At what point did you feel the gap between you and your friend?

Friends are sometimes a mirror, Confucius once said: Threesome, there must be my teacher. Choose those who are good and follow them, and change those who are not good.

The meaning of this sentence is that when three people come together, at least one of them is my teacher, choose a good person to follow, and discard the bad one. When you have a good friend by your side, you can form a contrast between your behavior and the other person's behavior, who is good and who is bad, who is right and who is wrong, you can tell at once. Friends are sometimes a mirror, you can reflect on your own shortcomings at any time, but sometimes strong gaps and contrasts can also cause the weaker party to feel inferior.

I've tried to have this situation before. I've always been compared to that one before. A good friend in junior high school, we are inseparable, she is very generous, very popular, she can play with the boys and girls in the class very openly, but I can't, maybe the girls have a little belly, some girls don't like me and I don't associate with her, and the boys can't let go of themselves and play with them.

In this way, her popularity is much better than mine, sometimes walking on the road, classmates generally only greet her and ignore me next to me now, to be honest, I am very uncomfortable, for a while I clearly realized the gap between the two of us, her popularity is really good is really an indisputable fact.

In high school, I had a new friend. It's about the same as junior high school, we're all inseparable. I'm completely opposite to that girl's personality, she loves to be quiet and I love to move, she has a lot of temperament, and I don't care about any image, she looks good, and I look okay.

In fact, this society has never been a face-watching society, and I am really a big difference from her. Before the class was assigned, she said that we were going to be admitted to the experimental class together, and I said that it would be good if I could go to a key class. Then she really went to the experimental class, and I was in the key class.

We're still in this together. It is an indisputable fact that the teacher sometimes sees us and says, "Why is her grades so good, but your grades are so bad?" In terms of grades and knowledge, I am really inferior to her.

Later, she got her wish and I went to 2B school.

I am very grateful to my friends for always showing up in my life with excellent attitudes, and I will be a mirror for others from now on.

Feifei is my high school friend, even if we are not in the same school in college, we will always keep in touch, she will often urge me, let me not only think about eating, drinking and having fun all day in school, but try to learn as much as possible, this is what one of her senior sisters told her. Indeed, her college life is to study, as long as she is interested, she will learn, English, Korean, business administration, as long as it is a course she is interested in, she will choose to audit, in the years of college, she seems to be studying all the time.

And I, as a scumbag, just eat, drink and have fun, and I always think that college should be enjoyed and relaxed, so that when I graduated, I didn't pass English level 4, and computer level 2 also took the exam three times before I barely passed. After graduating from university, I was faced with a job, because I didn't have a major that I was proficient in, so I looked for a long time before I found a slightly more satisfying job. And Feifei, in the first semester of his senior year, was directly admitted to a foreign company, and the gap began to widen little by little, but he didn't realize it at the time.

Last year's New Year, we made an appointment to eat together, and in the process of chatting, she received a **, the whole process was in English, I looked at her in front of me and suddenly felt so strange. Listening to her fluent English, and I could only understand a few simple words, I realized in my heart that there was such a big gap between us, and Feifei was already so good, but I was still like a fool, I had been standing still, unwilling to work hard. After Feifei hung up, she talked to me about her work, and often couldn't take a day off a month, because of her hard work, so she created her excellent self now.

At that moment, I realized that we had all changed, Feifei became better, and I was even more unbearable.

My roommate and I will play sports a lot, such as playing basketball and running, but no matter how I practice my skills or running, I am not as good as them every time, and I don't run as fast as them, so I feel that there will be a gap between people.

When they even had children, I was still single.

When I pay my salary every month, I see other people's pay slips and my pay slips, which is really miserable.

When they even had children, I was still single.

I had a college classmate who didn't know what was wrong with his brain.

During the CET-4 exam, I took the exam.

He sneered at me.

After the taunt, I told the people around me, who reported the fourth level, it's funny, hahaha, he can eat over me.

Then I didn't read the book for a minute, but I passed.

