Have you ever thought of your ex for a moment?

I think there will definitely be this, human nature. What two people have experienced together will inevitably be remembered when you experience it again. The streets you walked on, the restaurants you ate together, the malls you visited, and even the clothes you wore when you went on a date, etc.

Maybe it's because the memory is very deep, so I remember, maybe it's because people's memory is very peculiar in itself, and they can remember many, many things. Don't think about it deliberately, just don't avoid it when you think about it.

I'm the kind of person who is either a lover or a stranger, and I haven't been in touch since I separated, but I have her in my heart, and if I want to think of her for a certain moment, it's when I hear some songs, and the sound is very similar to her, after all, it's been more than ten years, and they have their own families, and the reality doesn't allow you to think unbridledly.

Yes, I think I'm a very emotional person, and every time I fall in love, I remember one of her favorite things when it's over. Men will probably never forget their first love, my first love likes a lot of things, she likes pairs, eats pork liver, sings until you melt, likes me to tell her jokes, swings, half a year after the breakup, I can't extricate myself, and then I will never eat pork liver again, although I like it. The second girlfriend, she likes milk tea very much, especially the milk tea of Happy Hou Cailuo, and I don't drink milk tea anymore.

The third girlfriend, she likes "Dream of Red Mansions", does handicrafts, likes bracelets of chicken blood vines, and she even likes to take the bus from the starting station to the terminal station alone. From then on, I didn't wear any bracelets. I saw these scenes at some point in my life, and I could think of her, the best memory.

So I no longer eat pork liver, don't drink milk tea, don't wear bracelets, and use taboos that have little impact on my life to pay tribute to my past love, not in this way to boast of infatuation, just to let myself remember the feelings I once had, because I think its feelings have always been very precious to me, I care about it!

I'm sure everyone has one of the most unforgettable relationships, and I had that experience with my ex, where I valued my feelings and put my heart and soul into it, but I ended up scarred. In the end, I realized that some feelings cannot be forced, and time will dilute everything. Later, I often thought of her, and when I thought of this heart-wrenching experience, I learned a lesson that I very much agree with not to delete each other's WeChat and other social friends many times.

Because I really can't add it back to the back! Even if you keep clicking on it, you won't get the other party's consent to the friend's message receipt. You can never get someone who doesn't want to reply to your messages to give you any.

She can ignore you when you say 100 words to her, and at the same time reply to mutual friends' messages in seconds. This means that she really doesn't like you. When the girl says that she doesn't want to be together anymore and decisively breaks up, don't think she's joking, and don't have a trace of fantasy that there is still a chance to redeem it.

When she decided to break up, it means that she really doesn't like you anymore, and she has already divided you into the range of strangers, and you feel that it is a pity that the relationship between the two of you for so many years is a pity, and you want to redeem it, I want to say that it is too late.

Chatting with friends, sometimes unconsciously mentioning the ex, and then being spurned by friends, how can you still put it down, but you still love it, but I don't need to touch it like a ban. On the contrary, only when you let it go, can you easily say those who were, although the heart was bleeding. In this life, do you have to hide someone in your heart to feel down-to-earth.

Every time I think about it, I feel like I have been warmed by the sun, and I may be really lucky to meet you who used to be obedient in every way, and I can't help but raise the corners of my mouth when I think about it. In the past few days when a movie has been released, I believe that those of us who have seen or heard the plot of this movie will find those past events in our memories. The enthusiastic messages of the audience in the background all left their own little stories.

So today, I will generously talk about those moments that have moved you, and those things that still feel warm even if you can't go back.

Occasionally, I will remember for a moment, after all, it was a real emotion at that time. But I'm the kind of stranger who is familiar when I break up, and since it's impossible to be together, don't meet again and don't contact again, and I hope we are all well.

In order to forget that she has locked herself in a small dark room for half a year, and I have not seen anyone, and at the same time I am reflecting on the reason for her departure, I think I have figured it out and have let go.

Sometimes, a casual sentence said by others will suddenly remind me of my first love, and now when I recall it, I feel how immature I was at that time. Thank you to her for growing up with me during that time.

It's easy to fall in love and hard to get along, and my current perception may be different in a few years, after all, I feel that I am really immature, and I have a lot of problems, so no matter what, I must improve myself and love myself, don't indulge in the past, and cherish the people around me now.

The feelings of men and women are not the same. Boys are minus over time, but girls are plus. In other words, the guy may think that you are not good here and give you one point, and if you are not good enough, you will lose another point.

But what about girls, with the accumulation of time and the depth of feelings, although they know that you have a lot of bad things, they will still give you extra points.

There have been several breakups before, but they were all fake breakups. After the breakup, the main thing is to sulk, and when the anger is gone, the two people will be reconciled. Although I feel that the two of them really broke up this time, I actually subconsciously know that I will still be reconciled when the anger is gone, so the main expression is anger and wanting to break up.

But after the last breakup, after seeing the determination of my ex, I knew that we could never be it again. Although I know it's not suitable, I'm less sad, after all, I've been really happy before. What impresses me now is that the moment I went home and turned the key, I suddenly had a particularly unreasonable expectation in my heart, whether he would not be gone, whether he would still be there.

