How to know yourself, do things carefully

Everyone has to be responsible for themselves, if life is a play, you yourself are the director, whether the play is directed well or not, it is all about using it. I used to be like you, careless and arrogant, and when others praised me for my great arrogance, I was not ashamed, but proud. It wasn't until I tasted the natural consequences of carelessness and irresponsibility that I regretted it, and it turned out that carefulness was a manifestation of a sense of responsibility, a manifestation of responsibility for oneself, and a manifestation of cherishing oneself.

In order to make your life better and walk more smoothly in the future, you have to be solid step by step, and when doing things, remind yourself that you need to pay attention to this, otherwise it will lead to unsmooth progress, and you need to pay attention to that point, don't waste your efforts in vain and have no effect. Communicate with people who are particular and careful, and learn how to do business. You will have a lot to discover and experience.

Slowly, you will make up for your own shortcomings and become careful and organized. Remember, nothing in the world is static, as long as you have the courage to face your mistakes and be willing to actively improve and correct yourself, good results will come back. Are you saying I'm right?

If you do something very tedious and mundane without making a mistake (or rarely making a mistake), you are basically more careful!

There are few mistakes in doing things, and they will check carefully after doing something.

Every step of the way can be done with both usefulness and consequence.

When you have obsessive-compulsive disorder, you are careful.

It's okay, but there are also times when you are careful.

I don't understand what you're talking about, don't you have confidence in yourself?

Suggestions: Hello, generally speaking, this is a psychological problem, and the cause may be related to the environment in daily life and one's own personality and behavioral factors. It is necessary to pay attention to maintaining a good attitude and self-regulation and inhibition.

If the symptoms are severe and cannot be relieved by self-regulation, it is recommended that you consult a psychologist in person.

There's a classic saying that the more you fear what happens, the more it will happen. Because you are afraid of it, you will be very careful, and the more you concentrate, the easier it is to make mistakes. It's not wrong to be big and the focus is on the method.

Everyone is different, I don't think I need to push myself too hard, personality is natural.

Of course, you can't be too nervous, you can let the friends who have a good relationship remind you from time to time, and you can slowly form a habit.

It's much easier to suggest that you don't try to change your personality, but rather change your approach to certain things (such as waiting to find money after paying, etc.).

Teach you a skill, and it is very customary, just 2 words: ask for advice but ask for help to be skillful, ask him to be very good at it, or find something he must know. It's the same for everyone, for friends and leaders, leaders you can ask some questions about life, colleagues can ask some business questions, all of which are good, in fact, to put it bluntly, it makes him feel face.

I am teaching you a skill, that is, to take the initiative to say hello, meet in the morning, and greet colleagues warmly + smile, which is also a skill to promote relationships, and it is very useful.

With these 2, you will slowly integrate into it, and then everyone usually eats together at noon, and slowly you will enter this circle, everything has a process, and it will not go from not accepting you to accepting you at once, slowly improving, and everything will be fine. Come on, as long as you have a goal, God will make way for you.

Be a man to take the initiative, go if you want to, you go and say that people can't help but give you face and don't let you go.

Before you speak, you have to laugh, smile and talk to others, you can also interject if you know the topics that others are talking about, and if you don't understand, learn more about them on the Internet, and don't want others to say that you don't have a topic. In fact, you don't need to be too good at staff, you just need to be gregarious. You can't be too stingy with your money

Psychological factors have a great impact on people, and adjusting the mentality is the most important thing. Try to chat with your closest colleagues and friends, and muster up the courage to participate when you go out to a party. Self-confidence is very important, and if you have self-confidence in doing things, your boss will have confidence in you!

The relationship between people is the first, and only Maxima can be used, and it is people who are doing things.

Oh,,Be confident first,You don't have confidence.,Always self-doubt about what you say.,So many times you're in a state of withdrawal.,Don't tighten it once or twice.,Too many times.,You're... A lot of time is wasted and nothing can be improved... Everyone has merit, you may be ordinary, but you are not mediocre!

