Will anyone really not fit in a relationship? What are the characteristics of such a person?

Updated on psychology 2024-08-13
14 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-16

    Most of the people in the dormitory are single, and she has no waves about falling in love in her heart. She got high marks in grades 4 and 6, and she never dropped a scholarship every semester. In my eyes, she is a typical academic bully.

    One day, I casually asked her why she didn't fall in love. She said that not everyone has to be in a relationship to survive. It's already busy when you're single.

    Why should I be in a relationship? When she asked, it seemed to make sense, is it idle to fall in love? I don't know if you have noticed that those boys and girls who are actively single have the following characteristics?

    First, I am busy with work and have no time. Most people are anxious these days. Everyone is busy studying and working.

    Second, insecure people are those whose wholehearted feelings are not answered, and who are afraid of being hurt again. It is better to be single and happy. I am free and happy.

    I don't have to change my true self because of others. Such a person often needs someone who pampers her and gives her full security, otherwise she may be single forever, and she doesn't want to risk stabbing her in the heart to fall in love.

    Third, financially independent, financially free women. Some people fall in love because of the pressure of work and life, and want to find someone to rely on and share their pressure. This is probably why people who come out early to work get married early and have children early.

    If you have a car, a house, and the ability to resist the risks of life, the need for your partner is not so strong. People who have no one else's good life, whether they have it or not, who are equally free financially and spiritually, are truly free people in love. Mr. Muhin's "Once Upon a Time" wrote:

    Cars, horses, and mail are slow, enough to love a person for a lifetime. The current car, Didi, and express delivery are all very fast, but it's too late to love someone. Love has gradually become a luxury, out of reach.

    There is no one in the world who is not suitable for love, only someone who is not suitable for me to talk to. I hope everyone can go to real love.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    The first point is that the personality is particularly withdrawn, in fact, such people are not suitable for falling in love, the second point is that people who often like to stay alone are not suitable for falling in love, and the third point is that people who often travel are not suitable for falling in love.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    Yes. Generally, people with character defects are not suitable for falling in love, and they can easily cause dissatisfaction with each other in communication, so it is more suitable to be alone than two people getting along.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    In real life, there are really people who are really not suitable for falling in love, such people are generally introverted, and their personalities are very withdrawn, or they are people who have a habit of cleanliness in life, and there is no way to enter the state of love.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Ugly-looking people are not suitable for falling in love, and this kind of person is very bad for falling in love. Such a person has some characteristics of low self-esteem and does not like to dress up.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    There is a category of girls who are not suitable for falling in love.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    People who care too much about the other person's reaction are not suitable for a relationship.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    There are some parts that are not suitable for falling in love, and they are too focused on the feelings of others and ignore themselves.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    What are the characteristics of people who are not suitable for love, the answer is about to be revealed, and you will definitely not be able to think of it.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    1. Girls who are not independent. The independence is too poor, you have to rely on others for everything, you can't do it yourself, you can't even take care of yourself and do what everyone needs to do, such a girl is not suitable for falling in love. Because you are not independent, you have to trouble others with something when you fall in love, and after a long time, the other party will also be annoyed.

    In this world, you can't rely on any one person, the only person who can give you enough security and protection is yourself, and no one will take care of you like your parents.

    2. Girls who feel that freedom is very important. Falling in love does not mean that you lose your freedom, but some girls advocate freedom and think that freedom is the most important, so this kind of girl is not suitable for falling in love. Because when you are in a relationship, you need to make some of your time for the other person and not just look out for your own business.

    Relationships need to be maintained, and it's not that you can get better if you don't take care of it.

    3. Girls who don't want to fall in love. Girls don't want to fall in love themselves, so don't worry about others. If you don't want something, it's useless for anyone to force it.

    Especially in the face of feelings, which are experienced by heart, they can only rely on themselves. Therefore, if a girl doesn't want to fall in love and feels that falling in love is very troublesome and has many things, then it is really not suitable for falling in love.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Summary. It doesn't express that some people obviously like each other very much, but they always accidentally push each other away, and they are obviously very affectionate, but they always make people think that they have no feelings.

    It doesn't express that some people obviously like each other very much, but they always accidentally push each other away, and they are obviously very affectionate, but they always make people think that they have no feelings.

    People who are too rational and rational will look at things and things more calmly, which is actually very good. However, love is a thing, often because it doesn't know what to do, and it goes deep, and it's so emotional. You may be more cautious along the way, you are very risk-averse, and you can be more sure that the other person is the right person.

    But you'll have a hard time meeting the right person, and it's hard to really fall in love with someone.

    When the most beautiful self really falls in love with someone, it will become jealous. Even two people who are obviously pig-like are afraid that someone will snatch each other away. But excessive suspicion will add a lot of doubts and twists and turns to the relationship.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Falling in love is not innate, and some people are born with a relationship that doesn't know how to fall in love with someone, because they don't know how to manage the relationship between the two parties, and even if they fall in love, it's easy to end it. So do you know what personalities are not suitable for a relationship?

    1. When I didn't fall in love, I was looking forward to falling in love, but after I was in love, I felt very upset. Before the relationship between the two is confirmed, they will feel very energetic, but after the relationship is determined, they will be too attentive and afraid that they will not be able to play.

    I'm not used to the pounding of my heart, or my heart is racing, and I don't have this feeling obviously. This is probably due to the fact that you are too suitable for being single and not suitable for being with a partner. In fact, there is no one who is not suitable for a person, only a person who can't fall in love, and only a person who can't overcome difficulties.

    2. Won't express. I liked the other party very much, but I kept pushing the other party away unintentionally, and I was very affectionate to the other party, but I kept making the other party think that I had no feelings for him. There is no problem when everything is normal, but when it comes to falling in love, I don't know how to express my feelings, either too heavy and let the other party feel the pressure, or too relaxed and make the other party feel distracted.

    In fact, the relationship should be relaxed and pleasant, without releasing too much pressure, of course, a good attitude is not so anxious, and you will come back with humor. If someone is very normal, but she can't express it when she chats with you, it is likely that she has feelings for you, because she feels sorry for you, so she is afraid that what she says is not suitable, so she will not be able to express her own meaning clearly.

    3. Sensitive and suspicious. When you really fall in love with someone, you will lose your temper more and more. Even the two of them, who were originally pigs, were afraid that some people would take each other away.

    However, being too sensitive and suspicious will elevate many problems and twists and turns to the emotion. It is really difficult to guarantee complete trust, but it is still necessary to save a little space and trust for the other party.

    4. Not good at words, and can't find topics to chat with. If the two want to be together, small talk at any time, and verbal expressions are almost all very important. People who know how to fall in love can always make the other party satisfied and trusting sincerely.

    People who don't talk about love often don't know what to talk about, and finally have a topic, or they can talk to death in an instant, and even resist and don't want to pay attention to him.

    Most of the post-90s generation are in that kind of link, wanting to love but not daring to love, hoping to meet but afraid of falling in love, and looking at the intimate relationship with insecurity. They envy the person in love, but they don't want to feel it for themselves, and they have been lacking a little luck if they want to meet the right person. It is very likely that some people are born with a single person, and it is not suitable for a partner.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Personally, I don't think there is anyone who is not suitable for a relationship, it just depends on whether the person wants to have a good relationship.

    If a person wants to have a good relationship, he must make changes for the other party, so that the relationship between the two people can be more stable for a long time.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There shouldn't be any people who don't look like people who are not suitable for falling in love.

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