After the breakup, I still have a symptom, and wherever I go, I feel in a trance that that person is him. Even if it's just wearing a dress of the same color, even if it's just about the same height. When I watch TV, I think of the past when I see similar eyebrows and eyes.

By the time I got to the adjustment period, I had accepted the fact of the breakup, and there were no more serious symptoms, such as tears falling profusely, insomnia in the middle of the night, etc. At this stage, it is time to eat, drink, sleep, and live a good life.

But it is the saying that circulates in the rivers and lakes, "I continue to love you without telling everyone". Everything acts like a return to normal life, but only I know in my heart that I will still miss you. At this time, the previous quarrels, cold wars, contradictions and conflicts have been almost diluted, and I have forgotten all the bad things in the past, and only remember those good memories.

When I think about it, I still feel heartbroken, but I also know better in my heart that the two of them really can't continue to be together. I can only be sad by myself, and when the memories come up, I no longer want to say anything to anyone, I have been separated for so long, and I am really embarrassed to be sad and sad. It seems to be calm, but behind the calm, there are still occasional waves.

After a while, it entered a period of metamorphosis. Life is completely on the right track, and breaking up seems like a thing of a previous life. I think I'll remember it, but it's really rare.

Life is well arranged, I signed up for the guqin lesson I always wanted to learn, and after learning, I found that I was a handicapped party, and I reported my name, crying and finishing it. The page of the predecessor is completely turned over. So, everyone who has experienced the breakup is a warrior.

But every time I think about it, my heart just ripples slightly, and my heart doesn't hurt anymore, because every time I think about it, I tell myself that I won't be a stepping stone to a low point for a woman who has been with me for four years with a mask, and I've decided that I won't think about her anymore, and I won't think about her anymore, and I won't get along with each other for a few minutes, and she will not even be a stranger in my heart now.

I still think about it every day, I read it every day, but so what, he never comes back, he says we are not suitable, he wants a better girl, he just doesn't love me, why can't I just let myself go? Why should I be in such pain?

Basically, I will think about anything, but I will never contact you, but once I couldn't help but send a message that I miss you, and then the message sank into the sea.

This will also happen, because sometimes people's minds jump like this.

No, since they have all broken up, it is better to forget about each other.

Anyone who has known it will remember it sometimes, but thinking about it is another matter.

Of course, there will be this feeling, in the dead of night, when I can't sleep, I will always think about it.

Yes, sometimes I think of him when I encounter a familiar scene.

thinks that the heart is like a rock, after all, people are not plants.

I would definitely like to think about it, but I wouldn't contact it.

It may be thought, but together it will not be considered and implemented

Yes, a similar scene will suddenly remind people of their ex.

Yes, but I don't know who you're asking.

I think about him every day, I don't know if he can sense it...

I think both men and women will care about it! In particular, the party who still has feelings and feelings for the other party in his heart is more concerned: Does the ex still love you? Do I want to get back together with you?

Most of the time, the ex says that a breakup is not necessarily unloved, but after a breakup, after a series of entanglements and quarrels, I don't know how to face each other, I can only calm each other down, in fact, the heart still wants to find a step to be with you again.

Say these 4 words after the breakup of the previous one, there is no doubt that he must still love you:

First, "You have to take care of yourself."

If your ex has said such things to you, it means that he is still very worried about you, and only when he subconsciously wishes you well, he will say such words that care about you. So if you want to know if your ex has you in his heart after breaking up, it depends on whether he will send these words of concern to you after breaking up with you.

Second, "you will meet better".

When your predecessor says this, it means that this person is full of guilt towards you. If he doesn't love you anymore, he won't care who you meet next, anyway, you have separated, it doesn't matter to him what you do, he can't wait for the next one to be worse than him, make you regret it, take the opportunity to take a breath, so that he won't ask you to meet someone better than him.

In fact, what the other person really wants to say is: although I love you very much, maybe I am not the best for you, I am also wrong, I hope you can meet someone better than me. In the eyes of the people who love you, even if the breakup is intense, calm down and hope that you can live a better life in the future.

Third, "I keep what you gave me."

If you really hear this, don't hesitate, it's 100% hinting that you want to get back together with you. As the old saying goes, "Seeing things and thinking about people". When a person completely wants to let go, he will erase all traces of the relevant and start a new life.

Summary. Hello, if that's the case, it means that you still miss him, and you say that when you see the ahead, you will be very sad. But after all, you have separated, so you still have to find ways to live your own life, it is better to find your own happiness, I hope mine can help you, remember to praise it.

Why do you look ahead and cry for a moment, and then you remember when your ex was together.

Hello, if that's the case, it means that you still miss him, and you say that when you see the ahead, you will be very sad. But after all, you have separated, so you still have to find ways to live your own life, and it is better to find your own happiness and Xunna, I hope my Hui Changque can call for help you, remember to praise it.

Also, before going to bed or every time, I always think of being with him because of a song or nothing, and I always feel that we haven't been separated for a long time, but in fact, we have been separated for almost a year.

Hello, yes, you will feel this way, but you still can't forget it in your heart. It's still more important to live your life as soon as possible.

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