I failed in business, owed 180,000 foreign debts, and my boyfriend had 200,000 savings, which he sav

He may not have enough faith in the relationship, and there are many reasons for this, which may be in you or in your family.

For example: He feels that you don't love him enough. Or your family is more concerned about money, which will make him feel unsecure.

may make him feel that if there is money, there will be feelings, and if there is no money, there will be no feelings, so the money is still safe in his own hands.

Men think about things very rationally! Be aware of this.

Also, whether you have reached the process of getting married, if he has not planned to get married, then he will think that it is very unsafe to pay in advance, as you said, take this help as a bride price, if you regret it later, then it is really "stealing chickens does not make rice." lost the wife and the soldiers". That's how rational men are.

Especially in the current environment, breaking up is a matter of one sentence, and he is even more insecure. He didn't want to gamble.

Take love alone, each other is not enough to love, it feels like he loves himself more, in fact, the reality of life is also something that men have to consider, because men's experience and reason tell them that success and failure are often in a thought.

If you are already planning to get married, why not make a marriage contract immediately, and treat the help as a bride price, as a serious contribution to the man's love.

No one can guarantee that a relationship is 100% reliable, and this cannot be used as a reason to put pressure on everything.

200,000 is not much, and those who can solve it by themselves do not ask for people, let alone pass it on to their lovers on the grounds of love.

It is more important to give yourself a reliable love, married life is a lifelong thing, many are required for love, and they will be repaid in the future, for example: the other party may also use this as a reason to talk about things in the future. What's more, you also have to run in, and finally see if you are compatible with each other, which is also to be done.

It's your misfortune to meet such a man, leave him as soon as possible, find someone who can help you, and live a good life.

Hello this friend, you have failed in business and owe a lot of foreign debts. I'm sorry about how you're doing. But what, what about your boyfriend?

There is a deposit of 200,000 yuan, which should be saved by him for many years of work. As for him, he didn't lend you this money, which means that. She felt that her life was not going into debt.

Involved. And, as you can see from your narrative, you made marrying him a condition, and then what? Hope he lends you money.

He may be thinking that you don't really love her very much. So he doesn't want to lend you this money.

Then you say that you lost 180,000 yuan in business, and your boyfriend has 200,000 yuan in savings. Do you need a boyfriend to help you pay off this foreign debt? The boyfriend's money was saved by his hard work.

This kind of thing can't be forced. If he is willing to help you pay it back, he is not willing to help you pay it back, that is also his own choice.

Because there is no need for others to pay your debts for you. His deposits were hard-earned. He and you are also in love.

Not so much for you. It's all a lie to get married and pay back. It is impossible to repay the money after marriage, and it is only possible to repay the money after divorce, and people are very realistic.

You pay off the debts you owe by yourself, and others pay you money because of their schemes.

Your foreign debt should be repaid by yourself, and your boyfriend sees that you are sincere to him, and he is willing to repay it for you, but he is unwilling: you can't blame him for paying it back for you, because it is not easy for him to save money for his hard work, and he can't force it.

Then your boyfriend is willing to give it to you, then he really loves you very much. But I'm sure most guys are reluctant, and if it were me, I wouldn't be willing to help you pay off your debts, after all, I'm not married yet.

Hello! If a person loves you, then he will tolerate your strengths and weaknesses, even if he knows that the money may be wasted, he will help you without hesitation, he finds reasons not to help you, can only say that he does not love you enough.

This needs to be communicated, after all, money is a big deal, and it is best to think about it.

Both parties belong to the rational type, the man is, the woman is also, when it is not a husband and wife relationship, the man has no obligation to repay, but he has not left the other party, the woman has not met the requirements, and the same has not left the other party. aqui te amo。

I failed in business, owed 180,000 foreign debts, and my boyfriend had 200,000 savings, which he saved through work, that is, he didn't really love you.

Find a rich man to marry her, and your problem will be solved.

You're really good enough to do business.