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Anonymous users2024-02-16After a long time in a different place, all kinds of problems will arise. In particular, not having a topic is a terrible thing. Therefore, if you want to keep love fresh, you need to communicate well with your lover.
Good communication can solve more than 90% of the problems, and the rest of the problems can be solved with a kiss and a hug in his city.
Long-distance relationships are not only girls who need security, but also boys. After all, China is a country with many boys and girls, after all, so many boys are staring at it.
The best way to deal with the sense of security is to end the remote state as soon as possible. If it can't be solved in the short term, then it is better to give a time to end the off-site. Let yourself have an expectation for the people you like.
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Anonymous users2024-02-15When you are temporarily away from home, you can give your lover a sense of security through the following points:1Frequent contact.
Through **, ** and other ways to contact frequently, and constantly express thoughts and concerns. Regular contact can make your lover feel your attention and attention, and alleviate the thoughts and anxieties caused by being away from home. 2.
Share the details of your life. Share the bits and pieces of life with your lover through text, **, **, etc. Letting your lover know about you and participating in your life can enhance your relationship and give your lover peace of mind.
But also be careful not to overshare and stress your lover. 3.Express sincere emotions.
Regularly express your gratitude, thoughts, and cherishing feelings to your lover through letters, recordings, etc. Sincere emotional expression can make your lover feel your single-mindedness and sincerity, which is the most important way to maintain a long-distance relationship. 4.
See each other regularly. If possible, relive intimacy with your loved one regularly by actually meeting them. Deepening emotional communication through hugging, holding hands, and in-depth chats is the most direct and effective way to maintain feelings and make your lover feel safe in a long-distance relationship.
Asking your lover if she is doing well and expressing your care in a different place will make her feel at ease and useful. However, it is necessary to avoid excessive snooping or questioning, and leave room for your lover to be autonomous. 6.
Communicate relationships regularly. Through in-depth communication, we understand each other's feelings in this long distance, and communicate our thoughts and understanding of the relationship. This can avoid misunderstandings and deepen emotional education, so that your lover understands that you still value the relationship and are willing to overcome difficulties to maintain your well-being, which will greatly improve the sense of security of your lover.
Hopefully, the above suggestions will be helpful to you. Although it is difficult to live in a different place, as long as both parties put in sincerity and hard work, they can still maintain a strong relationship and make their lover feel at ease. If you have any questions or need to discuss, I'd love to talk to you about this topic as well.
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Anonymous users2024-02-14Giving your lover enough security in a long-distance relationship can make the relationship between two people more stable and healthy. Here are some ways to raise pants:
Take time each day to share your daily life, thoughts, mood changes, etc., with each other to maintain emotional synchronicity and emotional resonance.
2.Plan to meet: Make a clear plan for the meeting and arrangements for the holidays or holidays, so that both parties have a predictable and definite timeline. Even if you can't meet right away, you can start looking forward and planning ahead of time, which can strengthen the emotional connection and resonance.
3.Give small gifts: Always prepare some small but special gifts or surprises, such as a ** of your own, a love letter, a book, a holiday gift, etc., or send flowers or gifts on special anniversaries or important occasions to express your love and thoughts for each other.
4.Understand the needs of the other person: understand the other person's life, study and work situation, support and understand his or her dreams and goals. When communicating with the other party, you should care about the other person's feelings and needs, and take the initiative to provide support and help.
5.Plan for the future together: Plan the future together, share your life ideals and goals, and set clear goals and plans for future relationships and common development, which can make each other more confident and expectant, and enhance emotional integration and security in private space.
In conclusion, it takes hard effort and time to give your lover enough security in a long-distance relationship, but both people should stick with it because it is only when they truly get to know and adapt to each other that a strong, healthy, and long-lasting relationship can be established.
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Anonymous users2024-02-132.Share your life: Share your life and work, let the other party understand your daily life and situation, and let him feel that you are still together.
3.Plan for the future: Plan for the future together, such as the time and place of the next meeting, plans to travel together, etc., to let the other person know that there is still hope for your future.
4.Give support: Give support and encouragement to the other person, let him know that you are there for him, and support him in her work and life.
5.Trust the other person: In a long-distance relationship, trust is very important, trust the other person's loyalty and honesty, and don't doubt and question the other person too much.
6.Give surprises: Give the other person some surprises from time to time, such as sending a letter, sending a gift, etc., so that the other person can feel your care and love.
In conclusion, long-distance relationships require more trust and understanding, and if you have to be in a long-distance relationship for a while, you can give your lover enough security by keeping in touch, sharing your life, planning for the future, giving support, trusting each other, and giving surprises.
I think I should be qualified for this question, let me talk about my situation first, long-distance relationship for two years, together in college, not in a province, seven hours by train, graduated this year or in a different place, but this remote is in the province, but it also takes 5 hours to do a bus. I should be very comfortable with my boyfriend, so to speak, if I put him in a place where a group of women work, I wouldn't worry that he would do something sorry for me. First of all, I'm very relieved about his character, and he has few female friends, and he won't have anything to do with other girls to chat about, go shopping, he won't. >>>More
Look at her with sincere eyes. Then hold her. Stroke her head ... Say, "No matter what happens, I won't leave you alone!" ”
Haha, I'm also in a long-distance relationship, in fact, in the past year of a little love, there are still a lot of feelings, for how to make girls feel safe, to be honest, what other girls think, I don't fully know, because each girl's definition of security is different, for me, I just need my boyfriend to be able to contact on the line, because two people in a different place will have their own jobs, not necessarily 24 hours a day to send a message or something, as long as the other party has time to play with the phone, After seeing my message, reply to my message, of course, once every three days **** is indispensable, if you say that you play every day, as soon as you are free, you may feel very sweet in a short time, and it will feel different after a long time, and there will be contradictions, and it is best to avoid contradictions in long-distance relationships, because long-distance relationships are different from living together with two people, all communication can only rely on the Internet, sometimes the other party is angry and refuses to answer**, then the problem will not be solved, and the future will be endless, in fact, if you can, It's better to end the long-distance relationship as soon as possible! Although it is said that you can get married after a long-distance relationship, a long-distance relationship is really difficult.
Long-distance relationships have always been something that people who don't have great perseverance can't insist on. >>>More
Long-distance relationship is a test of feelings, two people are not together for a long time, there is no common experience and topic, or it will not be long before the relationship will fade, and no matter what troubles she or you encounter, the other half can no longer be around to give care and love, there will be a very lost feeling, and the third party is easy to take advantage of the void. And you have too many practical problems, the opinions of the parents on both sides, work and anything have not been solved. She has actually chosen to give up on you now, the most intolerable thing for men and women to get along with is deception, she has clearly told you that she has no feelings for you, and she has already played friends with the game, it is a man who has a little backbone and decisively forgets her, to believe that a good man naturally does not worry about not finding a good wife, your fate is over, don't indulge in the past anymore.