How long has it been since you ve had a good laugh?

People say that the more you grow up, the more lonely you become, and it is also said that growing up itself is a lonely adventure. When we were young, we were carefree, we could do whatever we wanted, the biggest thing we worried about was the exam, and the biggest thing we worried about was the exam, at that time we wanted to cry and laugh, and the childhood in our impression was always sunny and always smiling.

How long has it been since I've laughed? It must have been a while. As I get older, I think about more and more things, I have more and more troubles, and the price of maturity is that you have to take into account all aspects, sometimes I really want to wake up and go back to when I was a child, I am still the primary school student who carries a schoolbag to 8 to 6, and I go to class step by step every day, I don't have to worry about my salary or my future, as long as I listen carefully in class and have good test results, there will be delicious food waiting for me.

But now it's different, although I have classes every day, I have too many things to worry about, I am worried that my grades are not enough, my graduation grades are not good-looking, I am worried that I am not tall, I will be eliminated during the interview, I am worried that I am not good at speaking English, I am not able to work in a high-paying job, I am also worried about my relationship with my roommates, and I am worried about my health. It seems that since I went to college, I have been slowly engulfed in troubles, and I haven't laughed and drunk for a long time.

I went to a driving school to learn to drive during the summer vacation, I was nervous to death when I took the second subject, I felt that it was more difficult than the college entrance examination, and finally passed the test twice, I thought I would laugh, but I didn't expect to just breathe out as if relieved, I took the driver's license test as a task to complete, and there was no fun of learning to drive, so there are not a few such cases. I really want to run in the sun, without a little worry, without worrying about tomorrow without worrying about the future, just happy because the sky is blue, happy because the grass is so green.

When I think about it, it seems like I haven't laughed for a long time. It's been so long that even I've forgotten the time, and I can't remember the last time I laughed. It's like you haven't really laughed since you went to college.

First of all, it may be because I didn't do well in college in the first place, because I relaxed in high school, I didn't do well in the college entrance examination, and I was not in a good mood all the time. Although when getting along with friends and family, they didn't show an unhappy look, and it also made them feel that they were still happy or optimistic, but only their own experience really made it clear that they had been unhappy at that time. Because I feel that I didn't do well in the exam, the people I am most sorry for are actually my parents, so I will not show sadness in front of them, because I know that they are more sad than myself.

Although it is said that after going to college, it should be the easiest and happiest time in my life, but maybe because of some reasons at home, I have never really laughed. After graduating from university, they are facing the pressure of employment. And Mom and Dad are also old and not in good health, so there is no way to make me laugh, and there is nothing that really makes me happy.

Maybe it's because I haven't gone out for a long time, and I think I should find a weekend to go out and have a walk, so that I can get back to nature and relax my body and mind. Maybe that's the only way to really laugh out loud, but if I'm always nervous like this, I don't think it's a good thing for my body or my career.

The meaning of laughter: to describe the mood is unrestrained, undisturbed, and laughs out loud very freely.

Pinyin] [ kāi huái dà xiào ]

synonyms] laughing, laughing, laughing, laughing, laughing.

Antonyms] crying loudly, crying bitterly, hiding your face and sighing, crying gloomily, holding your head and crying, grief and indignation, hiding your face and crying, grief-stricken, hugging your head and crying.

Synonyms for laughing

Grin. Pinyin: [ méi kāi yǎn xiào ]

Explanation] Very pleasant look. Eyebrows fly and dance. Sad face.

synonyms] rejoicing, rejoicing, smiling, smiling, smiling, laughing.

Antonyms] tears, crying and mourning, sighing, tears, sad eyebrows, sobbing eyes, sobbing and crying, crying bitterly, crying bitterly, tears like rain, frowning, frowning, angry gnashing of teeth, old tears, beating the chest, frowning, frowning, weeping blood, angry eyes, hanging down, cracked fingers, angry eyes, mourning bones, sad face.

Laugh. Pinyin: [ hōng táng dà xiào ]

Explanation] (shape) Describes the whole room laughing at the same time.

synonyms] leaning forward and backward, laughing, laughing.

antonyms] crying, laughing, laughing, laughing.

Tonight, as I was about to take a shower, the man told me that my brother had done a good deed worthy of praise. I thought to myself, this is not easy, I have to listen carefully, so I looked at him curiously.

