How do you make yourself happy and make others happy?

Man lives. In order to experience joys and sorrows, birth, old age, sickness and death, in order to understand what people live for?

In order to realize their own ideals, pursuits, goals, desires and values.

It's tiring, it's hard because society is very unfair

It's very helpless to be alive, sad and sad to cry, and if you find something to do, you won't be bored.

Because, life is like this.

No one's life is smooth sailing, as long as you work hard, it is wonderful!

Be optimistic about anything and keep a normal heart.

Life will inevitably fall and wait, to be brave to look up, the sun is always after the wind and rain.

I'll give you advice, can you see it?

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand.

For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

I sincerely hope that you are happy and happy every day! ~

True joy and joy; It comes from our comprehension of pain, not to avoid and cover up pain, not to force joy, but to look directly at pain, transform pain, pain and happiness. Since we can't avoid pain in life, then only by facing it correctly and rationally, we should definitely affirm and deny what should be denied, so that you can analyze the pain, can you calmly understand everything in the past, and make it a wealth, a memory, and a perception of your life, so that life becomes full and colorful. In the process of going through this, we have learned how to give up, how to choose and take responsibility, and understand that we must not escape and indulge.

If we can deal with the painful things well, then we will be happy in our lives, and we will know how to cherish and understand happiness ...

It's not easy to make yourself happy, so worry less about other people's affairs.