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Close the door of your heart, unwilling to let others close, even if a person is lonely to death, he still has to pretend to be stubborn and strong, live alone and proudly, want to stay away from the world, just want to live in his own world.
I don't want others to enter my own world, it's like sealing myself in the dust, no matter how lightly others are to knock on the door, and I don't want to give each other a chance. I have been hurt, so I don't want to accept it, I don't want to let others get close to me anymore, and I don't want to give others a chance to hurt me again. often sit alone, quietly in a daze, let your thoughts fly, let your own decadence and self-living your own life.
I just want to taste my own world, and I always feel that in this world, no one will be able to understand me and tolerate me, and I will never want to give my own sincerity and let others trample on it. As long as others show a little concern for themselves, they will run away, for fear that they will have something to do with the other party, for fear that if they are not careful, they will break the existing tranquility. No matter how sad you are, you no longer have the luxury of having someone by your side, and even if you are helpless, you no longer have the luxury of having someone to comfort you.
There is a lock on my heart, and the key has long been thrown into the depths of the sea by me, even if someone can give up their life for me and find it, but there is nothing they can do, the sea is so big, just like my heart, cold and without temperature.
Slowly get used to a lot of things, from being unable to sleep alone, to now not wanting to have others next to the pillow, and only if you know what kind of pain you have experienced, you will get used to a person's life. Even if the outside world is noisy, it has nothing to do with me, and the quiet hiding in the corner is my favorite life at the moment.
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This is a manifestation of arrogance, I think that I only need one person is enough, I think that everything can be solved by myself alone, I can live well by myself, I don't need others.
These people are accustomed to being alone, they can solve all their problems by themselves, they live in their own world, they don't want to open up to others, they don't want to enter other people's worlds.
Because these people feel that it is too troublesome to make friends or it is troublesome to get along with friends, it will make their hearts change, and they will start to get used to being a person and start liking a person. They feel that a person is free and unrestrained, their thoughts are not understood by others, but they will not be restricted, they can do whatever they want, but they will also have lonely times, these people who are closed in their hearts will never confide in others, so no one can understand the loneliness in their hearts. <>
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I think it's hurt a lot, you feel this way, you may be very sad right now, but you should know how to distract yourself, you can do more things that you like, which will help relieve your depressed mood.
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I'm the kind of person who doesn't want others to know about my world, I just want to be alone and feel more free.
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It's just that I'm used to being alone and don't want anyone to break into my life, so I close the door of my heart!
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You'll benefit a lot by chatting with friends you think are good friends, getting out for a walk and breathing in the outside air, and doing something you wanted to do but didn't. Your previous going down will make you autistic.
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I feel like you're too autistic! Don't do that!! The outside world is wonderful, make more friends!! It would be a lot better!!
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Then you still haven't met someone who can open your heart, and if you do, I think you'll change.
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There are two meanings, one is that she doesn't like you and rejects you tactfully, and the other is that you don't give him a sense of security.
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In fact, they are closing themselves.
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Me too, and I'm still very sad, I seem to be used to this feeling, and sometimes I feel that I am fine, and I don't bother so much. But what about a person, be optimistic, I believe you can do it, and I believe that I can do it.
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The experience of shutting yourself off your emotions is that you won't be hurt anymore and you'll feel more secure.
You ask me why I'm able to handle the relationship so easily now. Turning off my emotions, I pay more attention to my feelings. I care more about myself.
I would give them the comfort, encouragement, and gentleness they wanted, but I didn't really care about them. A woman is a natural actor and just wants to see if she is willing to perform with a man.
At this moment, men can really get rid of their shackles, and you can also free yourself. Because you don't want to possess them, you don't want to be deprived of yourself either. The sense of accomplishment in your career and the joy of conquering men in your career will make you feel unparalleled joy.
Many women are too responsible, but this sense of responsibility is for others, not for themselves, so most of the pain is their own. I'm not completely sluggish, but I know what I want, and when you know what you want, you'll be able to control the rhythm of your own life, and you'll no longer feel anxious or feel sorry for yourself.
Let me talk about how I shut down my emotions and how I did it. It took me three years to do it. It should be said that these three years are the three years of my rebirth. Psychologically and physically.
First of all, psychologically. This is the most difficult. Quitting drugs is the hardest thing to do.
If you live with your partner for a long time, you will have a lot of inertia and subconscious dependence. I'm also not used to eating, drinking, sleeping, and watching movies alone. At that time, a person sat there crying, thinking about many people who had ever been.
But then it turned out that the film itself can enter the country when it sees this kind of thing, and it is superfluous to have someone to accompany it; Later, I learned that cooking is to please yourself, not anyone's business, which is a cultivated emotion. Because you don't have one person in this world, you will have a lot of new friends and you will find a new self.
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It is a lonely experience, and most people who close their feelings and live in their own world are unhappy.
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It was a very lonely experience, I felt like I was hurt a lot, but I didn't have any emotions to a** me.
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You will feel lonely and lonely, your loved ones and friends seem to be far away from you, you can't rely on them, and they can't bring comfort to you.
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Feelings are a defect that has not been overcome in the process of human evolution, so it is impossible for you to close feelings, and I have also tried to completely close my feelings, but only temporarily, can only be said to be controlled, not closed.
