How do you deal with someone who is trying to sow discord between you and your girlfriend?

Having one or two friends with whom you have a good relationship can be very helpful to you, whether it is in your work or in life. But there are always some people who will provoke your relationship with your best friend, so how will you treat her?

First of all, if I know who provoked the relationship between me and my girlfriend, I would first have a good communication with my girlfriend to clarify the misunderstanding between us, and then I would tell my girlfriend who provoked our relationship and stay away from her. At the same time, I would warn the person not to use any provocative language between me and my best friend, and tell her what the consequences of doing this would be, and tell her that the consequences of chewing her tongue would not end well.

Besides, I will gradually move away from that person with my best friend, and the person who chews the root of my tongue can't get along with her as a good friend. One of the keys to being able to be good friends with each other is not to speak ill of others behind your back, let alone to sow discord between them. Besides, I believe that everyone is reluctant to spend a long time with a person who chews the root of their tongue as a friend, and the most annoying thing is to be disobeyed.

If the provocation is too frequent and the situation becomes too serious, I will confront her face to face with my best friend why she is doing it, what is in it for her, and warn her not to associate with us again and then break up with her. If she has any rebellious behavior, she can tell more people what the person's character is.

No matter how much a person hides on the surface, if she does those things behind her back, those behaviors are too insidious, sooner or later, they will be exposed and spurned. Besides, the relationship between you and your best friend generally won't be disintegrated with a few provocative words, so the person who secretly provokes the relationship doesn't need to pay attention, just smile and don't talk and watch her perform!

Of course, it was beaten to death with a stick, just a joke, of course it won't be so cruel, but it won't be much better.

My girlfriend and I have known each other for more than ten years, we have known each other since elementary school, although the time to be girlfriends is only six years, but our relationship is really the kind that will not lose touch because of time and space, our relationship is so good that we even like the same boy, but we have not started with this boy, on the one hand, because we just have a good feeling, and on the other hand, we are best friends.

If we have such a good relationship and are provoked by others, if that person succeeds, my girlfriend and I will probably never think about these things, but will only hate the other party, and the person who provoked us will not only succeed, but also the truth will not be discovered, after all, we will not determine the content of those provocations in person after being provoked.

And since he can provoke success, it means that my relationship with my girlfriend will not be very strong, and I still have a little distrust of each other. But even so, if he loves to provoke successfully, and I can still learn the truth in my lifetime, I will definitely hold a grudge against this person who provokes, but I won't do anything, after all, this friendship itself is a bit of a problem, so in the end I may blame the between.

The method of provoking is nothing more than slander and rumor-mongering, so if the person who provoked fails, it will definitely be discovered by me, and then he will have to pay the due price for the rumor he created in front of me. Although I'm not a very bad person, it doesn't mean that I really won't retaliate, I'm also a very scheming girl, but I never thought of using this scheming to deal with someone.

Girlfriends are like relatives to me, sometimes even more important than relatives, if someone slanders her in front of me, or spreads rumors, then I will smack this revenge a few times, and then use this opportunity to trick the person who provokes, let him know the consequences of provoking other people's relationships, so that he will never dare to provoke other people's relationships in the future.

There's not much to say about people who provoke themselves and their girlfriends, and most people have no more than two options. One is to explain the situation clearly to your best friend and keep her best friend away from her, but this method is really not the best; The other is that those who are clear are self-purifying, and those who are turbid are self-turbid, will always think that they will really want to be revealed in the end.

Let's talk about the first type first, when encountering this situation, most people are more emotional than rational, directly angry, and then go to their best friends to make it clear. This is neither the most rational solution nor the best solution. After all, your own girlfriends may not all believe it, and if your relationship is iron enough, your girlfriends will not listen to other people's provocations.

In addition to talking to your girlfriend, you may also go to the person who provokes you to make it clear, but you are just doing that in vain, we often say don't try to wake up a person who is fake sleeping, that is just in vain, and the same is true in this matter.

Let's talk about the second one, this approach is the best way to deal with it in my opinion, your girlfriend has been with you for so long, how can you not know what kind of person you are, if you start to stay away from you because you hear a little provocation from others, then such a girlfriend doesn't want it, there is no point at all, a person who is going to leave you go and persuade him to make a joke! Besides, the iron relationship between you and your girlfriend will not become a bubble because of a little provocation by others, so don't worry too much, it's best to do your best! So there's nothing to pay attention to that kind of person, time is a good thing, he will prove everything!

I'm afraid of meeting such teammates, you said that if your girlfriend's best friend is a sensible person who won't sow discord, I think your life will be much better, on the contrary, it's the end of the world, how sad it is to quarrel all day long about unnecessary things, but your girlfriend still believes in her, so you can bribe your girlfriend appropriately?

Your friend's best friend may have a misunderstanding with you. Gather your girlfriend and girlfriends, and the three of you will have dinner together, and then explain all these things on the table. That would solve the problem of why you are doing this.

It won't be good to have such a woman, you should let your girlfriend recognize it.

Does she think that the two of you are out of play, and then there will be a play with you?!

Your girlfriend's best friend is always provoking the relationship, which means that your girlfriend and best friend are not optimistic about you, so you should communicate with your girlfriend to see how she feels about you. Let him choose between you and his girlfriend.

This can only mean that you are guilty of villains, or there are other things that have a cause and an effect, and you should carefully develop the origin of the problem to solve it is not a problem, you should try to explain everything to your girlfriend, and reasonable people will not fall for bad people.

