How can I be more comfortable in life?

Don't show off yourself too much in public. Some people will show off some of their achievements at work to their colleagues, such as how potential customers they have, such as how much appreciation they have received from their boss, such as how huge bonuses they have received this month, you must know that when you say this, those people with red eyes have remembered you, and you must know that the tree is a big move, you must know the truth of jealousy and hatred.

Colleagues should be more intimate, but preferably not inseparable. Some people often like to get close to their colleagues, their joys and sorrows, and their own life trivialities will be shared with colleagues, you know, you share your life trivialities with everyone too much, your shortcomings and advantages will be exposed, and even your privacy will be exposed in front of others, so try to pay attention to the proportions of getting along with colleagues. ‍‍

In daily life, working life is a very important part, think about it, except for 8 hours of sleep every day, the rest of the time is in the workplace, the quality of your working life seriously affects your mood, affect your quality of life.

Try not to debate in the office, some colleagues will often argue with everyone about who is right and who is wrong because of some points of view, and they have been chattering about some issues that go east and west. In fact, sometimes the problem at work is just a question of going east and west, there is no right or wrong, and the end result of your own blind discussion of things there is to hurt the feelings between yourself and your colleagues. ‍‍

Won't promise. At that time, the salary was only more than 1,000 yuan a month, and I had to borrow more than 3,000.

Type 1: What? Three thousand? Die!

Type 2: What? Three thousand? You might as well let me die!

Type III: What? Three thousand? Good! Give your mother 3,000, and give my mother 3,000?

Students, inference is the way of thinking in circles, do you know what are the possibilities, and what consequences they will have? The above three kinds will have the same consequences as talking about ants, you can deduce it.

I was the fourth: what? Three thousand? Are there any parents who borrow money from their children? Give it to her!

My husband didn't say anything at the time, but I saw his face bathed in sunlight! Can you extrapolate for yourselves, what happened next?

I remember when his brother got married, diamond rings became popular. My husband pulled me up one day after work and said I was going to see the diamond ring! I said:

I'll go! What diamond ring to look at? He said with a smile

Mom said that she bought a diamond ring for her second daughter-in-law's marriage, but she didn't buy it for her eldest daughter-in-law before, but now she wants to buy it for you! Haha, you see, right? That's the benefit of simplifying the problem, if you come with your husband to those three, things are complicated!

He might say: You're the one to die! Or maybe your mom won't want to borrow a penny after that!

If he gets angry and doesn't say anything, the problem may be even worse!

To sum up: by prioritizing things, you can simplify the problem, and the problem is simplified instead of complicated, and it is much easier to do! The same is true of happiness in life!

Have a great weekend everyone!

To achieve career and life, you need many conditions, and there is one thing that makes people feel like a fish in water, that is, good thinking ability!

With a good mindset, it is easier to find a job and a better job, you can better win the favor of the opposite sex, you can love for a longer time, you can learn more easily, and you can succeed in your career.

Just like me, I have been very smug since I was a child, lacking femininity, and the youngest in the family, I don't know housework, and I don't meet the requirements of my elders at all when I get married.

However, I have good thinking skills and can always grasp the main problem, therefore, after almost 30 years of marriage, my husband is still very willing to go out with me, my mother-in-law and father-in-law don't care about my shortcomings, and the people around me are still very envious of Brother Xiangyun's relationship.

On the contrary, some smart, delicate and lovely, and even beautiful wives and mothers have not survived the decades, either cold to each other, or jealous and hateful.

Actually, life is not so complicated, if you can simplify the problem, it will be a different picture, but to learn to simplify the problem, you must have a good mindset.

The reality is so cruel, and in order to survive in this cruel society, you must constantly strengthen your ability to survive.

In fact, there are many ways to relax, as long as you can relax yourself properly! Don't stress and inhibit yourself too much!

That way you won't get tired! And as long as you treat everything with a normal heart, there is nothing that you can't get over!

Believe that you are the best!

But the most important thing is to realize the value of personal survival, to prove that your existence has brought something useful to the world in which you live. Life is like a dream but not a dream, although sometimes people can't figure it out, but we still have to face our own every day seriously.

Man lives for the unknown; For love, for oneself, for one's family, for society, for one's country, people live to seek unknown answers and create unknown answers. When your actions are praised in small ways, you will understand the purpose of life; When your actions make a brilliant page for the unknown, you will find the meaning of life; When your actions achieve others and yourself, you will realize the value of life!

Maybe you have frustration; Maybe in the face of setbacks, you want to choose to fall; Maybe the long-term struggle for the unknown without reward has made you lose the fun, confidence and courage may be you should think like this: Only today's present is the most real and truly belongs to us, so cherish the bits and pieces of the present.

You can't control others, but you can control yourself;

You can't control the weather, but you can change the mood;

You can't choose the look, but you can choose the heart!

There is no depth of the blue sky, you can choose the elegance of white clouds;

Without the vastness of the sea, you can choose the elegance of the stream;

Without the vigor of an eagle, you can choose the carefree of a bird;

There is no fragrance of the wilderness, you can choose the emerald green of the grass!

Everyone is a perfect apple before birth, and God can't help but take a bite of each apple, so people have shortcomings, and more importantly, God gives people the motivation to fight for the unknown glory in life. As long as there is a sound body, there is the possibility of creating success; Just stand up bravely on your flaws and fight bravely.

The significance of building a socialist core value system.

The "Decision" of the Sixth Plenary Session of the 16th Central Committee of the Communist Party of China put forward for the first time the strategic task of building a socialist core value system, which is of great significance for deepening the understanding of the essence of socialism with Chinese characteristics, vigorously promoting a harmonious culture, and destroying the construction of a harmonious society.

Love, mainly depends on how you treat it, I think: plain love is true, when you fall in love with someone, don't care about the romance of love and many ways of love, everyone has a different way of love, don't be dissatisfied, too greedy, will lose rare true love, some people say that love will not last long, I think it is wrong, love has a long time, because when you do not protect true love, it will lead to love is short-lived, think that love will not last long!

Love someone: trust each other.

To love someone is to understand each other.

Love someone: Be tolerant with a lot of heart.

Love someone: Be open-minded.

Love someone: Respect the other person's thoughts and opinions.

Love someone: support him or her behind your back, not hinder.

Love someone: When he (she) can't accompany you, don't complain, and say to him (her) with a smile that I'm good and happy.

Love someone: Hide your inner fragility and grievances, and don't let him (her) know.

Love someone:...Too much love.

Maybe it's hard, can't it be done? Actually, it's not difficult, and the most important thing is:

Love should be selfless and have no regrets, love should be clean and pure, without a trace of impurities, willing to do anything for him (her), when you fall in love, you must make him (her) happy, as long as he (she) is happy, is the most important thing.

Think more about each other, be tolerant, understand each other, and appreciate each other!!