My mom always says that my mouth says, if I don t act, what should I do, do I want to refute it?

In fact, many times the way parents think about problems is the way of adults, and you are still young, it is the way of thinking about children, so she feels that you are not doing it right. But you think you're right. Brother is from the past.

Now you can clearly tell your parents' way of thinking, their attitude towards things, you can't say that everything is right, but at least they are right in the overall situation, but because they are adults, they will have different opinions from you when telling you how to do or educating you, because you are still a child's way of thinking. Your mom says you're not doing anything. But you feel that you are very serious, and you can only say that you have not used the right method in learning, and you have not been rewarded, and I believe that you are also very distressed, because you are already very serious, why you still can't get a return.

I must have been depressed. Here I'm telling you a little bit. It's that the world doesn't revolve around you, this is a world where the weak eat the fittest, you have been serious, worked hard but there is no gain, you are distressed and useless, you can only find a reason from yourself, change your own methods, find a correct way to get rewards, use your own brains, think about your own problems, in combination with what your mother said, you can talk to her, parents may not judge everything accurately, but one thing is that parents must not pit you, Because that's your parents and your parents, many things are not angry, upset, and a tantrum can be solved, after losing your temper, if you still go to the future in your previous way, the problem will still be there to hinder you, only by finding the reason yourself, another way to solve the problem.

Don't have a tendon, use your brain more, and escape when you encounter problems is not a way, but should be solved, in this life, what you have to think about is what I should do, not what I want to do. Reason must triumph over emotion, and you are halfway through life. That's what it takes to be responsible for yourself.

Whether you study well or not has nothing to do with the future, look at today's big money, how many of them are rich with good academic performance? Each path in life is different.

Learning well doesn't depend on the beating of parents.

Most parents in China just don't praise their children. There's really no good way to do this.

It is normal for a mother to care about her daughter, she just has the wrong method, you may understand her when you bring your daughter in the future, this situation may only be after you get married, you will be better, be patient, and you will always find a way to recognize each other by colluding with her.

Communication is very important, you can communicate with your mother calmly, say how you feel, I communicate with her often, it is quite effective. If your mom is too strong to listen, then you'll have to shift your important stuff.

It is advisable to go out and break through on your own.

In fact, my mother is also like this, she is very short-tempered, she sometimes gets angry at me when she is in a bad mood, and always says that I am not good in front of outsiders. I also felt depressed, but I got used to it after listening to it too much. I don't refute or talk back, so as to avoid greater resentment.

When she scolds you, you pretend to be listening, don't worry about anything. Flip through the book, or put it a**, don't talk back, and when she calms down, there will be nothing. In fact, sometimes you will find that she still cares about you afterwards, and it is just a knife mouth and tofu heart.

As a child, it is also appropriate to be considerate of the hard work of parents. She couldn't vent at work or outside afterwards when she was in a bad mood, so she had to stay at home. It's okay, I've gotten through it.

I have some suggestions for dealing with family relationships:

1. Be humble, don't be a needle to each other about everything, give each other more opportunities to talk, think more about each other, avoid unnecessary conflicts, and family affection is priceless.

2. A surprise creates a dramatic effect, and often many contradictions are lost in jokes.

3. Divide responsibilities, assume your own responsibilities and obligations, do more for the family, and think less for yourself.

4. Dualized communication, many conflicts are due to the lack of communication between family members, which exacerbates the conflicts.

5. Be open-minded, life is short, we should create a harmonious society and a harmonious family, think about everything, don't worry about everything, don't intrigue, don't be greedy, be open-minded, and be grateful to live a relaxed and happy life.

When it comes to weight management, they have a different plan for everyone, and they can not diet or exercise.

Then you just leave them alone, go to the gym by yourself, and they will regret it when the time comes, just think about it and be with you in the first place.

You can go swimming on the weekend, compare the body, and the motivation is (manual funny).

You use the Thorn Gold Age**, I used it for two months after giving birth.

