My daughter in law is a bit na ve and can t communicate with her and quarrel when I reason with her,

My daughter-in-law and I are both rural, my family conditions are slightly better, my parents worked outside in the early years, and bought a small exclusive courtyard in the county after returning in 08. The daughter-in-law's father-in-law is in poor health, raising some livestock at home, mainly relying on his mother-in-law to help small workers earn money, and then there is a younger brother, who is now in elementary school.

I used to be in the army, and I came back from the army in 15 years, and I was 20 years old when I came back, which is not big, but my parents are more anxious, because here in the countryside, I basically get married at the age of 20, and then there are fewer girls now, <>

My daughter-in-law and I have known each other for 16 years, and I have been on a blind date before, but they are not very suitable until the neighbors in the same village (the uncle and mother of the old family, Henan should know) to introduce. We just met, and I won't talk much about the blind date here, because neither of us knows each other very well, so we are both more reserved (she and I are more traditional). In the end, we talked for two months, and it felt quite suitable, so we got engaged.

Before the engagement, her mother (father-in-law, brother, brother's daughter-in-law) came to my house to see the house, which meant to see how my family was doing, so that the woman's parents could rest assured. Let me go to the hotel to book a table, and the whole family will discuss the engagement. The engagement gave ten thousand and one plus three gold.

Not long after the engagement, she began to prepare for marriage, at first her parents asked for 160,000 dowry, the banquet man was all inclusive (vulgar), and then my parents discussed, and finally ordered 120,000, her family bought a sofa, TV, washing machine, four-piece set, and the rest was bought by my family. I didn't say if I didn't bring this back with the bride price. Later, when I went to take wedding photos, I chose a good ** for more than 5,000.

At first, she didn't really want to shoot, but then her parents persuaded her that she agreed.

It's hard to get along with very stubborn people, but she's your wife, you have to bear with it, I think you'll melt her unreasonable and stubborn character! When I think of your union, she always has a beautiful place!

Think about it: Since it is your wife, you also know that she is stubborn, but she can only not be as knowledgeable as her, for the sake of the family and the children, you can endure it If you can bear it, you will be angry in the past It's still your wife, I feel the same way I can't tell her So so!

If you can bear it, you can bear it, and if you can't bear it, you will get divorced and get out.

She's finding fault because you can't satisfy her.

Don't worry about her, it's good if it's a long time.

Those who get along day and night under the same roof, let alone daughters-in-law, even colleagues and friends believe that there will inevitably be times when they quarrel. So you want to cure her once and for all, and my answer is: impossible!

The reason is very simple: going to extremes in everything is not necessarily a good thing, let alone a daughter-in-law! Personal experience:

Quarrels don't solve the problem at all! If you think it's true that your daughter-in-law is lacking in some way, you can talk to her in a suitable, slightly more formal way. As the saying goes:

Communication is the link and bridge between people! It doesn't matter if there is a problem, the key is to find the contradiction, narrow it, and resolve it!

The quarrel shows that the two parties care about each other to a certain extent, and I believe that you must have felt it as a friend, right? I'm not masochistic either, but the facts tell me that the occasional argument is essential to life, like a catalyst for life, maintaining each other's attraction to each other.

As long as you control one word "degree" in everything, it's OK! Don't strive for perfection or extremes! As a man, I think especially when arguing with my daughter-in-law might as well calm our minds, calm down for a while, go out to breathe, and smoke a cigarette.

Don't be angry and speak ill of each other! There is more understanding and tolerance in life, men, why bother to stick to small sections, be open-minded!

Finally, I wish you all happiness!

Don't quarrel with her, she's a child and you're a child too? Don't care about small things, whatever she says is what she says, and big things must stick to their own principles. A big man should do this because she is your daughter-in-law.

Ignore her for a few days, and you can be obedient.