I encountered the same problem as you.,It's really annoying.,I also grew up in the countryside.,I'm not good at dealing with people.,Although I'm outstanding.,Talented.,But this aspect has always been my problem.,Not good at words.,Often misunderstood.,Hurt yourself.,Lack of skills in interpersonal relationships.,It also affects your personality.。。

Participating in activities with colleagues is still very close to everyone, as long as you can open your heart and have the courage to face the current situation, it is not a big deal. In general, during breaks, communicate more with colleagues, find someone who is easier to get along with, and gradually integrate into their group.

Hey, it's too vain for you to introduce yourself like this, others still don't know you well I think if you want to change careers, you have to think about what kind of person you are and what abilities you have; Or if you like to make friends, you should ask your brothers and sisters who are engaged in other industries how their work is, and understand the nature of their work and working environment; If that doesn't work, you can also find a career counseling agency or something, so that they can test your personality and plan your career development. Career planning China Network, you can take a look at this**.

Men are afraid of getting into the wrong business, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man.

It seems that this is not wrong at all!

I've also been making molds for 7 years, and when it comes to changing careers, I've been thinking about it for 7 years!

I suggest that if you have the capital and have many friends!

Open a shop, be the boss! Invest less first! You can do what you do!

Because the financial crisis has just passed, the economy has just improved, and now is the best time!

What do you do when you change careers? Open a shop to do business and work for yourself! Start small.

I also make molds, and I've been doing them for 4 years, so if I have the brains, I'll open my own shop.

I still recommend Liu Yong's books, such as: "I Didn't Teach You to Deceive", "The Human Nature You Must Know", "The Beauty and Sorrow of Life in the Face", "Beyond Yourself", "Create Yourself", "Affirm Yourself" and so on. His writing is very sharp and straightforward, his book is very suitable for college students or young people who have just entered the society to read, I believe you will experience the good and evil of human nature and the rules of survival from his words, I read Liu Yong's "I am not teaching you to cheat" in college, I feel that I have benefited a lot, from his book you will know the dark side and ugly side of society, but you will also understand the goodness and beauty of human nature, from which you will experience the principles and methods of being a person and doing things, to help you know yourself, to understand human nature, but also to understand society.

Carnegie's book I think is a very classic inspirational book, but I personally think that the theory is too strong, Carnegie lived in a certain era and we have certain differences, ideological and cultural differences, when reading still need to have appropriate trade-offs, absorb the good parts to help us grow. In general, recommending Liu Yong's books can make you feel life and understand life in a relaxed atmosphere.

The examples used in Carnegie's books are all cookie-cutter, lacking elements and universality of their own.

There are many books to find to know yourself, communicate with others, and deal with people, such as "The New Art of Dealing with People", "Dealing with Yourself and Dealing with People and the World - Communication Determines Success or Failure Core Skills Series (Core Skills Series)", "Interpersonal Psychology Misunderstandings: How Do You Cross - Spiritual Self-Help ** Series" to choose in the bookstore.

For a stable boyfriend, you should pay more attention to his work, talk about some topics that interest him, and give a lot of support and encouragement to him in spirit and action for the direction of his efforts, don't contradict him for some trivial things, and don't be too willful.

In any case, don't live for others, just be yourself.

Live your own colors and respect each other, so that you can be a qualified girlfriend.

Do it with your heart, and if you want to go down with him, think more about what kind of you he needs in what situation.

Be considerate of others, don't be willful, if you are willful, men will be annoyed.

Do what your boyfriend wants, and see what else he doesn't like.

If he likes you, he will accept everything you have, but if you want to stop it, don't joke in front of everyone when you shouldn't make a fuss, and you can't get him down the stairs.

Feel more about the details of life.

In fact, everything that seems to belong to you does not belong to you.

There is something you may have seen, but you may not understand because it does not belong to you; There are some things that you know, but you may not be able to do, because everything you do with people requires a trade-off between principles and actions.

Dealing with people is because people do not live alone, they have family, love, friendship, and ordinary interactions. In these processes, everyone is the same, they all have thoughts and their own situation, so we must learn to empathize, look at things from another angle, and analyze from the perspective of others, so as to deal with people and good things.