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Turning off your emotions can feel lonely. The world is empty, there is only oneself, no one to accompany you, you can only be alone.
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It's a very bad experience, obviously I want to find someone to talk to my heart, but I just can't open my mouth, and it's very uncomfortable to hold back.
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I feel like I've become an emotionless machine, and my every move is based on my own instincts, without any emotion or any deep meaning.
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I feel that my life is dark, I can't see a way out, I am lonely, hesitant, helpless, and anxious.
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I feel very lonely, there are no relatives and friends around to communicate with me, my inner thoughts are not spoken, I am disheartened and helpless.
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It's not a very happy experience, because you feel very lonely, very lonely, and you can only digest all the emotions silently by yourself.
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I was very sad during that time, I used to be so friendly, but now I don't know her, I am very disappointed in her, disappointed that she did not maintain the friendship between us, disappointed that she never knew each other after college, and even more disappointed that she lost her bottom line for her own purposes.
For a long time, I would cry silently alone in the café, I would go to the places we walked together to remember the beauty of the past, and then I thought of her desperation, I don't want to think about it again.
This is a disappointing experience for me and a friend that I never want to experience again, and I will take this as a warning and be cautious about making friends. Don't let those disappointments happen again.
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The feeling of being extremely disappointed in someone is that you feel that you are superfluous, meaningless, or you may not feel anything, like a hollowed-out eggshell, you are the eggshell, and it will be finished when you touch it, and you will be in pieces.
Extreme disappointment often stems from excessive expectations, you may have excessive expectations for love, life, studies, career, and marriage, so you will be so heartbroken and desperate when you are disappointed.
I gave birth to a child for the first two years, and lived a life of extreme disappointment, I can't get out of my inner loss, and I can't get out of the shadow of others who are not good to me, I will always be the most one when I eat as a family, my family ignores me, and sometimes I feel that I am too picky, and even during the Chinese New Year, I quarrel with my husband because I can't eat enough or in someone else's house, which is extremely embarrassing. But there is a disappointment in my life and my lover, sometimes you can't guess the consequences of giving up on something, and sometimes these consequences are not what you can imagine and accept.
The reason why people can live for love is because you are willing to give in the world of love, without expecting anything in return, but with dignity. But most of us in the love of the pay and get used to it, often turn a blind eye to these pay choices, sometimes may even look at the trouble, so the person who pays will feel disappointed because of the lack of response or due respect, these experiences you initially feel unaccustomed, will complain, may also lose your temper, but if you are disappointed to the extreme, these are no longer problems, you will look down, the person you fancy may have this virtue, how to be disappointed, Your mind may not be possible in the first place, so why should you complain, all your disappointments and complaints are caused by not practicing enough, that is, because your own heart is not really strong enough. Because a real warrior wouldn't be so easily disappointed.
It's the most vivid lesson life has taught me, because even if you're disappointed, so what? The world doesn't change because of you, and you're not Edison and Jobs. What's more, they are afraid and inconsiderate and disappointed in their lives.
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Isn't it.
A person's existence can often be realized only after it disappears. Is it true that a person's sincerity often knows how to cherish it after it is lost?
If a person becomes unwilling to speak and chooses to remain silent, such emotions are not caused by a day or two, but appear after a long period of accumulation. It has been said that love accumulates slowly, and it is the same with not loving. When the other person disappoints you again and again, you will no longer have any expectations for him.
What does it feel like to be completely disappointed in a person? I think, this feeling is probably that he is calling you **, your heart is calm and you don't even want to take it, ta says okay, and a trace of disgust flashes in your heart. You even feel that one person's life is happier than the life of two.
If a person becomes quiet, it means that they are forcing themselves to let go. Probably too disappointed, so he kept silent. The real disappointment is not scolding, not crying, not losing your temper at you, but disappointment, the silence after complete disappointment, and the fact that I feel that you have nothing to do with me anymore.
All the happiness before the disappointment is because I care, so I am willing to tell him everything, I want to let the other party know every little emotion, and I want to share the little happiness with the other party again and again. When a person is extremely disappointed, he will leave without hesitation, not because he is not brave, nor because he is afraid of being hurt, but he just feels that he does not want to continue to make wrong decisions for the sake of a wrong person.
In fact, we were all Yu Fei and Dingdian, and the cutting was still messy. It's just that later we all lived as Meng Yun and Lin Jia, and we dispersed.
So don't wait until a person is silent for a long time to ask each other what's wrong, two people are together, you can be a little more careful, you can find the beginning of the other party's emotions to care, to communicate, to solve problems, good feelings need to be managed, if one does not ask, one does not say, the final outcome may be two people to the end. The only thing we can do is to lose and cherish it, and don't let down the people you love.
In the world of two people, there must always be a noisy, one laughing, one noisy, and the other coaxing. Love is not a lifetime without quarrels, but after a quarrel, you can join hands for a lifetime!
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It's like you can't see this person when you're so disappointed that you can't see him, really, you don't get angry or upset when he says or does.
I don't have hope for him anymore.
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If you are disappointed to the extreme, you will lose hope, you will not be interested in everything related to that person, you will not be sad or happy, because you have nothing to do with yourself.
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