My boyfriend is an American and I don t see much hope for our future?

Based on the special situation of your relationship with your boyfriend, the following suggestions can be considered.

1. Tolerate each other and respect each other's way of life

Due to the cultural differences between the East and the West, people from two countries have to face a lot of problems in their living habits when they get along. Just like Chinese like to use chopsticks and eat Chinese food, Westerners like to use knives and forks and eat Western food; This in itself has nothing to do with right or wrong, but just two objectively existing habits. So don't get too entangled in these things, understand each other, tolerate each other, and try to explore the cultural traditions of different countries with a curious heart, which is actually quite interesting.

Knowing how to respect each other's way of life and seeking common ground while reserving differences may make two people's lives more enjoyable.

2. Speak up about your feelings and avoid misunderstandings

The difference in thinking between men and women, coupled with the differences between Eastern and Western cultures, makes it more difficult for two people in a foreign relationship to get along again. So when communicating with your boyfriend, you can actually talk about your feelings, tell the other person what he wants to do, you may be happier, and slowly guide the other person to get along with you in the right way. This is important because the man's unique brain circuit determines that they can't accurately guess the girl's mind from the beginning, and directly tell him that it is a happy thing for both parties.

3. Let go of the psychological burden

Don't think too much, in the face of life and love, sometimes all it takes is a kind of courage. As long as you are sure that he loves you, then let go of all your worries, associate with him seriously, and take the days with him seriously. Too much psychological burden will only make you feel more tired in life and lose confidence in your future life even more.

Since you can't predict the future, why don't you stop thinking about it and live every day easily.

Life is full of variables, so we need to work hard to fight for it. It is only after experiencing some setbacks and hardships that when you feel the moment of victory, you will feel special cherished and full of satisfaction. No matter what the future holds, I wish you all the best and always be happy!

I don't think it's a problem if one of the two is willing to compromise and make a little sacrifice. Although it is said that long-distance relationships are very difficult, I think that as long as the will is strong enough and the long-distance problems can be solved, there will be no bigger problems.

Americans and Chinese have differences in many habits and thinking, from lifestyle to dietary preferences, including attitudes to deal with things are different between China and the West, so when falling in love, you must first plan the future of the two people to ** life, he comes to China or you go to the United States, no matter which party compromises, you must adapt to the new environment completely different from the environment in which you live as soon as possible, integrate into it and accept local cultural customs, and the other person should do his best to settle down for each other, Let the other party settle down first.

There is also a problem to consider is the work of two people, as a foreigner, first of all, you must be familiar with the foreign language as soon as possible, have a relatively stable job and income, although the relationship between two people should be in place, but there are cultural differences in the case, the material must be guaranteed, which is the basis for the relationship between two people to continue smoothly after the end of the long-distance relationship.

There are many people who will fall into a misunderstanding, that is, when they first fall in love, they will think that marriage or something is something that they will consider when the relationship is deep and stable in the future, and they are not in a hurry now. If you are just young, just having fun, and you will break up after a month or two, of course it doesn't matter, but once you are serious and have a deep relationship, but there are irreconcilable differences on the issue of ending a long-distance relationship, resulting in a breakup, the pain in your heart will not be healed for a while, in order to avoid this kind of thing from happening, it is best to have a plan in your heart at the beginning.

My boyfriend is an American, so you are really happy, when I was very young, I watched blonde Americans on TV, I liked them very much, especially those blue eyes, as if they could talk. He was making cakes and saying things I didn't understand. I knew he was a foreigner, but I felt like I could read her.

It doesn't matter if your boyfriend is American, as long as he is from the earth, he can marry you. In the future, you can go to the United States with him to get married, or you can get married locally in China. I also have classmates whose boyfriends are Americans, and I see that they are living happily, and whether they return to the United States or stay in China, I respect them and wish them well.

It may be a little difficult to go back to the United States, after all, there are many troublesome things in the middle, such as visas and hukou, which are not easy to solve. But there are so many people who go abroad every year, and the housing prices abroad are so low, I think as long as you work hard, whether it is in the United States or in China, there will be a home for you.

Don't be discouraged or disappointed, as long as you keep going, everything will be fine. After my ex-boyfriend went abroad, he went to Dubai, where he lived for a while, going to work every day, cooking, looking at the sea, and life was extremely comfortable.

I don't think life abroad is so difficult, and I must not give up. The point is to see what kind of life you want, you can talk to your boyfriend a lot when you have time, understand his thoughts, and don't think about it yourself and then make decisions. I am a Chinese, but I do not have any serious international security, I think love can cross races, bless you.

No matter what country you fall in love with, the most important thing is to persevere. The wish of a lifetime and a couple, universal in use. Girl, I wish you happiness.

Now there is no hope for the future, so why not end the relationship, sometimes it takes a lot of courage to let go.

If it were me, I'd talk to him! See what he thinks, and then think about what he should do in the future!

I think everyone has their own living habits, there is no harm in him like that, life does not have to be full of wildness, that is the answer life you want, but it may not be what he wants, what he wants may be to make a little money, live a happy and peaceful life, you impose what you want on him, I don't think he will be happy.

Arguing whenever there is a conflict may have an impact on the relationship, and it is recommended that you try to tolerate him.

You speak a little impulsively, you may have hurt his self-esteem, I think you can't see the migrant workers clearly, this is not right, I think they are all equal, they are all not stealing or robbing to make money to support themselves, they are equal, don't look down on him.

The two of you have different ideas, and if you want to be together, you may need to compromise with one person, either you or him.