When you meet this kind of best friend who sows discord, leave her as soon as possible and she is no longer dealing with her, lest you become such a person after a long time, because you have learned from someone.

In the face of the villain, you can only stay away from her, but the two of you used to be close friends, so you can only slowly distance yourself, and then it is best not to have a relationship of interest with her in the future, and it is best to endure the past when you are with her, and you can endure it, and you will have a face. In the future, you must learn to make friends carefully.

Friends should help each other, understand and respect each other, and don't complain and dislike each other because of a little thing. Is there room for redemption in the consideration, is it worth cherishing?

If your best friend sow discord and she deletes you, then you should be happy, such a girlfriend is no better than having one!

You don't need to bother.

You are a blessed person, don't resist, there are two situations in which a person hurts others: to hurt others is to spend his own merits and wealth, and one who hurts others has a bad heart and often hurts others, that is, to take money to earn money for others; A person who endures humiliation is to collect money all the time. This great forbearance is like opening a bank and being able to accept all rivers.

2) There is a business in the world that is always losing money, and that is tantrums.

3) The heart is good and the mouth is not good, and the glory and wealth are gone.

4) If you can't endure anything, your achievements are limited. Forbearance and humiliation are also the perseverance, perseverance, and long-term heart that we people in the world talk about. Those who are satisfied should endure it, why?

If you are afraid of being greedy, keep your distance. Enemies have to endure it, why? Protect your own pure heart.

The retribution of forbearance and humiliation is good.

5) "When a thought arises, a million obstacles open", together with the heart of anger (chenhui), wisdom is gone, reason is blinded, so it is all emotional, not only hurting oneself, but also intentionally or unintentionally making enemies with all sentient beings. If the grievance cannot be resolved, when the cause is ripe, the retribution will appear, and the retribution will be retribution, and the retribution will surely become more and more cruel every time.

When someone provokes the relationship between you and your girlfriend, how will you deal with it correctly?

Kiss! Hello! It's true that your girlfriend is kind to you, and the way your girlfriend gets along with you should also be true, and we should choose to believe what we see and feel when we are questioned about our friendship.

And one thing is very important, that is, everyone treats other people in a different way, your girlfriend may be very lively in front of you, and it always feels like she will have endless closed words with you, but if you change someone, her personality may not be like this, maybe she will become very quiet. In fact, what kind of person our best friend is, we can not feel it in our daily life, whether the other party is good to you or not, it is determined by the details. When the other party thinks about you all the time, even if there is a step in front of you, the other party will carefully remind you, if the other party does not take you seriously and is just your own wishful thinking, then even if there is a car in front of you, she will think that you will avoid it by yourself.

Therefore, why bother to listen to what others say, just feel a small thing with your heart, and you must choose to believe in your girlfriends!

Unemployed for two months. The first month is labor arbitration, and finally the mediation is concluded. My girlfriend came here to work for the summer and shared a house with me.

She hit her parents and turned on the hands-free. Her dad: Hasn't Huang (me) found a job yet?

Her: yes. Her dad:

It's been so long, and I've eaten my old book. Her father suddenly asked: Is Xiao Huang next to him?

Her: Hmm. Her dad:

It's been two months, and I went home to plant rice with her mother. After she hung up the **, she asked me if I could plant the land at home and plant the seedlings. Then she asked me if there was a hall in the shop downstairs, duck feet and instant noodles.

I thought she would apologize for her parents, but no.

She just wants to make big things small and small things. She felt that her parents had done nothing wrong. Then I couldn't help but get angry and asked her:

I'm not your parents' daughter, so they're not qualified to say that about me. Her: My parents were just joking.

She will return to school at the end of August, and she will gradually fade in contact with her in the future.

If they were talking behind my back, or if they were cryptic, I wouldn't have known it. Even if I looked for a job for two years, it was my own business, and I didn't hurt anyone. He already knew I was there during the call, and he sneered at me in a malicious and insulting tone.

There is another meaning, which is that they don't want to make friends with their daughters and people like me. All in all, I won't ever set foot in their house in the future. She felt that her parents were right, and she thought the words were right.

But what right do you have to judge others?

When faced with friends who belittle you at every turn, you need to make it clear that your self-esteem and dignity cannot be violated. If a friend is always belittling you at every turn and making you feel uncomfortable, then you have the right to take action to protect your dignity and self-esteem.

First, you can try to communicate with this friend. You can be honest with him or her that you feel hurt and that such behavior is unfriendly. You can try to ask them about their motivation and why, it may be because they have a different sense of humor or have a misunderstanding of your attitude, so they need to clarify and explain it on the side.

This way, you can make the other person aware of the negative impact of their actions and remind them not to do it again in the future.

Secondly, if communication with a friend is not effective, you can also consider reducing the amount of contact with the friend temporarily or in a permanent manner. You can find other social circles, make new friends, or focus on your hobbies and interests. If the friend is really important, you can also give them some time to reflect and change before trying to restore the friendship.

Finally, you need to be clear that it is very important to protect your dignity and self-esteem, regardless of the action you take. Don't let anyone belittle you, don't give up your dignity and self-esteem.

I think I should break up with this noisy girlfriend.

Since you also said that this girlfriend is belittling you everywhere, then you don't need to get along with her anymore, you should break off the stupid girlfriend relationship with her, so you know that she belittles you everywhere, why do you want to get along with her?

Brother Noodles belittles your best friend everywhere, you can do this: First of all, your best friend belittles you everywhere, and the sparrow attack shows that the two of you are not good friends, so you must keep a sense of distance. Don't tell the other person the secret.