Doesn t it matter what you do? I feel too tired to get married and buy a house

I'm not a psychiatrist, so I can't explain your idea in exact medical terms, but I did have the same experience as you. I have also held different positions in various companies, especially in sales. Salespeople are the most likely profession to lose self-confidence, and they will get bored after being overhit or rejected.

At this time, we usually want to give up, and even think that if we are the director of a certain office, we don't have to work so hard. The more these thoughts arise, the lower our mood becomes. Usually I just give myself a day off and wait until my mood improves before I go to work.

Now, I borrowed some money from my family and friends and started my own business, but the business was not good, and I blamed myself for not being able to do what I liked and was good at. These are very simple psychological problems, I don't think it's some kind of disease, as long as you can properly let go of the psychological baggage, you can definitely get through it.

In general, these reasons are because I have lost my self-confidence and lost the idea of fighting. As long as time and space allow, the problem can definitely be opened.

Hello wode929.

Since you're in sales, I recommend reading some success books, many of which are about sales. After reading it, you'll know what your problem is. Best wishes.

It's hard to make choices about your life path.

Everybody's not right, I'm going to tell you, you're still young, you definitely want to start a business, and I think so, but don't you think that's a pipe dream? Why did you start a business? Have the funds?

If there is no money, will the home be given to you ? If the family doesn't give you a suitable job, you must work hard if you have a suitable job for yourself, don't think about it, I will definitely start a business, so I will only ask for trouble! Young people are very fond of playing!

The boat will be straight to the bridge, I believe you will have your own career, people must have ideals, what is the difference between no ideals and salted fish, there is an ideal, there is a future, work hard!! Don't forget to choose me as the answer!

Every young person has such an idea, this is indeed a fantasy, when you really want to do something, no one will help you, everything can only be on your own!

Because you haven't found something that can make you work hard, you are similar to me, only when you are forced to a dead end do you know to work hard, of course, people like us are not bad, we can turn evil into good fortune.

It is impetuous, a common disease of Chinese.

There is still no pressure, there is pressure to be motivated.

Looking down on the gains and losses, it is naturally not so tired.

Let him become a stranger in the city, and everything will have nothing to do with you! You're relieved, too.

The pressure should still be appropriate, and the main thing is to get moving.

At the same time, we must solve the problem while being happy.

If you want to be happy, you don't want too much pressure, it's not okay. A lot of things you don't care about "it", then you will be like this for the rest of your life. Eat and sleep whenever you want, without any stress?

It is also impossible under the condition that the economic conditions are met, after all, there is still the corresponding responsibility!

You may be able to try to change your attitude towards life, mindset is everything. As long as you have a good attitude, will you still not be happy! As for the pressure....If there is pressure, there is motivation, if there is motivation, there is momentum, and the mentality is always young

How many women are willing to rent a house with their husbands and get married.

What I wrote below, you must take a look, patiently try for a few minutes, experience the psychological feelings, you may find the ultimate method of all mental illness, of course, it can also be used as an aid. Well, my real experience, when the heart is uncomfortable, I will recite the four words of Amitabha, and experience the feeling of touching and peaceful and soft in my heart when I recite the Buddha, and the mood will slowly become relaxed, full of hope, and I will think about it with one mind, try not to think about anything, I will experience the change in my heart, from melancholy to happiness, and feel that everything is indifferent to the kind of relaxation, just get it by reciting Amitabha, first recite it for 10 minutes to try, and you will feel it yourself. Don't think about anything else, just recite Amitabha Buddha with all your heart.

Slowly, your heart will be calm and strong.

Go out to travel, you don't have to go how far it will cost you, you can enjoy the mountains and rivers with your heart, and the power of nature can soothe your spiritual fatigue.

Put your mind down, have you ever thought that maybe your boyfriend is also under pressure at work, and he has been holding it in his heart, not telling you for fear that you will be in a hurry. After dinner in the evening, you can go for a walk, go shopping, watch a movie, etc. You may not be able to see the quality of your boyfriend in the kitchen, and don't care too much about Valentine's Day, the relationship between two people is not measured by Valentine's Day, maybe one day when he proposes to you, he will be more moved by you!

Caring too much about one person is easy to lose. The best way is to make yourself independent, there is a saying that men are reliable, and sows are on trees. The landlord and his boyfriend have been together for 3 years, is he always like this, or is the landlord used to his boyfriend like this.

Women, just can't be too nice to men. The more you take him seriously, the less he takes you seriously. If your boyfriend doesn't do housework or accompany you for the holidays from the beginning, then it can only be said that he doesn't love you that much.

Someone who truly loves you will not make you sad and cry. Of course, this may have something to do with your boyfriend's upbringing, family, and many habits. Take advantage of your youth, let go decisively, and find your true ideal person.

