How can you resolve the grievances of your deceased loved ones?

Go and prostrate yourself more often and tell your repentance to the deceased person in the hope of forgiveness. Even if that person forgives you, in fact, you will never forgive yourself, people are like this, do things, you must do it right, of course, it is normal for small things to be wrong, as long as you correct it, but if it involves major events and moral issues, you will definitely regret it for a lifetime, and it will be a lifetime in your heart.

Go to Xiangmen to see it, send it when you should send it, sometimes you don't believe in this, it doesn't work, it works, you go to Xiangmen to see it, I hope your deceased relatives can be comforted, put into the earth for peace, and live in bliss early.

It depends on what wishes he had not fulfilled during his lifetime! You're going to help him do it! Then, find someone who knows how to talk to him, as for whether it can be resolved, it depends on his mood!

The pain of losing a loved one, only if you have experienced it, you will have that feeling of pain in your heart, and only by turning this pain into persistence and enthusiasm for life, so that the surviving lover can enjoy her wholehearted love and make life fulfilling.

Then you can solve this grievance and solve the problem fundamentally, and solve the grievance from what it came from, and just confess everything.

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Keep deep thoughts in your heart, leave a place to commemorate them, and live well to encourage yourself as an upward motivation. It's normal to miss your loved ones, but it's not appropriate to dwell on it.

1. Missing is silent, missing is a gentle knife.

Everyone has relatives, we can't be with our loved ones forever, there will always be a sedan chair to go first, when facing those deceased relatives, we miss them, this is a very normal emotion. Missing someone is silent, silently putting him in your heart, somewhere in your heart that belongs to him. I don't want to say that missing someone is a gentle knife, we want to forget but can't forget, can't forget his voice and smile, can't forget every moment we get along with him.

Everyone will have such a time, I experienced this mood when I was 13 years old, because everything came too suddenly, my father died suddenly, I didn't know how to deal with this when I was a teenager, I cried loudly at that time, and later, my family, friends and teachers came to persuade me, I restrained this emotion, and put a place in my heart for my father to keep.

2. Live well and work hard to repay your relatives in heaven.

There are not many people in this world anymore, first my father is gone, then my grandmother is gone, and then my father-in-law is gone......Relatives leave us are not comfortable, especially I have lacked a sense of security since I was a child, I long for family affection, I hope everyone is together, by the fathers by the love of brothers and sisters, warm me, the more I look forward to it, the more I always stop and go and separate from my relatives, so life is not easy, if you meet it, cherish it. I think the best way to miss your loved ones is to work hard and live well, and I believe this is what our relatives in heaven are looking forward to us. Every year when I go to pay tribute to my father and father-in-law, I will say that I hope they will bless us in the spirit of heaven, so that our family can live a happy life, and the children and adults will be healthy.

I can only use this way, I can't always cry bitterly, I can't change my relatives if I cry too much, we are separated by yin and yang when my relatives are gone, and we can only wait for the next reincarnation when we get together.

I know that the death of a loved one is very uncomfortable, and I understand that it is like being stupid, and I am not in the mood to do anything. We understand this kind of mood, but we should not precipitate it, we should use a rational way to live a better life, treat the people around us, so that we can complete our life, so that each of us can be satisfied.