Do you still think your ex is handsome after a breakup?

Updated on psychology 2024-08-10
17 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Your ex is very handsome, but it's like you used to have a very beautiful dress, but you have grown taller, the size is wrong, and you can't wear it anymore, what should you do, give it away or throw it away. It was heartbreaking at the time, and I forgot about it later.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    When you still love each other, you think it looks good, when you don't love it, even if the other party has a captivating appearance, it may seem like this to you, and the beauty is beautiful, and there is no heart.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    I think if I still love each other, I will definitely feel that the other party is very good, after all, there is a shih h h Tzu in the eyes of a lover. But if you don't love each other, there will be nothing in my eyes, life is just a few decades, don't wronged yourself, let alone wronged your future life. The ex had a good life or a bad life, and after the breakup, he no longer had anything to do with himself, let his road be quiet and quiet, and don't become a disturbance to other people's lives, and don't interfere with his own life.

    The memories left when they fell in love with each other will continue from now on, and they have nothing to do with Qing.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If the other party is good-looking in itself, even if they break up, it can't change the fact that they are good-looking, so I will still admit that the other party is good-looking.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In all fairness, my ex's appearance is better, but when I was with him, I was looking at my phone, and the current one was lower, but when I was with the current one, I was staring at him.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    My predecessor was a school grass, and anyone who asked me would say that my predecessor was better looking than my current one. But I think the current one looks good, because I like the current one.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    And his ex was a six-year classmate in junior high school and high school, and he had a crush on him for five years, to put it mildly, at that time, I really thought his white shirt was really good under the sun, but the girl was simple, and I didn't know that I couldn't just look at the appearance and pay attention to the connotation.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I didn't think he was handsome before.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Personally, I think it's just an old love unforgettable, and I should let myself divert my attention as soon as possible. And the fond memories he once had would put a filter on himself, and he felt that his goodness was unbeatable. But in fact, there are a lot of excellent boys in this world, and you should let yourself get out of lovelorn, embrace the world, and get in touch with more fresh people and things.

    First, this is just an idea that is unforgettable from old love

    Because the old love is unforgettable, I think of him all the time, and even pull him out to compare with the people around him, and the more I think about it, the more I feel regret and regret. But in fact, this is just the idea that I haven't gotten out of a broken love and is irrational. Since two people will break up, it must be a relationship problem, or because of inappropriate personalities, living habits, etc.

    Therefore, when you have the idea of "never meeting such a good boy as your ex again", you should let yourself recall the process of breaking up between two people, analyze each other's shortcomings and contradictions, and let yourself sober up quickly. Now that the two have broken up, don't reminisce about the past, it won't change anything.

    2. Don't make this judgment too early

    It's understandable to have this kind of thinking after a breakup, after all, you have invested a lot of time and energy, and it is inevitable that you will not be able to let go. But personally, I think this kind of thinking should be fleeting and not taken seriously. There is still a long way to go in life, and it would be too impatient to make such a judgment now.

    And the other party's excellent and considerate is only one factor in a good relationship, not all, or should consider whether the two people are suitable, the other party's work, living habits, family environment, etc. It takes a long time to get along and communicate before you can be sure that the other party is the person you want.

    Learn to push yourself, completely get out of the broken love, and get in touch with more different people and things. At that point, maybe your mind will change again. Each of us may think and act differently at each stage of life, and we must learn to adjust and accept it ourselves.

    Don't get too caught up in your negative emotions.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I think you should go after your ex, because seeing that you still have a lot of feelings for your ex, you can pursue your ex again and chase him back.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You should believe in yourself, you should continue to improve your inner self, you should also improve your academic qualifications, improve your work experience, and maintain a good figure in life, so that you can meet more excellent people.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Feelings of embarrassment.

    Breaking up with an ex is an experience that many people have had, but it is quite awkward to meet the ex again after a breakup, two people may be separated for various reasons together, and if they are very stiff when they are separated, then it will naturally be very awkward to meet.

    Whether it is a boy or a girl, breaking up is an indelible pain, many people will remember this scar for a long time, and if they meet their ex after the breakup, that is when they uncover their scars, and some people may heal faster.

  13. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Two and a half years after the breakup, I met my ex-husband again, I was 9 months pregnant at the time, and I gave birth in less than half a month, and my ex-husband still didn't find a new wife. I told him that the child was doing well, and that he would come over often to see if he had time, and he wished me a smooth birth of my third child.

  14. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Yes, don't bother the other party, because he understands every look you have, and it's been twenty years. I just met by chance in a meeting, and we both understood each other, but we never said hello. I was his first love, very nice to him, and good to his family.

  15. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    People who have been moved in the past, see each other in ten years, will still have a fast heartbeat, but now they all have their own lovers, the surface is still calm as water, but in fact, the heart is turbulent, but they can no longer find a reason to hug, even if they know that after turning around, maybe they will not be able to meet in the next ten or twenty years. I can only put it in my heart, and I can only smile silently and say goodbye!

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The person in front of him was very strange but very familiar, his eyes were very sour, he held back his tears, faced him with a generous smile, and felt pain in his heart the moment he turned around. I hope he can live well, or even better, and keep his name and our stories forever in my heart, not open to anyone, just in the deepest part of my heart, and that's how I love him.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I'm going to meet my ex, I'm going to invite him to his favorite restaurant to eat his favorite dish, get him slightly drunk, and then whisper in his ear to tell him, thank him for his kindness not to marry, if it weren't for his lack of cherishing I wouldn't have met him better now

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