If you are already worried and insecure, it is recommended that you look at the status quo. The more you care about a person, the more you compromise, and the more you lose yourself. It's like this when you fall in love, so what about getting married in the future...

My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for five years, but I find that the two of us are becoming more and more like relatives, and we don't seem to be in the same mood as before. Now that you're together, you can try to change yourself, change your hairstyle once in a while, change your style of dressing, or don't go home to a friend's house on weekends and leave him home alone, and then keep an optimistic heart on your own, don't worry too much about anything, and hope to help you.

It's been so long, it seems that he still has real feelings for you, you have to have faith, you tell him, you come to accompany me, I will be very satisfied, I need you, open your heart, open yourself wholeheartedly, talk about your vulnerability, say your dissatisfaction, if he loves you, he will be willing to accompany you, be close to you, be careful not to give too much.

Be considerate of each other, life is not about falling in love, everything is practical, it's not cold, it's just burying the romance and becoming practical, I want to open a little.

This is normal, everyone has anxiety, calm down, give yourself independent space to think about how to control your emotions.

Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, if you don't cook, you can do it yourself, everyone has his (her) freedom, why force others, why do you care about these Men's main thing is to make money, single-minded, and the rest doesn't matter.

Because you're getting more and more familiar with it, these things are expected, and you should have to have a good conversation, and sometimes you have to learn to give up, after all, there is no burden now.

I don't know me as much as I do, and I don't want to think about it.

Hehe. Do you care about other people?

Man, man. Eh, who can say clearly about feelings? I don't know how I can help you, or make you better all at once

Maybe you can find an appropriate opportunity to relax yourself. Then reacquaint yourself with the life you are living now. If you're not satisfied, try to change it.

In many cases, it's not just that you feel that you've worked hard to achieve results. The most important thing is people and people, things and things. Huh.

This is a fact, now that people have become house slaves, can there be no pressure to work tirelessly for the house and car?

In fact, it's not that you force him, now society is like this, society forces us! Your boyfriend is pushing himself too! Don't blame him! Comfort, comfort, comfort!

People say that the power of love is great, enough to change a person, your boyfriend is complaining, if you really want to live a life in the future, do you still need to force it? You continue to observe his performance later, it's okay to say this a few times, but the meaning is different every day.

I'm in high school.

Copyist, I'm not good at making friends, I have a good friend in the class, but her attitude towards me is always hot and cold, if she is in a good mood, she will have a good time with me, but she is in a bad mood and ignores me, no matter how I talk to her, she also ignores it, other classmates talk to her, she will reply normally, I look very uncomfortable, I think if I don't talk to her either, maybe she will take the initiative to find me, but she never took the initiative, I just want to know what can be done to alleviate this situation, don't tell me not to be friends with her, after all, she is the only friend I have. Ask for help.

Have you ever forced it? Or is it just his feelings.

Break up, what are men going to do like this.

In the future, others will wear clothes for thousands of yuan, and you will wear tens of yuan for example.

I'm tired of being with you, but I like you

You don't put too much pressure on him, care and encourage him more, men are sometimes the main ones who care and pamper them.

I think you should break up, since he said so, it means that he is tired of being with you, and a man must be responsible and responsible, but whoever he is with is like this, he is talking about the current life, everyone has pressure, if he doesn't pressure others to recruit sons-in-law.

It depends on whether you usually mention this to him often, if so, he is suggesting that you should mention it less in the future, and he needs your encouragement and support. The other is that your boyfriend lacks a sense of responsibility and is not self-motivated.

Maybe your way is too tight, the pressure is that he can't breathe, encourage him appropriately, and don't make a gap in your relationship for some small things.

When men are tired! Will break up soon.

It means I can't afford to buy a house.

It's useless to say here, it's still necessary for two people to communicate.

You never understand how tired, hard, and stressful men are.

Even if he's really stressed, he shouldn't tell you like that, maybe he doesn't love you that much.

Men love freedom. It doesn't matter how much pressure you put on yourself. Whoever it is, it doesn't work at all.

Man: Don't put too much pressure on him, then he'll want to run away.

You have to keep your sanity, do it and cherish it, and cherish all the happy life you have now! Don't care about what others say. They are not people who really know you, and there are some things that you can use to say it, such as:

After drinking, tell the sad things! This is an opportunity, don't be discouraged, God is fair to all! Remember, do and cherish!

Pure hand fighting! I hope the landlord adopts! )

Thinking too much, thinking too much, complaining too much, of course tired. If you want to open a little bit and look at the light point to see the point clearly, there is no hurdle that you can't overstep.

First of all, you need to understand the reason why people live in this world and live tenaciously, and secondly, you need to recognize what kind of creature you are and what your status is.

That's because you're not content. Think about it, you still have your son. You don't care what your parents think of you. It's good to be happy yourself. If you think about it, you can still laugh and cry very well, and some people don't even have the opportunity to cry.

It's good to be alive, and someone will understand you.