfect, as long as it is a person, there will be some shortcomings in his body, if you love him, you should accept his shortcomings, and if you really can't bear it, you can help him get rid of this shortcoming through some appropriate means, if you keep counting him, he will also feel bored, So your patience, teaching, and patience are the best medicine for the solution.

I would like to tell you a little story, the little couple on the train, both of whom are not good-looking, he pulls her, smiles coquettishly, and teases him, while he is blind-eyed, embarrassed by being loved by a woman whom he is not proud of in public;

What behavior between couples hurts the most, the first pair of other halves love to ignore each other, and never take the initiative to contact each other;

second, I was unwilling to communicate well, and I didn't think about communicating with each other;

third, refuse to change their shortcomings, have to pretend to be early, and live a foolish life;

Fourth, I'm like this, if I can stand it, I can bear it, and if I can't stand it, forget it! It's used to coming out of the bag, who doesn't have a giant baby? I'm the same as you, I'm used to it, and if I can't get used to it, forget it;

The fifth, it's suspicion, in fact, there's no problem with guessing, but don't believe in your suspicion, leave a little room to observe and observe, but also to protect yourself This is a sense of proportion, and more importantly! Don't just guess it, just mess around, do the next move, wait and see what happens, turn around and make a move, you promise not to regret it;

The sixth one is a rake, this old man is helpless, and before he finishes speaking, you will turn around, find fault with me, and also speak righteously, I can't even insert this in my mouth, it's really too sw, stupid empty I think about it, I will be desperate with you for a long time;

These belong to daily life, everyone does not break or stand, break and then stand!

Always compare each other with other members of the opposite sex, and then count each other down; The tone is full of arrogance and respect, looking down on each other, and always hitting the other party's self-esteem; always says that the bad ants of the other party's parents have nothing to say, so that the children are cautious and embarrassed.

In a relationship, there are very hurtful behaviors such as insulting the parents of the other party, letting the other half get out, letting the other party return the things you once bought for her, and the two people will throw you halfway through the spear banquet and domestic violence against you if you don't agree.

This is a difficult question, because everyone's emotional experience and feelings are different, maybe some people feel that breaking up is the most hurtful, some people feel that betrayal is the most hurtful, and some people feel that indifference is the most hurtful. However, in my opinion, the most hurtful act in a relationship is disrespecting the other person.

1. Ignore the other half, never take the initiative to contact each other, many people refuse to communicate, and like a person to sulk in life. He also ignores his other half and never takes the initiative to contact the other party, which will only deepen the conflict between the two people. Originally, the two of them were angry, and everyone made a love and ignorance look, so such a relationship will eventually be shattered.

2. I never thought about communicating well, let alone thinking about communicating with each other, good communication is the basis for establishing a good relationship, and only communication can promote a closer relationship between two people. Once there is a conflict or misunderstanding between lovers, some people always like to think that they are not at fault, and the fault is with each other. If you don't want to communicate well with each other, and you don't want to communicate with each other, then such contradictions and misunderstandings will never be resolved, and will only get deeper and deeper.

3. Refuse to change your shortcomings, get by, and fool some couples, both parties will not think about each other, refuse to change the shortcomings they know, and think that the other party can't accept their own shortcomings is not to love themselves, and they must accept their own shortcomings. Turning a blind eye to their own shortcomings, getting by, and fooling life. Then such a relationship is a needle-to-needle relationship for both parties, and it will not end well.

4, I am like this, I can bear it if I can stand it, even if I can't stand it, I know my shortcomings, and I put on a proud face, I am like this, I can bear it, and if I can't stand it, forget it. I believe that the vast majority of couples who have this kind of problem and put on such an attitude will eventually fall apart.