Something fell out of the toilet tonight, and your brother fished him out of it. ”

It's really young and doesn't know what it tastes like. I said to him a little jokingly, and then I wondered, "Didn't he stink when he started it?" ”

I've already flushed a few times before he starts, and it doesn't stink! ”

Are you comforting him, or are you ......Before the words fell, I couldn't help but laugh.

Laughter is also contagious, and the male ticket also laughed, "Or what?" ”。

Before we finished speaking, our laughter had changed from being only audible to laughter at the beginning, and even laughed out of tears, but we still couldn't stop.

When we were both emotionally stable, the man suddenly asked me, "How long has it been since we've laughed like this?" ”

I also sighed in my heart, when I was studying on campus, I was pinching my days to spend money, and I could be happy every day; When I first entered the society, I could earn 2,000 yuan a month, and if I could meet my own expenses, I would have no worries, and I would be full of vitality every day; Now that I have been in society for a long time, I have tasted the taste of sorrow, and I wear a standard fake smile mask every day, but I have forgotten the feeling of laughing.

Especially during this time, there was no harvest for four months, and every day I was worried about what to eat for the next meal, and even the hairline was moved back a little, how could I laugh.

Today's laughter reminded me that in fact, a happy laugh doesn't require any conditions. Moreover, whether I am sad or happy, my difficulties are all in the bureau, waiting for me to solve them.

I'm worried, listless every day, I can't raise my interest in life, let alone solve the problems in life, even if I can solve them, I also have a sad face, so why bother.

Happy, have a good day and face it positively, maybe the bitterness of life will be diluted by these happiness, so that you can drink it easily. Moreover, studies have shown that a person's brain is more active when they are happy than when they are sad. Doesn't this also show that life needs a good laugh!

Laugh in the fields, on the road, wherever you can laugh! Life is a hard journey, since you have chosen to practice, then you just care about laughing and walking!

I'm not miserable, but I'm not happy either. yes, if you think about it, it's been a long time since I've been really happy.

I also asked a few friends around me.

Friend A said that the last time he had a good laugh was last night, watching TV. But apart from film and television, if you think about it carefully, I don't remember it;

Friend B said that they are all adults, and they are still pursuing happiness and happiness, which is a bit hypocritical, and adults are all closed in forbearance and stealing their lives;

Friend C said, don't look at the old children playing around every day, a little little thing can be happy for a long time, but they also start to have a little trouble because they can't get it and don't want to learn;

Friend D said that he had forgotten it, as if he had not been, and it was even more heartbroken.

It turns out that everyone is in a similar situation, running around for work, family, and life all day long. Hurry to work, rush to write ppt, submit **, rush to have a meeting, rush to get off work, rush to fitness, read, send children to internship classes, improve skills ......

In a hurry, I can't stop. Even if you run and drink a cup of coffee every morning, you are in the best state of the day, and you can't stop being busy like a spinning top in order to complete one task after another efficiently. I have long forgotten to be happy and happy.

This is probably the state of adults now, busy and fulfilling, but it has nothing to do with happiness. But once you stop, it feels a little empty. For 21 years, I tried to make myself laugh, at least the corners of my mouth were slightly tasseled.

Recently, when I saw the words "laughing", I suddenly felt so poignant. Laughing, as an instinctive reaction of human beings, gradually, I wonder if in this materialistic social environment, slow to react to the things around us, not easy to be touched; Or to put it more seriously, the ability to laugh has been lost, and it has become numb.

Laugh heartily, from the bottom of your heart, reveal your innocent nature, don't have to hide yourself too much, and show your truest side of yourself to the fullest. Sometimes, you may slap the table with laughter, laugh until your facial muscles twitch, laugh until your stomach hurts, and laugh until you lose your breath.

This kind of laughter will make people relax physically and mentally, and all kinds of depression that have been accumulated for a long time may also dissipate with laughter. People who are often able to present this kind of laughter at the right time, in the right place, are usually more likely to be liked by others. Because in people's subconscious cognition, this indicates that this person is more cheerful and generous, and the hypocrisy will be relatively less than other people's writing in them.

Everyone definitely wants to associate with positive people, and laughing will bring about the contagion of great emotions, so that they are also full of hope for life and absorb the blessings of sunshine.

I can't remember the last time I laughed, it sounds a little scared, it seems that I have to quickly adjust my mentality and re-examine myself, how about you?