Do you hate from love? What is the psychology of hating because of love?

Updated on culture 2024-04-22
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Yes, when he betrayed me, how much he loved and hated at that moment.

    I think a lot of girls will have the idea of revenge when they meet a scumbag and break up, my revenge is very strong, and then after the time gradually passed, I found that it was not that I really loved him or hated him, but an unwilling emotion was at work, I was unwilling I taught you to fall in love after you turned around and hugged her, and I was not willing to take you to your current position after you ignored me, so I was unwilling to strengthen after anger.

    When I met him, he had nothing, he was an ignorant and shy boy who had just come out of the countryside, but he couldn't stand a good skin, and found that he was really good to me in later contact, and slowly we came together, to be honest, I was really happy for a year, he gave me everything he could give me, and after the sweet period, there will always be a run-in period, and after the second half of the year, he began to gradually feel that he stayed with me for too long, hoping to have more private space. Slowly, we quarreled more and more, and finally he returned to the arms of his ex-girlfriend, and after I found out, he resolutely broke up. At the beginning, I was always thinking about how to make his life worse, how to take revenge on him, every time I saw him hated to tear him apart, now I am indifferent, time is really the most magical thing, it can dilute all the unpleasantness.

    Even now I feel like I can sit down with him for a drink, because I always have to thank him, thank him for letting me go and let me have a better life, and thank him for making me realize how terrible it is to lose myself in love, and now I can still work my career, work hard to get better in my studies.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I don't think I will hate out of love, because I think love is love, and loving someone is very happy, so there will never be that kind of thing that happens because of love and hate.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    From love to hate, there has been a lot of love since ancient times, and it is generally love and love, and the other party will hate when he fails himself

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you don't get it, you don't want others to get it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There are many reasons why love becomes hate, the main one being an extreme personality or a strong desire to control.

    Let's talk about extreme personalities first, this kind of person is either good or bad, and always likes to distinguish things from good and bad. Once there is a problem in love, this love will be regarded as poison, and some extreme hearts and even behaviors will be born.

    And the strong desire to control is also easy to understand, when you love each other, the other party is willing to be controlled by yourself, you will look gentle and considerate. When the other party slowly has their own thoughts, they will think that the other party does not love themselves anymore and detach themselves from themselves, so they will go on the road of hurting the other party.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Giving birth to hatred from love is just a process of growth. Talk about my experience, I like a girl very much, we are also together, when we reach the age of marriage, the RV has been bought, and the date is set, and then we are not suitable, in fact, she has someone, I really can't accept this fact. I hated her for a while, but as time passed, I didn't hate her so much, but I returned to the feeling of loving her at the beginning.

    When you are in love, often when there is a good relationship between two people who love each other, you can be good to them without thinking about it, no matter the wind or rain, the sky is falling apart, as long as the two people are together, there is a sweet paradise everywhere; There will also be times when there is a lot of conflict, once the love turns from thick to weak, remembering all kinds of past events, the erasion is vivid, the advantages of the other party become disadvantages, the longer the conflict accumulates, and it is possible to hate later.

    Because you once loved so seriously, especially when you feel that you have given a lot to him in the past few years, but you have received very little, and you feel that he may abandon you and leave you. You will have heartache, you will be unbalanced, you will feel unworthy, you will subconsciously hate him for delaying your youth, and you will want to ask the other person to pay the price in order to repay everything you have paid in the first place. If you love, don't hate.

    You love him for a lifetime and can't forget it, so love with this beauty! It's better than hating for life.

    Get by, maybe hate is just a kind of unwillingness, unwilling to let go of the omen, unwilling to be unwilling to his indifference, but whether he likes you or not is his business, and you love him is your own business. So, don't hate him, everyone has the life they want to live, he also has his right to choose, and you have it too, why bother with this fruitless love. If you can let go of your feelings and forgiveness, you will not be fixed in love and not attached to love in this life, so that life will be full of sunshine everywhere, and you will have a much better life.

    Live more confidently, be happier, leave the most beautiful smile to the person who hurts you the most, and smart people know that they want to be happy. Cherish the people you love and the people who love you.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I don't hate because I have a good control over my emotions.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I'm not the kind of person who hates out of love, love is not love, just don't love, if you don't love me, I won't hate him.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I won't hate from love, because two people have loved each other, there is no need to make too much trouble, I hope both of you are happy.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Hello From love to hate, that is, to love too much, then there will be a lot of hopes and requirements, and when these hopes and requirements are not met, hatred will arise. Extended Information: Similar words 反目成卦 [fǎn mù chéng chóu]反目:

    Turned the other cheek. Turn your face and become an enemy. The two sides have changed from a harmonious relationship to a state of hostility.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Because of love and hate, I originally liked someone very much, loved crazy, and hoped that I could achieve a hundred years of good with her (him) - to become husband and wife.

    Although I have a heart for the bright moon, I have no choice but to shine on the ditch. "Love is not being answered. The person you love doesn't love you. You hate each other for it.

    There is another situation where love gives rise to hatred. It's not because the other party didn't respond, the two people were very in love with each other, but the two had to break up for objective reasons. At this time, "hate" means to be resentful.

    In reality, there are some exceptions. A few go to extremes. What I can't get, no one else can get. Someone I can't love, I'll ruin her. Killing people out of love has embarked on a road of no return. Don't be presumptuous.

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