What psychological expectations do you need to make when marrying a poor boy with potential stocks?

Don't look at what potential is not potential. If a man has no bad habits, is mentally healthy, and gets along well with his parents, classmates, and colleagues. There are two or three brothers who can drink and eat skewers, and it is very important to have a state of continuous learning and self-confidence.

Just rest assured to marry, those who pass the above conditions will finally reach the level of wealth, or it will be no problem to live a life that is not too bad. By the way, one more thing, first of all, you need to be like that yourself.

If you don't have any potential and planning, don't have some ideas for work, and don't know how to live, I suggest that you first slow down the heart of talking about marriage, after all, independence is very important, and relying too much on other people's future is not a good thing for a family, especially a family with poor financial resources. I think that knowing how to understand and distinguish a woman's downfall requires a high level of self-reliance, self-confidence, and self-control. Don't overestimate yourself, understand yourself more objectively, at least you can meet your own material needs before considering marriage.

It is actually quite shallow to expect that through the efforts of others, it will take you into the broad road, after all, the initiative in life should not be handed over to others at any time, regardless of gender. If you have to, why not make your own potential stocks.

Remind yourself that such a choice is to follow your heart's decision. Even if anything changes in the future, don't regret or regret it. If you ultimately decide not to marry him, the same goes for you. Love him, love him at this moment. Love him every moment.

Well, even if he doesn't achieve anything, I don't regret the decision I made today. Because in my opinion, there are too many "potential stocks" in this world, but not everyone can get the fame and fortune they deserve. This process of struggle is more important, if you feel that this process is meaningless.

What I hope is that when the potential stock is no longer the potential stock, and then start to enjoy life and love, it will be a waste of my feelings with the other party. At the end of the day, liking someone is not because of what he will be in the future, but because of the irresistible charm he shows now. In this way, no matter what happens in the future, there will be no regrets.

Men are not always strong, and women are not always vulnerable. Don't entrust too much hope and future to others, and don't stop and wait for potential stocks to explode. A woman's future happiness is not a one-and-done thing like investing in a potential stock.

Don't stop your own cultivation and growth at any time, after having a significant other, not only do you have to grow, but you also have to set phased goals with your loved ones and achieve them together.

Perseverance to withstand his temper, perseverance in love, and conviction. Encourage him when he is unknown. When he succeeds, advice is against him.

All the face projects revolve around him, especially the comings and goings of relatives on both sides and the weddings of friends. Put the potential stocks you are optimistic about, use love all the time, preach with details, and let him feel, which can slightly prevent potential stocks from growing into power stocks and making foolish things. The key is that potential stocks should simply love you, have you in their hearts, and be good to you.

If a poor boy can become a potential stock, it means that his personality is relatively sound, and even his heart is quite strong. All he needed was a little more time and luck. He doesn't have inferiority, sensitivity, paranoia, vulnerability, those are just public stereotypes and inherent prejudices, in fact, he is even more confident, calmer, more tolerant, more tenacious than the average person, besides, if he is really the former description, you can't fall in love with him.

Of course, you don't have to fantasize about being able to follow him one day to become rich, which is a small probability event for anyone. Since you love him so sincerely, that's not what you're asking for, are you?

So you don't need to have any psychological expectations, just like other happy couples, cherish each other, live every day happily, and add a little encouragement and spur.

A message from a senior potential stock poor boy.