The indifference of breaking up, how to do indifference.

Well, hello. I'm in the same situation as you, but I'm a boy!

My girlfriend gave me a very unclear reason for breaking up, and I didn't have any intention of trying to make amends, I just wanted to know what the real reason was, and I couldn't get an answer! It makes me very, very sad, and I feel the same way as you about whether everything she was with me before was real, and it makes me doubt myself and all the seemingly beautiful things in the world! I just can't believe in love now, I can't believe the feeling!

All we can do now is not think about him or her, since they have made us so miserable, we don't need to let them make us even more miserable! That is also torture for themselves, no matter what reason they use in their hearts to convince themselves to make such a decision, we don't guess, we don't think about it, we are too tired to stand it! But I probably won't get out of this event for a few years, because a breakup with no reason and no ending is not an official breakup at all, and it hurts our hearts too much.

I probably won't believe in love anymore! Even if you meet the right one or like it again, you shouldn't be able to love it again!

Make yourself feel comfortable, here's what you need to do now! You need to forget that such a person who has hurt you is not worthy of your can't help but like him! Let it go!

Maybe we'll be miserable for a while, maybe even years! But at least not for a lifetime! Even if you can't forget it for the rest of your life, it shouldn't affect you anymore!

While I am persuading you, I am actually comforting myself, hehe, I hope we can all get out of this shadow as soon as possible! In the future, you will have a future decision, don't think too much and too far now! Forget about them and devote yourself to other aspects of your life, whether it's work, study, or family. ok？

Maybe you started by mistake, and you chased him. I don't think he likes you.

It's good to break up and break up, find other men who are more worthy of your love, why hang yourself from a tree.

He may have fallen in love with someone else, don't be sad about someone who doesn't care about him.

Life is good, there is always someone waiting for you.

Don't ask anymore, you know the answer.

Let's keep the last of my self-esteem.

Time will get you better.

The one who is destined to leave does not belong to you, and a person who has never really loved you in the first place has nothing to be nostalgic for.

Liking is just a complex, and anyone will have an emotion for something they are familiar with, even though you know it's not the most perfect.

A small tree can never represent a large forest, and not all boys are not princes.

Yes, it may be hopeless.

Since you like him so much, why don't you go to him and ask him for clarification???

Since it is already very indifferent, let it be a thing of the past. Life is just as wonderful without him. Good luck.

It's a bit unpleasant. Your love experience has become a precious gift hidden in your heart. However, the ex-boyfriend in front of me holding hands with other girls seems to be a denial of your wonderful experience.

Actually, every experience makes people grow, and your experience is the same. Your experiences will be your treasures. Maybe it's a little relieved, since the breakup, he has the right to find a new girlfriend, and you can also find a new boyfriend.

Although I still can't accept it emotionally, it is reasonable after all. Therefore, you have to be good, especially in this case, you have to take your own measurements. If you can't bless them, you will avoid them.

If you don't think about it, you will naturally ignore it. If you don't miss his love, you will naturally ignore it. I don't love him anymore, who does he go with and what does it have to do with you? To be a Jedi, ruthless!

Treat him like a normal classmate, and if you feel relieved that he is no different from everyone else, you can ignore him.

Uh: This.

Don't pay too much attention to him, don't think about it and don't look at it.

Where there is no grass at the end of the world, why bother to love a flower?

On the day of graduation, the two of them broke up!

Wait for that day, you'll be happy. (Wicked laughter...)

There is a good saying, if the old does not go, how can the new come. You should feel more about your body, more contact with more things than love, feel more affection, or put yourself into work. You can pour out your emotions to your parents if your feelings can be spoken.

If you can't tell your parents, but it makes you really miserable, do you have friends? I'm sure they can listen, if you have such a good friend you can trust. In short, let's vent a good time first, and then slowly devote yourself to your life, and be kind to the people who love and care about you.

I've been through this hurdle too. After so many years, thinking about how crazy I was back then, I was so crazy and wanted to live and die, which made the people who cared about me worry a lot, and I have met a better one now, shouldn't I still thank the wrong person for letting go? Think about it.

