30 years old, fell out of love the other day, and there is no hope for my life? 20

Updated on society 2024-07-27
28 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    Life is full of unknowns, every different situation is tempering you, falling out of love is not terrible, it is terrible because of the loss of love makes you lose the same as life, lose your fighting spirit.

    A person's life, destined to some people are a passerby in your life, don't care too much, only if you are strong and make yourself more excellent, you will have stronger self-confidence, and more people will appreciate you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It's very normal to fall out of love and be sad. However, it does not mean that there is no hope for the whole life. Love is just a part of life.

    It doesn't represent the whole story. That is, everyone does not live to achieve and have love. Your current emotions need some time to ease.

    You can try to live in a different environment. Like what. Travel briefly.

    Go to a different place to digest your negative emotions. You can also talk to a good friend. Go to the movies, have dinner with friends, and cry.

    As long as you can release your mood, you can release it to your heart's content. Everyone will understand you. After the emotions are dissolved, you will have a lot of new understandings and new ideas.

    Life still has to go on. The same goes for pursuit.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Most people don't have love. They have a good impression because of their appearance, talent, money, and even character. But in fact, it is themselves who love and love, they love the vanity when they are loved, the sense of existence that is tortured, and even the inferiority complex born from not being loved.

    In the end, love is the emotions that you give birth to, but it has nothing to do with love.

    You will slowly find that everyone is not so important, love yourself a little more.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Ending a relationship is a better start to the next relationship, falling out of love is definitely painful, but time will erase this pain little by little.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Face life with a positive and optimistic attitude, open your heart to accept the new environment and people, walk out of the past, and bravely face the new life.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Only 30 years old, it is a good year, don't recover your heart, as long as you work hard, there will still be hope for the future.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    People will always experience peaks and valleys in their lives, and it is normal for people to have some loss and sighs during the trough, but we must also learn to comfort ourselves not to let ourselves be in this negative state all the time, so that we can get out of the trough and regain our livesFor women who are 30 years old, have no job, and fall out of love is indeed very shocking, and here are some of my suggestions.

    First of all, I think you should learn to comfort yourself and not give up on yourself. The current failure actually doesn't mean anything, if you don't have a job, then you can now look for a suitable job according to your ability, don't think about the treatment first, the main thing is to let yourself have something to do, and you can forget these sad experiences through the busyness of work. Through your own efforts, you may be able to find a path to success and change your life.

    You can also take advantage of this time to make a plan for your future, so that you have a goal and you have the motivation to move forward.

    If you are really uncomfortable, you can also let yourself relax by traveling, maybe seeing the magnificent rivers and mountains of the motherland and some simple customs can make you rediscover some of the beauty of life, and make you forget your depressing and painful experience some time ago.

    Don't give up the expectation of love, if you fall out of love, it's because you don't have enough fate, you have to take this failed love experience as a test in your heart, I believe that with these love experiences, your next relationship will be very beautiful and long-lasting, and the other half of your life will also be waiting to meet you in your future time.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    People will always lose themselves, lose their purpose in life, and become depressed in the face of continuous difficulties. Don't be discouraged, not falling in love means that the other half of your life has not yet appeared, like a lot of love is not necessarily happier than you, the most important thing is to find the real your lover, life is not smooth sailing, there will be a lot of setbacks, or people will cry when they are born! o(∩_o...

    So you have to put a good attitude, you can look for a job if you don't have it, even if you don't leave your original job, it won't necessarily have a big development for your future development, maybe when you have a new job, you will look back and find that the original departure was right, and Seong lost his horse and knew that it was not a blessing!!

    Anyone in the world can betray you, as long as your family will never turn their backs on you, communicate more with your family, and talk to your family more about your thoughts and difficulties, how can you be understood if you don't say it? Your family wants you well, so communicate with your family more.

    Everyone in today's society is under a lot of pressure, not only you have this situation alone, many people are not as good as you, so think more about it when you encounter difficulties, after all, life is still a turning point and hopeful! The difficulties are only temporary!!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    What does it mean that you haven't really been in love, and it's all unrequited love? Is it because your personality is a little too persistent that it will lead to that? In fact, now 30 years old is not old, as long as you let go of your own ideological burden, look at your feelings and career, don't be overly obsessed, here is hopeless, give up and seek other, opportunities exist all the time, just see if you are willing to open your heart to accept.

    Don't be too concerned about what other people think of you, that's just someone else's opinion, and I don't mind that I can't change anything. Why don't you calm down, think about what is the reason for this situation, make changes to your own problems, and live is hope, isn't there a saying that "there is a cliff ahead, and hope is around the corner"? Don't keep looking at one direction, there is more than one way to succeed, change your thinking, turn a corner, it's hope, come on.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    During the period of unemployment, go on a good date, watch movies, go shopping, eat, hold hands, hug, press the road, watch the sunrise, and travel.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Try to take a few deep breaths, big and deep, while thinking back to the happy things you encountered when you traveled with your friends, the mountains and rivers you saw, and then tell yourself that I am excellent.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Nothing, I'm the same age as you, I have a similar relationship experience with you, but I'm optimistic, there are no hurdles that I can't get over, believe in myself, I'm excellent.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This is nothing, some people have not been married all their lives and are not still living well, the key is to have a good attitude, think about some things that are happy for you, and don't think about unhappy things, which will only make your mood more depressed. If you don't have a job, you can find it again, and if you rest at home, you will take a long vacation.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I don't bother to say it if I don't divide it, the reality is cruel.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's not that he's old, it's obviously immature.

