On the question of boyfriends giving gifts, begging everyone s thoughts is very confusing. Thank you

Updated on society 2024-08-07
12 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-15

    Most men want to save face, and it is common for brothers to do half a bucket of water in front of their girlfriends. You said that your boyfriend is not romantic enough, my understanding is that the thinking may not be flexible enough, judging from his explanation after you said that you were popular, no matter how stupid people are, they know that this is adding fuel to the fire, but he is getting darker and darker, it shouldn't be that he doesn't pay attention to it, but he won't express it. If you want this kind of man's self to awaken and become romantic and warm, a little whimsical, you still have to induce him to change little by little, and open up new ideas for him through your behavior.

    For example, usually give him some small gifts on small anniversaries, so that he can realize that giving gifts to each other is an exchange of feelings, not gifts for the sake of gifts. Also, under normal circumstances, when two people are really dating, men will think that every day with you is an anniversary and ignore some important days, and girls will pay more attention to every romantic moment. Ideological differences are not so easy to eliminate, who makes a man from Mars and a woman from Venus, a man cannot fully understand a woman in his life, and a woman cannot fully understand a man in her life.

    If you like him, bring him into your life and your world, and if you can't stand it, go find a world that really suits you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-14

    I think at least 60% of it is your problem, and the other 40 is his problem. Girls like romance, but men like real life. When the pursuit of differentness is to compromise, to see who compromises with whom.

    This is known as the run-in period. Men who are more responsible will compromise a little more, otherwise, they will compromise a little less. If a woman loves more, she will compromise more, otherwise, she will compromise less.

    Your boyfriend's behavior couldn't be more normal, and your thoughts couldn't be more normal. The main thing is that the communication between the two people is not good enough. Don't be confused, don't be sulky, communicate directly, have a small quarrel with him, let him know that you are a girl who wants to be romantic, or calmly say that you want to have a romantic anniversary, don't spend more than 200 yuan, and let him think.

    He likes to play with his buddies, which is the righteousness that men have. Not planning to give gifts on anniversaries is a peculiar sloppiness, and it is also the realism of men who feel that life is still really good. These need to be talked about openly and honestly by two people.

    Don't suffocate to death, a lot of things are sulking and not communicating and ruined.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-13

    No problem, but you have to let him know that you are happy even if it is a small gift.

    Now that there are more TV series, many female characters are very realistic, he is just worried that you don't like to buy cheap gifts, it is better to say that he does not plan to prepare gifts, after all, boys still have to save face, from what you said that he went to the field to invite dinner, it can be seen that he may also want to do a good job, but he is afraid that the quality department can satisfy you, or I am afraid that this anniversary will be done, and there will be pressure next year, understand each other, haha, but I think you let him know that you are also very satisfied with the small gift, and he may give you more surprises, hehe.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Gift-giving is just a form of pursuing romance, and it will only be happy for a while, think about the romance and happiness you usually have together, maybe his economy is a little tight, right? As long as it's true to you, there's no need to care too much about the form.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It can only prove that he doesn't love you very much, and I personally feel that loving someone shouldn't be this attitude. I think you have feelings yourself, but you want to continue with him, this kind of thing can only choose to tolerate and not care, on the contrary, find someone who really cherishes you!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    My boyfriend gave me a very expensive gift, what should I give him? Your boyfriend bought you a very expensive gift, and if you receive it, you feel like you owe him a lot. At this time, what do you do? There are the following situations.

    1. This can be a great thing for very materialistic women. Something you can't ask for. Why are you afraid of hot hands?

    And, I am eager to accept the gift without getting tired and continue to profit from it. As long as you want it, you don't hide that you want to buy your own men's ticket.

    2. For a very rational woman, if someone else pays her the same thing, she will definitely return the same thing. There is nothing wrong with such an approach, but it is not good for lovers who are in a relationship. Men want their women to need him.

    That's the feeling of necessity. When a woman receives an expensive gift, if she immediately replies to the letter, or immediately buys something of the same value and returns it to her, or immediately spends money on it, the man may feel unnecessary and unhappy. For a long time, feelings will definitely be affected to a certain extent.

    3. Some women do not refuse this gift, but also feel tearful gratitude, so that men meet a kind woman, a woman who puts her good in her heart, and let men feel what they need, and the response they pay is their own deeper love. Yes, every woman doesn't like small gifts? Expensive gifts are more surprising, but if they are not handled well, they can ruin the relationship between the two.

    4. For some men, if they don't spend too much money on women's tickets during the love period, they will be more decisive when they break up. So, a wise woman will not only receive a precious gift from a man, but will also be happy. And give corresponding care and love for a certain period of time, and do not have to repay it financially.

    In conclusion, a wise woman does not approach feelings very rationally. Women are inherently sensual, which is not easy to do. Just go with your heart.

    When a male ticket buys himself an expensive gift, the wise woman does not react immediately financially, but with love and affection.

    The reason why men want to buy expensive gifts for their female tickets and why they want to start female tickets is because they want to get the love that female tickets need. If you have to be the woman with whom he is very clear, or who does not know how to thank him, your relationship will not last.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you can, you can give him a gift of similar value. But if the conditions don't allow it, you just need to prepare the gift with your heart, because sometimes your boyfriend doesn't need you to return the same thing to him, he just wants the heart you gave him the gift.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    First of all, consider your own emergency, and don't slap your swollen face and become fat, otherwise you will be in deep embarrassment. Second, expensive is not only the amount of money, but also the heart, and a careful handmade gift is also extremely precious.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    That depends on your economic conditions, if the economic conditions are good, then it is more expensive to give, if the economy is not good, then it is ordinary, after all, the courtesy is light and affectionate.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    On your financial basis, choose the right gift for him. You can look at his usual hobbies and choose the ones he likes. Then if the price difference is too big, you can add handmade gifts to it, so that you can also see your heart.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    What a surprise gift from my boyfriend.