In fact, if you love him, you have the ability to support yourself and let yourself live the life you want, you can support yourself, buy yourself what you want, don't force him to develop, and the most important thing is to be happy with each other.

I think you have vanity, you will compare your husband with others, this is not right. People are long and short, and you may only see the strengths of other people's husbands and not their weaknesses. Maybe someone's husband is rich, but he doesn't care about his wife, or he loves to drink and doesn't go home, but it's you, your husband is rich and ambitious, he doesn't like to go home, and he drinks all day long, will you be happy?

Being rich is not necessarily happy, you think about it.

I really don't think it's appropriate, I want to divorce, try to be together for two or three months, and if it really doesn't work, get a divorce as soon as possible! Don't delay each other's youth anymore.

Personally, I don't think you love you anymore.

The husband of the system, what you love is just your imaginary husband, maybe say this.

You don't feel wronged, but if you think about it, it's true. You have to really love him, you will think about him, you will tolerate him, you will understand him. But you're not, you're forcing him to become the husband you imagined.

He is a migrant worker, but there is no shame in migrant workers. Seriously, have you ever understood why your husband is so tired and hard to go to the construction site and is not willing to accept your suggestion to learn a skill? I think because your current economic conditions are not very good, and your salary is not high enough, he knows that to learn a skill, you have to start from scratch, and with the salary of an apprentice, even if you want, he will feel that he has not fulfilled his responsibility as a husband to support his family, and he does not want you to support his family.

My husband and I once had such an argument, because he could get five, six or seven wages when he went to work on the construction site, but he was more than 1,000 apprentices, and he didn't want to go to anything. In the end, I said, while you are young now, I support you to go, and now you don't have children, the expenses are not so big, we can support ourselves, and we will go last. So you have to understand him more and don't blame him blindly.

You can see that he is a good man. If you feel that you are really not on the right path with him, he is not the husband you imagined at all, and you really can't accept him, then make plans early, don't delay each other.

That's what comes.

Communication from knowledge gaps.

Feelings have always been a thing of a thousand turns, and it would be nice if you met the perfect person you were looking forward to in your heart, but the truth ...

We are in a state of drifting everywhere, renting a 40-square-meter house, a debt of 20,000 yuan, which is the money I owe the most, and he is not in a hurry, he can sleep until 12 o'clock in the morning without a job, I call him to get up, I never hear him say how to make some money, and every job will be a little unpleasant with the leader.

I watched a classmate in the circle of friends who worked in a factory after getting married, and went to the construction site on Saturdays and weekends, but I showed him and said that he was tired and didn't die? I'm completely disappointed now, we don't have children and I want to leave.

The past is the past, everyone has the past, can you guarantee that your past is a blank slate? Think about it, since you have accepted to be with him, you should accept his past, even if it has nothing to do with you, if you can't accept it, apologize to someone, break up, forget it, it's your fault.

I don't think he has a lot of experience in love, he won't coax girls, let's just put it this way, maybe you want to find a Frenchman before you meet your boyfriend, but after you meet your boyfriend, you think the Americans are also good and get together, it doesn't mean that you don't love him, right?

Listening to Korean songs is his personal hobby, and love is still to be tolerant and generous.

You care so much about him because he cares so much about you, just like he cares about you eating with your ex-boyfriend, maybe he always wonders if you will return to your ex-boyfriend one day. You love each other very much, don't think nonsense, otherwise it will affect your feelings very much, you give him all the love, he won't feel it, plus you have to be generous, kind, cheerful, humorous, such a good woman, you can't find it with a lantern, he will find other women. Women must be confident!

Since it's all in the past, why bother thinking about it

Have you ever thought about your own past, and if both of you care about the object's past, how can you live.

Just think about it the other way around

He always pays attention to what he used to pay attention to because of the habits he formed before. You can subtly influence his habits and make him like China. If you want him to forget his past, never mention his past in front of him.

It's just a hobby, so what does that mean? Just like people chasing stars, it's just a way to vent, everyone has a certain degree of fantasy about the future before they fall in love, but it doesn't necessarily mean that they will fall in love with that kind of person, you can't ask others to be in the past are also you, two people together to understand each other, understand each other, he tolerates you, it means that he loves you, and he loves you when he is jealous, there is a starting point of love, there is really no need to be so serious, otherwise the other party will be tired,

If you like him, be with him! If you love him, you'll always be with him! It's useless to think too much!

You're worried too! He's worried too!! The relationship will get worse and worse!!

Trust is the most important thing! If you don't trust it, it's better to have a long pain than a short one!! Let's talk about it!!

Let's see if it's someone you'll marry in the future!!

It's not good, but if you don't love him, break up.

If you love him, you don't care about what he was.

It's normal, your obstacle is one; You still retain the past feelings, you can't completely throw them away, second, he is with you now, you still eat the vinegar before others, the relationship needs to be tolerated, but there is a limit. At least you haven't cheated, and you're still in love. Love each other before the next apocalypse, bless you!

Although he wanted to find a Korean girlfriend before you, but in the end he met you, met you who suited him, he wanted to be with you, live with you, don't think about how he was before, no matter how it was before, what you care about is now.

Marriage is a journey, it is a lifetime to prove that the original choice of two people is the wisest, love is different from marriage, love is sweet, especially the wonderful time of love, there is no triviality of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and there is no tie between wife and children, to be able to love always needs too much understanding, tolerance, support, need to have a consistent outlook on life, values, do not have to force, if you don't come together, it means that he is not your dish.