The teacher s words are holy decrees, so why don t parents and children listen to them?

It is because some parents feel that their children's opinions are the most important, so they are afraid that their children will be wronged, and they will be more rampant when doing things.

This situation has something to do with the way people get along with their children, many parents are too easy-going and do not establish their own authority, so children often do not listen to their parents.

First, the teacher is more sensible. There is a difference between the attitude of facing a group of children and facing a child, and the teacher will be more rational than the parents. When a child has the same problem, parents and teachers react differently.

In most cases, the teacher will ask the reason before making a decision, but parents will directly punish the child because of factors such as nervousness, anger, and hatred. In this way, the child will feel that the teacher knows how to respect him more, so he will respect the teacher in the same way. Second, teachers are more principled.

As a parent, it is easier to compromise in the face of your child's cuteness, but this is not the case with teachers. In contrast, the teacher is more able to stick to his own principles, and after a few times, the child will know that as long as it is the rules set by the teacher, he can only follow them, otherwise he will be punished.

When children go to school, why do they listen to teachers and not parents? Because the teacher gets along with her with a kind of majesty when he returns home, his parents will get used to him, but the teacher will not.

Because parents don't have any majesty in front of them, they feel that parents will be very doting on themselves, their relatives, but teachers will not.

Because parents will meet some of the child's requirements, in the child's heart, the parent will be very obedient to him, and the teacher has a lot of majesty.

Because many parents are not majestic, so the child is not very convinced. And the way of education is not right.

Because parents are very fond of their children, and they do not shape some rules for their children, children are not particularly convinced by their parents, and teachers are very strict in ordinary times, and their requirements for children are also very high.

It is because children often listen to their parents since they were young, and they have a very close relationship with their parents, but after going to school, they are very afraid of the teacher, so they will take the teacher's words as a holy decree.

Because the teacher has his own set of methods, which can make the child listen to him, some children feel that everything the teacher says is right, but the parents do not listen to what they say, or the parents do not master the method.

It is a problem that every parent encounters, because the child feels that his parents are easy to talk and the teacher is not good to talk, so the child does not listen to what the parents say.

Because parents are the closest people to their children, and children can mess around in front of their families, but not in front of teachers.

Because there are many children who are very afraid of teachers, and children live with their parents every day, so they will be taken as wind to their words.

It is believed that children are very afraid of teachers, but for parents, they are very afraid, because parents will spoil their children.

Because there are many children who think that their parents are not a threat to them, they will not listen.

Because children know that no matter how strict the parents are, they will not be too strict, and they will still pamper themselves, while the teacher is different, and the heart is very awe-inspiring.

Because the child feels that the parent is from an authoritative point of view, the child will not listen, and the teacher has a certain method in the process of education that can convince the child.

Because children will be restrained in front of teachers and will be more free to splash in front of parents, children will generally listen to the teacher's words, and children will generally ignore parents' words.

Teachers and parents are in different positions, and teachers impart knowledge, teach and educate people, and there is no discrimination; Nobunaga is raising children, which is more casual, and basically does not need to be too harsh, under normal circumstances.

In terms of knowledge structure, teachers' knowledge is relatively wider than that of parents, that is, they know more content, which is more likely to arouse students' respect.

As we have seen, some students hide when they see a teacher outside the school, which is the outward manifestation of the teacher's majesty.

Teachers set clear rules for their children, while parents don't.

Arrive at school on time, say hello when you see the teacher, and don't fight... There are quite a few similar rules.

With such a set of rules, the teacher will not panic in the face of dozens of children in the class, and can control the situation and ensure that everything is in order.

But what about many parents? A lot of times it's easy to promise and never keep.

The smallest thing: you hurry up and eat, and after this bite, you will be allowed to watch TV. As a result, no.

Something bigger: you hurry up and do your homework, and you can go down and play when you're done. As a result, no.

The bigger thing: you study hard, and if you progress in the exam, I will buy you an iPad. As a result, no.

This raises at least two problems:

First, many promises should not be made, and children should do something that is necessary, and should not be promised a reward.

He knows that parents are relatives.

And the teacher is different.