He was silent for a long time and had to say, wow, you can pass, isn't the fourth level very simple.

I asked: It's very simple, you can also take the test.

He was silent for a long time and said, what's the use of taking the university exam, what am I doing with the exam.

I think he should have felt it in the silence.

When I learned that my friend had obtained a professional physician qualification certificate, I felt the gap between me and him, I played together since childhood, but the path of growing up was different, and I would gradually become more and more alienated psychologically.

The gap between the rich and the poor, sometimes you go to a crowded place, and you understand. You can't eat with your children, other people's families are better, relatives add things to others like crazy, no one cares about you, you say something others say you don't know, right and wrong, people are wrong, people are right.

Netizens said: Work is just to make a living. Although the couple has no worries about food and clothing, their annual income is not as good as other people's rental income.

Others can easily rent out several houses, you save money and buy a few houses, but you live in one by yourself, one off-plan, and rent out two sets of ** It doesn't cost much, not to mention that you have to repay the mortgage. Someone else's store buys early, buys a cheap location, the rent is ten times that of yours, and the total price is one-tenth of yours.

In the TV series "Black Ice", Guo Xiaopeng, played by Wang Zhiwen, once said: What a terrible world this is, they cruelly divide people into three, six, nine and so on. People at the highest level can enjoy the material and spiritual ** to the greatest extent.

As the level gradually decreases, the material energy possessed by the people at the bottom can usually only barely sustain their survival, and the spiritual ** is almost zero. That's the reality.

Some people call for wind and rain and enjoy the prosperity of the world; There are people who are poor, sick, and hungry, and they are ready to die at any time in order to survive. The real gap between the rich and the poor, because of money, slowly became a difference in all aspects. One of the things that is evident is that the poor spend time to save money, and the rich spend money to save time.

Poor people can spend a lot of time in order to save money. Rich people can shell out a lot of money in order to save time.

Maupassant told us with a strange story in "My Uncle Hule": When a person is poor, his relatives will treat you as a plague god, and when you are rich, his relatives will treat you as a gospel. The real gap between the rich and the poor is not only the amount of income, but also the level of the bottom line, and the good and evil behavior.

When you buy something, you can't buy it right away, because your economy is limited, if you do, you have to think about your life later, the economy is not enough, what to eat? When you have money, you can buy whatever you want, you don't have to think about these nonsense, you can buy simply.

Experience the real gap between the rich and the poor, which is the high and low level of buying things in the consumption of goods.

When I rode an electric car to work, I saw the endless stream of cars, and when the boss paid the employees, it made me feel the gap between the rich and the poor.

At work, let me write a copy, is about financial income at different stages, what can be done, in writing to the annual financial management in 10-50w is already a little difficult, in writing to more than 50w, I feel that this is from another dimension of life, I can't think of what people still lack.

Before marriage, one person fed and the whole family did not go hungry. After getting married and having children, I realized that it was difficult to die without money.

Some people call for wind and rain and enjoy the prosperity of the world; Some people are poor and sick, and they are not satisfied.

Every year, when I see the average salary in my province released, when I look at my salary, not only does it not drag the country back, but even is in an upper-middle position, I feel very content, and I feel that my life is not bad, although it is not rich, but it is also a medium level.

When the child was six years old, he took him to an English class, because his English was not good, and he wanted the child's pronunciation to be more standard, so he was ruthless and applied for a school with all foreign teachers, 86 classes a year, 10,000 tuition, and 6 years of primary school, 200,000 ah, and I was distressed for a long time.

When my children went to class, I was outside reading books, playing with my phone, and waiting for the end of class. One parent said to me at a time, "excuse me."

It turned out that I was sitting in front of an outlet, and she wanted to charge it, so I got out of the way. I thought that parents nowadays love learning so much, their children learn English, and parents also speak English.

I was very impressed with this parent because her hair was dyed hemp brown, which was honestly not good-looking, and she was black, fat, and dressed casually.