    Lost in love for half a year, suffered a heavy blow from love, and since then he has been in a slump, unable to arouse interest in many things, and began to be confused, and he doesn't want to work hard.

    Is it so bad to fall out of love?

    Is the sky falling?

    Who hasn't fallen out of love when they're young?

    Emotional things can't be forced, and the twisted melon is not sweet.

    Love is love, and scattered.

    Is it necessary to be merciful and self-inflicted?

    If the other party knows what you look like now, they should really be glad that they left you!

    Besides, there is no grass at the end of the world!

    What you're doing now is ridiculous and ridiculous.

    In fact, no matter how much you spoil yourself, who will pay attention? Who cares? Who would mind?

    No one, no one!

    This ** looks like a 30-year-old?

    Thirteen years old is about the same.

    I hope you will get out of the state of broken love as soon as possible, and use your own vitality and smile to meet the rising sun every day.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    This is a kind of anxiety, I am 31 years old, half a year after starting a business, the company is not operating well, the company's rent has not been paid, I have been repossessed, I have lost a year's hard work, 30 years old, I can only start from scratch, not to mention the loss of love, there is nothing to lose, come on, brother, give yourself 5-10 years, work hard, and strive to achieve something within three years. It's never too late. As long as you're willing to put in the effort.

    Don't be satisfied with the status quo, your efforts can't be pretended, don't be comfortable, don't give up!!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Falling out of love is actually not a god, and it is best not to affect your own work, otherwise the gains outweigh the losses.

    Feelings belong to feelings, if you fail, you can sum up the lessons learned, and there will be opportunities and fate in the future. I have to say that fate is very important, so don't worry.

    At the age of 30, it is the stage of being in the prime of life, so work hard and study, feelings are just a part of life, don't affect the overall situation because of this frustration.

    Therefore, there is still work to be done, and as long as you work hard, you will reap the rewards...

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Falling out of love always requires a period of adjustment to yourself, feelings are very tiring, since you break up, you need to let yourself say goodbye to the past completely, and then turn to yourself.

    Allowing yourself to have a transition and a buffer, even if it takes a little longer, is a kind of growth, and when you look back, you will find that even if it is such a bad and gloomy day, there will be no second time in your life.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Well, everyone has to have a goal, and then, follow this goal, and then you can't give up, so you can't stick to Zhimei and persevere. After setting this goal, I will do it. Ah, don't change your mind.

    Just like when we study, if you are going to set a goal and score 100 points, then you have to keep doing the questions, keep reading books, um, keep asking others, keep um, then I believe that as long as you have this goal, then you will continue to do something. Regardless of whether it is done right or not, anyway, there is a goal, and the talent has a head.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Although it seems that hard work is useless, it is better than developing the habit of being lazy, falling out of love, sometimes it is a good thing, and you will meet the real right person ...... while growing up

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It's because you're out of love, not because you're old, maybe you've invested too much in that relationship, once you're out of love, you'll be even more lost, and you'll always be living in the shadow of falling out of love, time is good medicine, half a year is not too long, I hope you self-regulate, regain your strength, and it's easier to change with a new relationship.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    It's not because of age. It's a state of mind. Actually, there's nothing wrong with wanting to live comfortably. Some people pursue vigorous, and some people pursue calm and indifferent. Go with your heart and don't get too tangled. Life is too short, and living every day well is also a kind of wisdom.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Thirty years old, a good age, at this age you have to believe in yourself, to find the kind of momentum when you were young, to work hard, because your current efforts can create a good family environment for your own wife and children in the future, you will also find joy in success, but also remember, no matter how old you are, don't stop working hard, because there is a lot of beauty in this world that is worth exploring. Come on!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I guess it's all influenced by the environment. If you don't have so much pressure in life, it's really easy to have this kind of thinking, after all, you earn your own money and spend it yourself, and whether you live well or not is just a matter of one person. When you have a family, I believe this kind of thinking will change, especially after having children, it is not as simple as eating and dressing alone.

    Even if you don't eat or drink, you don't dare to bitter your child, so don't worry, after you get married and start a business, you will be motivated.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Don't fall, look forward, isn't it just a broken love, who hasn't experienced it, I'm about the same age as you, but I'm still trying, maybe one day the goddess will come to you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Thirty is still young, start all over again.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    No, it's the frustration and stress in your life that makes you so. Be curious, love life, and strive for age irritated. The best thing to do is to change yourself slowly and make yourself better, so that you won't have this kind of trouble.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    You haven't met the right person yet, take your time.

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