    When I got home in the evening, I just entered the house and saw a small box on the table. The box contained a bear with Happy Birthday written on it.

    It turned out to be a birthday present from my boyfriend on my birthday!

    Looking at this cute little bear, I couldn't help but think of the past when my boyfriend and I met, knew each other, and fell in love, and I couldn't help but feel emotional.

    My boyfriend and I met, knew each other, and fell in love when we were in college. At that time, we were both student leaders in the student union. At one of the events, he took the initiative to strike up a conversation with me:

    Hello, are you so-and-so? I'm a student council, what's your name? "And just like that, we got to know each other.

    After that, we helped each other at work, cared for each other in life, and slowly, we developed a good impression of each other.

    It wasn't long before we were in a relationship. In the process of getting along, I found out that my boyfriend is an introvert. On every date, he was silent.

    In order to liven up the atmosphere, I often tell jokes to amuse him; When I encounter unhappiness, I will also comfort him, encourage him, and accompany him. Over time, our feelings grew deeper and deeper.

    One time I was home for the weekend, and I met a familiar figure on the road. When I got closer, it turned out to be my boyfriend! At that moment, I was very moved.

    I didn't expect him to come to see me out of the blue! I later learned that he had come secretly! Because he was afraid that his parents would be angry when they found out, he came to see me at school without telling his family.

    Although it is only a very inconspicuous thing, it seems to have a warm current in my heart.

    After graduating, we had to work out of town. But whenever I have time, I go to his city to see him. Every time we meet, I will bring him a lot of delicious snacks, nice clothes and shoes, etc.

    And he would often buy me small gifts. For example, he would give me a beautiful bag, a beautiful bracelet, a beautiful dress, a beautiful pair of shoes, etc. These little gifts are not worth much, but they make me feel a lot of love!

    One day in June of this year, I suddenly received a package. After unpacking it, it turned out to be a bouquet of flowers! The flowers are very beautiful, and the red, showy flowers make the whole bouquet particularly beautiful and moving!

    This bouquet of flowers is not only bleaching, but also has a faint fragrance. Smelling this floral scent, my mood also becomes extraordinarily happy!

    Holding this beautiful flower, I remembered the bits and pieces I used to be with him: the first date, the first hand-holding, the first hug. And those sweet and wonderful times! At this moment, my heart is filled with a feeling of happiness!

    Looking at the flowers in my hand and the delicate little box, I remembered the bits and pieces I had experienced with my boyfriend before: we went to the park together, watched movies together, ate together, played together, traveled together, and went shopping together. There are so many good memories!

    Thinking about this, I couldn't help but cry.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Summary. Hello, dear. He doesn't mean to dislike your gift, he just wants to know if the thing you bought will be useful to him.

    Otherwise, if you buy him something at random, he won't need it after receiving it, and it will look awkward to put it there. If you buy something he likes, he will definitely take it with him every day or use it every day after receiving it. When he used it, he would think every day that this thing was given to him by his treasure.

    When a boy receives a gift, the first thing he considers is whether he is practical. If it's useful, please give a thumbs up! Here, I also wish you good health, all the best, and all your wishes come true!

    Pay attention to safety protection measures during the epidemic! Momda

    I didn't tell him what the gift was. I'm afraid he won't like it. Shout at him not to ask.

    I didn't tell him what the gift was. I'm afraid he won't like it. Shout at him not to ask.

    Hello, dear. He doesn't mean to dislike your gift, he just wants to know if the thing you bought will be useful to him. Otherwise, if you buy him something at random, he won't need it after receiving it, and it will look awkward to put it there.

    If you buy something he likes, he will definitely take it with him every day or use it every day after receiving it. When he used it, he would think every day that this thing was given to him by his treasure. When a boy receives a gift, the first thing he considers is whether he is practical.

    If it's useful, please give a thumbs up! Here, I also wish you good health, all the best, and all your wishes come true! Pay attention to safety protection measures during the epidemic!

    Momda

    I didn't tell him what the gift was. I'm afraid he won't like it. Shout at him not to ask.

    Uh-huh. I didn't tell him what the gift was. I'm afraid he won't like it. Shout at him not to ask.

    Hello, dear. He doesn't mean to dislike your gift, he just wants to know if the thing you bought will be useful to him. Otherwise, if you buy him something at random, he won't need it after receiving it, and it will look awkward to put it there.

    If you buy something he likes, he will definitely take it with him every day or use it every day after receiving it. When he used it, he would think every day that this thing was given to him by his treasure. When a boy receives a gift, the first thing he considers is whether he is practical.

    If it's useful, please give a thumbs up! Here, I also wish you good health, all the best, and all your wishes come true! Pay attention to safety protection measures during the epidemic!

    Momda

    I didn't tell him what the gift was. I'm afraid he won't like it. Shout at him not to ask.

    Hello, dear. He doesn't mean to dislike your gift, he just wants to know if the thing you bought will be useful to him. Otherwise, if you buy him something at random, he won't need it after receiving it, and it will look awkward to put it there.

    If you buy something he likes, he will definitely take it with him every day or use it every day after receiving it. When he used it, he would think every day that this thing was given to him by his treasure. When a boy receives a gift, the first thing he considers is whether he is practical.

    If it's useful, please give a thumbs up! Here, I also wish you good health, all the best, and all your wishes come true! Pay attention to safety protection measures during the epidemic!

    Momda

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