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I don't read many books, but the few books I have read are all studied, I like them very much, and I have gained a lot. Let me introduce to you: the first one is naturally Calvert's education, which I learned from the ** of our forum Tian Tian Dad, and after reading it hungrily, I felt a lot.
I like Carl Sr.'s relaxation the most, he can make Carl Jr. understand a lot of truths in a very relaxed atmosphere. The second is the education that I personally typed into an electronic version of Calvert Jr. The second half of the book I bought was a record of Carl Jr., that is, Carl Sr.'s son.
He compared his father's education and his own experimental research to write his own experience. The most precious thing about these words is the inheritance and development of ideas. The third is that a good mother is better than a good teacher.
I read an article from our local newspaper, and then I found an electronic version to read it, and I was touched a lot, a Chinese mother recorded her own very detailed parenting notes. The fourth is Xiaodoudou by the window, which I came to the group and was introduced to me by Mr. Lan Hai, I went to Xinhua Bookstore to buy it, and I went to see it all day. When I closed the book, I was very embarrassed, and compared to my practice, I summarized a lot by myself, and wrote that my son and I could see me and my son when I clicked.
From this book, the most profound thing I learned was listening, the principal listened quietly to Xiaodoudou for four hours, which is something that our parents have not done. The above books are my favorite books and I hope everyone who cares about children's education can read them.
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1. "Emile on Education" [French] Rousseau.
The important work of Rousseau, the outstanding French Enlightenment thinker, is one of the three major educational works in the world. It was first published in Amsterdam, the Netherlands, in 1762, and caused a sensation throughout France and Western European countries, and had a huge impact. In this book, Rousseau expounds his ideas on natural education by opposing the old system of education through the education of Emile, the object of his hypothetical education.
Rousseau's so-called natural education is to obey the eternal laws of nature, respect the free development of human body and mind, and its means is life and practice, and advocate the use of physical teaching and intuitive teaching methods, so that children can obtain the knowledge they need from the personal experience of life and practice, through sensory feelings.
2. Educational Essays by John. Locke.
This is a philosophical and simple to understand, vivid and touching, profoundly influenced future generations, immortal education classics, they have profoundly influenced later generations of scholars, shaped the minds of generations of ordinary people, and is still a must-read book for educators and parents in Europe, America and even countries around the world. Among the three books recognized in the West, "Educational Tales", "Emile", and "The Secret of Childhood", Locke's "Educational Essays" was published the earliest and most clearly: he clearly proposed the physical, moral and intellectual training of children, and put physical training in the first place.
3, "The Secret of Childhood" Montessori.
In this book, Dr. Montessori depicts in detail and vividly the physical and psychological characteristics of children. As a parent, if you want to understand the secrets of your child's growth and enter your child's heart, this book is a must-read! The author, Montessori, was the first female doctor of medicine in Italy.
Founder of the first children's home. Montessori schools that bear her name can be found in 110 countries. Her biography is included in the series of biographies of 12 people who have helped the world.
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First, the content generally follows the principle of progressing from simple to difficult, from shallow to deep, and the difficulty gradually increases, but it does not have to correspond to the age of the child.
Because each child's foundation is different, and their comprehension ability is also different, what is suitable for other children may not be suitable for their own children. For example, children before the age of six can read more picture books and other books. After entering elementary school, you can choose some books to read.
But each child's foundation is different, some second-grade children can read some tomes, and some first-grade children don't know a few words. Therefore, when choosing a book, you must choose it according to your child's situation. See what kind of books are suitable for children to read, and then go to the tour to choose a few things, not just follow the crowd.
Second, focus on your child's interests and slowly expand the scope of reading.
Some parents choose books that their children don't like to read because they are not interested. Therefore, we can start with the things that the child is interested in, for example, the child before the age of six likes cars, then we can choose some car-related books for him to read, and then transition from cars to other means of transportation, and then from transportation to geography and other books. In this way, slowly, the child's reading range will become larger and larger, and he will also enjoy reading more and more.
Some parents say that my child doesn't like to read, he likes to watch cartoons, and she doesn't read any of the books I choose for him, so what should I do? Since children love to watch cartoons, start with cartoons. For example, if a child likes to watch PAW Team, we think that such cartoons are of little value, but the child likes it, so we will buy some books related to PAW Team to read with the child and understand the child's hobbies.
In the middle of reading, you can discover your child's other hobbies, and then you can transition to other books.
It should be noted that even if the child likes the car, do not buy a lot of car-related books and throw them to the child, you can give the child one or two at a time, and appropriately create a sense of shortage, so as not to make the child feel bored with too many books and lose interest in reading.
Third, choose books based on the questions asked by the child.
We will find that children are often interested in a lot of things, and they are simply "100,000 Whys". But if you look closely, you will also find that the questions asked by children are different at each stage. When it comes to questions asked by children, we should not respond rudely with "I don't know", but should answer them patiently.
If you really don't know, then you can go to the book with your child to find the answer. For example, if your child is asking about science or other knowledge, then buy some science-related books and read them with your child. The process of reading not only answers children's questions, but also enhances the parent-child relationship.
In fact, every child has a strong curiosity and desire to explore, and we must protect this curiosity of children, because this is the key to children's active learning in the future, and it is the internal driving force of children.
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