The second time, I saw her bring her two children back from class, helping the children organize their schoolbags as she walked, and her mouth was still in English. Next to me, the teacher of the training class sent the children out and casually asked, "How is this parent's English level?"

The teacher said: "She is not a parent, she is a Filipino maid, and her English is very good." "I checked the ** of the Filipino maid, and the monthly salary in Chinese mainland is at least 10,000 yuan a month.

When I was distressed about the tuition fee of tens of thousands of yuan a year for a child, not only did they send two children to school, but they also used Filipino maids, and at that moment, I deeply felt the gap between the rich and the poor.

The child called a taxi to the old man, but the old man did not know that the taxi only opened the right door.

When I was a freshman, I didn't really fit into the world. I am also somewhat chivalrous in helping the poor and weak. At that time, my monthly living expenses were more than 800 yuan.

Due to savings, I still have half a month to go on winter vacation, and I still have more than 1,000 yuan in my hand. I feel rich. A classmate came to visit our dormitory and told us that he was short of money and took half a month off, so he was worried that he would not spend enough.

I immediately offered to pay for his food and wait until the holidays.

Then I asked him how much money you had in your card and he sobbed and said there was only £18,000 left... I was blown away by this number! At that moment, I suddenly sensed that there was something disparity between the rich and the poor. After graduating, I heard that he had bought a suite on the Third Ring Road of the Imperial City.

He said that it cost more than 2,000 yuan to play my old mother. I gave him a good lesson. Why is airfare between China and the United States so expensive?

I just bought a plane ticket for my elderly family for only $700. Can't you compare it to three? Young people really don't know how high the overhead is.

Hna has a good seat. Why it has to be Delta. He nodded all the way.

Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, next time I'm going to compare the commodity with three. Then a colleague looked down on me, turned around and secretly told me, don't you think he bought business class, all of the above is a personal opinion.

When I saw a young and beautiful female college student, she borrowed 7,000 yuan from an online loan and repaid 240,000 yuan, and she still owed more than 400,000 yuan and was forced to jump off the building and die. There is also no money to treat multiple diseases, and they are watching death alive.

When you want to buy a very expensive piece of clothing, and you grit your teeth and buy it; When you want to buy a good car, and spend most of your savings.

I always felt that the money at that time was not money, how could it be spent so quickly.

Of course, I feel this way when I am very tired from working every day.

Every moment because it's really hard to make money.

When you can't buy a favorite thing without money.

When you use Pinduoduo to spell cash red envelopes.

What's even more difficult is that if the spell is successful, it will be a voucher.

Basking in the sun to hand out business cards.

It's obviously time to spend money.

When there is no money to eat.

When I was answering the questions, I felt that it was not easy to make money.

After she got married.

After getting married, she had cut off her relationship with her friends and was so focused on her family that from that moment on I felt that we could never be friends again. After all, there is no common topic, and she no longer continues to be friends, so this friendship can be regarded as an end. Although it is a pity, it will not be very sad, and there will be different people to accompany you along every stage of life.

She has more important people to protect, and I'm happy for her.

Everyone's life is different, and there may be no intersection when they walk. After getting married, she began to gradually disappear from my circle of friends, and even though I made a lot of friends later, I still think of her at some point. I still remember that at the end of junior high school, there was a passage in the classmate list I wrote for her: I heard the sentence that even if you want to get off the bus early, I will smile and wave and see you off.

So I'll bless her.

Nowadays, more and more people will find that they once had such a phenomenon around them, that is, they had good friends during school, but they did not contact them when they were working or going to college. Maybe two people also consciously want to shorten the distance between each other, but the reality is here, and they have no way to forcibly change, once there is no topic between two people, the distance is getting farther and farther away.

In fact, in the face of every friendship, as long as you have a clear conscience, because there are things that we cannot decide. And this kind of old friend is in the bottom of my heart, after all, I used to be a person who chatted and played together, even if I can't talk now, then I still have a good memory. But if possible, I still hope that everyone's friends can accompany everyone to the end from the beginning.