If it hurts, give yourself a chance to rest, indulge well, relax well, talk well, and then live well and love life, you will be better. Be a high-profile person, because you are no worse than anyone else. Come on.

I won't go into a long speech, but I know that to ignore others is to snub others, to snub others is to ignore others, to ignore others is to hate others, and to hate others is that person who offended you, who offended you?

Eun, yes....Those are in the past tense, and the pain in front of you makes you have to choose to let go, when you break up, she, him, start a new relationship, if they hold hands in front of you....And what you should have done didn't happen, then you have done indifference, and at that moment we will understand what indifference is!!

Indifference is an attitude that gives people indifference and is indifferent to others! This will affect the normal communication and communication between people, and we should turn indifference into attention to people!

Treat it coldly and don't take it to heart.

Maybe each of us will have a deep attachment to each other.

How do you know that the other person is no longer in love, maybe you still don't feel at ease, if you let go, you can choose to live again.

No, after a breakup it may be awkward to meet.

It shows that you are really in love, because you love deeply, you can't even be a friend.

There is also the fact that when the other party loves you, they hide their true side, reveal the side you want to see, and only let you see the good side in order to make you happy. So that sentence, don't dislike the object like a child, when the other party doesn't love you, mature like your father.

It's not that it's embarrassing not to talk after a breakup, and I don't know what to say.

It is more heartbreaking to ignore a person than to hate someone. I feel that indifference is a kind of wordless harm, hurting someone else's self-esteem, ignoring someone else's existence, not caring about that person. If you hate that person, it proves that you still care about that person, and you still have a reaction to that person's every move.

Take lovers who have broken up as an example, they would rather be hated than ignored.

First of all, you have to look at your own mentality, but I think it's indifference, because then you feel that others don't like you at all, and that's very uncomfortable.

Love itself is unreasonable, and when you get it, you want to get more. Breaking up just needs a reason and an excuse. When I fall out of love, some people think that I will never fall in love with someone else, but I don't know that one day in the future, your heart will throb for another person.

No matter how deep the wound is, it will slowly grow new flesh until it heals after a long time, and how long it will take to recover depends on the degree of personal mental growth.

Love may be about tolerating each other and not caring about each other. No one is perfect, and can you ask that love is really perfect?

No one is perfect, and it is too late to cherish oneself when you lose.

Can't be friends after a breakup: If you have loved this person deeply, and he has been an integral part of your life, how do you switch roles to see him as a friend as if nothing happened? This is probably difficult for most people to do.

If it is said that after a breakup, they will keep in touch, it can only mean that one party has not really let go of the other party, and he is not willing to completely disappear from the other party's life, so he will find all kinds of seemingly high-sounding reasons to approach the other party. However, ask yourself, if you have really loved each other, if he is really sorry for you, can he really be friends? No, because the reality is cruel and not as colorful as we think.

Suppose both parties have a new love after breaking up, but you are still friends with your old love, what does the new lover think. Who doesn't think you're disconnected from your old love? The new love must be dissatisfied, and he is even more afraid of creating a diagonal relationship in the pulling and pulling.

Although there are some examples of peace and quiet, these stories are inevitably a little embarrassing to hear. When you see your old lover, how can you forget the days you have walked with him through thick and thin? Unless it has not been unforgettable.

Looking at your former lover, kissing me and me with others, and happily, is your heart really so balanced? All human beings are dignified, so why bother to suffer for themselves? It's better to get out of the sea of suffering as soon as possible, seal it in your heart, miss it, or throw it away and live your life again!

Hello: Ignore him no matter what the other person says or does.

Ignore him. The breakup was just a notice to him, not a discussion with him.

To break up is to ignore him, treat him as a stranger, everything is indifferent, and the other party will naturally know how to leave!

Ignore him, be indifferent to him, talk to him as coldly as possible, make excuses to quarrel, for a month or so, he will not be able to stand it, if he likes you, dislikes, and say it directly.