Speaking with a hard mouth means that what you say is too direct, merciless, and you can say it when you want to, which makes others feel very embarrassed, has no face to speak of, and is very uncomfortable. It is recommended to learn appropriate patience, do not rush out of your mouth when you think of words, go through them in your mind first, what can be said directly, and which words need to be said smoothly in a corner, so that people can easily accept and not offend people.

The next time you encounter this situation, you will reply to him: I'm sorry, I'm a straightforward person who won't tell lies or flattery.

It's that you speak too directly, too impulsive and not tactful enough, to put it bluntly, what you say to provoke the other party not to listen or make the other party feel embarrassed, try to use less affirmative tone in conversation, less refute the other party, in short, live a fake life.

The meaning of this sentence is that you always feel that you are reasonable, and you always have to take advantage of your tongue, there is no need to be like this, listen more, talk less, see more and think more

As the old saying goes: a duck dies with a hard mouth! By extension.

Does it mean that you speak in a hard tone? In this way, speak softly in the future, and there is no need to refute them, and prove them wrong with reality.

Haha, saying that the mouth is hard may be strong on the outside and dry on the inside, or it may be that you like to lift the bar, which requires you to analyze and understand your own personality traits and the way you speak and communicate!

How do you know hard? Have you tasted it? If you don't understand me, don't judge me.

What do you have to do with someone to say.

It's just that you're too stubborn, too serious.

Ignore her, her mouth grows on someone else.

It's just that you can't check what you hear, and it's called straightforwardness

Child, you have to understand your mother, your mother may not have a high level of consciousness, but she raised you and raised you, she only has a junior high school education, she does not necessarily know what you see, and the effort she knows may be to let you eat well, let you dress decently, let you live comfortably, and let you have a more stable life. Mom, it's not that she doesn't want to take responsibility, but she is a little vulnerable, Mom is not superhuman, she is just an ordinary woman. They have suffered too much in their lives, so they don't want you to follow her old path, so they ask you to be stricter, but you must know that she is for your good.

But mom can't know all your thoughts, but if you don't like it, then talk to her well, and if you can't talk about it, follow her, if you can't do it, just grow up early and let yourself master some independence. But no matter what, I hope you can understand her and be considerate of her.

You should find someone who is more familiar with your family and ask, bystanders,,, secondly, I believe that there will be people in the world who are not worthy of being parents, but the principle of being a man cannot be lost, and it is enough to have a clear conscience

Do you think such a mother raising you for so many years is a success or a failure?

Don't let go of another angle to think about it, she let you know how to be annoying, how to do it wrong, you know how to do it is wrong, the root of the parents' quarrel is **, knowing that these are giving them psychological counseling, you hate your mother a little, you have to start with your mother, you can half-jokingly say to her, "Mom, look, you do a lot for me, for example, if you do a certain thing casually, I don't like it, why don't I like it, it's because you're doing it wrong, It's because I saw you do this, I know it's not right, if you don't do it, I don't know, it's you who taught me, it's not right to do it casually."

And so on, for example, your parents are the teachers of people like you, what you have to do is not to get bored, but to understand, to learn the lessons, isn't this increasing your experience, do you say?

You can talk to your mom that she doesn't see the growth you deserve in you.

Maybe she thinks that you rarely accompany her, and there have been unhappy things recently, she wants to care about her and pay attention to her mood.

That's if you don't act.

Are you a fool? You don't trust him, why do you want to continue to entangle with him, people say they love you, you don't believe it, you don't love you, you blame others, are you the sun? Do people revolve around you?

Love is relative, you don't know if you love him or not, what qualifications do you have to ask people this? I don't expect you to adopt it, I'm just reminding you to put yourself in the right position, no man likes a woman like you....

You can't change it, maybe you should change yourself and let yourself find a reliable boyfriend!

Take care of him with your heart, be the best girlfriend in his eyes, and let him feel your goodness. He will protect you with his actions.

If you care, you're annoyed, if you don't care, you won't be annoyed if you say anything.

Or tell your mother that you want to rest quietly, so that the cold will heal quickly. I'll be able to come the way she wants.

Pity the hearts of parents all over the world.

Understand more.

Lose sleep over something. If you can be good early.

She'll be fine.