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Anonymous users2024-02-15What should I do if I am always dragged down by the people around me with negative energy?
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Anonymous users2024-02-14You can take the initiative to communicate with each other, and you should also tell each other that you should be full of positive energy in life, so that you can be very happy and happy in life, and don't have a negative attitude, which will only ruin yourself.
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Anonymous users2024-02-13Be sure to stay away from such people, the negative energy of the other party may affect your emotions and also affect your development, you must make yourself immune.
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Anonymous users2024-02-12You must be calm, do your own thing, and don't be disturbed by others, which is a test of your heart.
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Anonymous users2024-02-111.Do not get involved. Never get caught up in any specific accusations and incidents.
Whatever the other person says, don't respond specifically, keep your distance, so you can see the whole picture. Staying out of the way is not the same thing as being irresponsible. In order to be responsible, it is necessary to see clearly, and the bystanders are clear, and the principle has remained unchanged since ancient times.
2.Describe each other. Describe the other party's state calmly like an outsider, "So intense, what happened?" "Does this further irritate the other side? Yes, so what?
3.Express confusion. No matter what the other person says, you express confusion:
I didn't understand, I didn't understand. It is true that people cannot understand when they are angry. In this way, I force the other party to repeat, keep repeating, and if I repeat too much, I will lose my temper.
Anyway, the other party pays more, you pay less, we can afford it. Isn't it strange for those who don't know, it's hard to accept any accusations if you don't understand, isn't it?
4.Describe your status. You reacted so violently, my emotional hunger fluctuated, I was so angry that I couldn't control it.
But I also wondered, if you are so reasonable, do you have to express it in this way? Are you going to vent your frustration, or do you want me to do something?
These practices are not pretending to be confused, but restoring the truth. It's not easy. There is no such thing as a no-cost way to deal with it, either scarred or prepared early.
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Anonymous users2024-02-10What should you do if you have a negative energy person around you?
I like to complain about everything, it's okay if things go well, if something goes wrong, it's your problem! Will push all the problems on you!
Keep telling you some big truths that don't make any sense!
For example, he never reads, but he will ask his children to study hard and make progress every day!
A person with negative energy should only love himself, because he expresses all his negative emotions to the people around him!
If there is a person with negative energy around you, how should you learn to deal with it?
I think if you can choose to stay away from such people as much as possible, because everyone has their own difficulties, life is already so difficult, there is no need to hurt yourself for others, there is no need!
Second, choose to be silent and smile! Maybe the other party just treats you as an emotional trash can, and we don't need to be a trash can!
Third, never hold others to your own standards! Empathy, maybe you will, but not necessarily!
Fourth, maybe you should read more, when you read more, you will understand that tolerating different ideologies, thinking, patterns, visions, whether you read or not, how good or bad you read, will really affect and change a person!
Fifth, learn to be tolerant, reflective, and when you see shortcomings, you should also reflect on whether you also have such problems!
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