What do you think when you suddenly decide to give up on a relationship?

I think you wrote this question and let me see that it is really fate. Because I just gave up on an embarrassing relationship. When I suddenly give up on a certain relationship, what I think in my heart is that I must say it clearly, and I must say it clearly, otherwise, the troubles in the later stage will make you fall into big troubles, and you will be so annoyed by this matter every day that you can't help yourself, and maybe it will delay the work you are working hard for.

Also, if you give up different relationships, what you think in your heart will have different results. <>

I just gave up on a relationship where I said that friends are not like friends, and that lovers are not like lovers, because it is wishful thinking on the one hand, and I don't want to hurt. This kind of relationship is really bad, because your relationship is uncertain, and you don't know how to talk to him, and it's not good to ignore it, and it feels like there is nothing to say, because it feels like there is no common language. I can't say what I thought.

Because I felt that I was such a good friend before, when I was in love, he also came to enlighten me when I was unhappy. Now I feel that I have done a very bad job before, I didn't cut the mess quickly, I don't like it, I don't like it, why procrastinate, it's not a good thing for myself or others. I was very hesitant at first because I didn't want to say it.

I was afraid that I would be hurt, and my friends didn't have to do it, but I just figured it out. I have to say. Even if I'm not as good as I was before after I said it, I'm going to say it.

If you don't say it, others will keep wasting time and feelings on you, and in the end there will be no result, which will be more harmful to others.

At the end of the day, though, it's important to think about how you're going to feel after you're done. What will be the consequences, don't be afraid of harm, because if you don't speak out, it will hurt yourself, and maybe it will hurt others even more. But, in short, it's better to talk about something, and don't keep wasting other people's time and youth.

Actually, I think it's normal for me to have a young love, although it's normal to have a young love (laughing and crying), he chased me in my freshman year of high school, I was actually more timid and didn't dare to fall in love, but I also liked the kind he liked very much, so in fact, I already regarded him as my boyfriend in my heart.

Because I'm a private school, I can't often use my mobile phone to chat with him, and then my first reaction when I go home is to look for him, and then he I found out that I don't have him in my list, and then I know that he is with other girls, very sad, really, the first love feeling is more profound, and I cried all night that night (don't laugh at my first love and so silly), and then he apologized to me and said together, but although I liked him very much, I liked him very much until we broke up.

I really let go of him when I was just about to go to college, and we were together for a while, because he didn't go to college, and there were things I told him that he would always say that I was low in culture I didn't know, and I always had a feeling that he was sarcastic about me, and then I just told him that we were not suitable (I knew that I was wrong like this), I loved him for a long time, and now I only have one boyfriend with him and have never had any other boyfriends, one is that I haven't thought about it in any way, and the other is that I think it's too troublesome, The most important thing is that after the first breakup, I always felt that there was something between me and him. <>

We have known each other for nine years and have been entangled for four years, I think this is just right, when I told him that we were not suitable, he said you don't delete me, this time I have matured, and I will not be so naïve, probably really let go, we have known each other for so long, he and I have not crossed to the step of true love, maybe fate is not enough, most of them are not firm enough.

This time I let go first, and if you don't regret it, I won't regret it.

I want to talk about how I thought when I decided to give up on breaking up with her, and how I felt at the time!

I met her on the Internet, because the place is not very far away, she is in Foshan, I am in Guangzhou, we can come out together in two or three hours when we meet. So we both felt like we were a good fit, so we started dating, but we didn't expect that after less than three months together, the relationship ended. The breakup was initiated by her, and when she brought it up, it didn't take long for me to make up my mind to give up the relationship.

Because I know we're really not very fit together. <>

This breakup is actually the second time, the first time I kept it, and she promised that there would be no next time. When she brought it up again, I thought about it for a while and then made up my mind, I thought like this: we are together, and we have a conflict in three or five days, and we are indeed a little far away, every date has to go back and forth for five or six hours, can not meet often, it is difficult to see each other, and there are usually a lot of contradictions, and in addition to our personality differences are also relatively far, instead of suffering here every day, it is not good for everyone, it is better to agree to her breakup, each is free, You don't have to work so hard, and in addition to the fact that she also proposed it last time, it proves that some things are not suitable.

Well, let's get back to the life we were free in the first place! So I told myself, and then I made up my mind like that.

I probably thought of this at the time, to be honest, although I persuaded myself, but I was still very heartbroken, especially when I just broke up, I often think of a lot of good things in the past, holding hands in the park and on the street, eating spicy tang together, boiling **, **, talking about love, ......A lot of things will come to your mind from time to time. But what can I do, I have made up my mind!

Think about the past and think about what it would be like without it.

I wondered if my decision was the right one, if I made the wrong choice.

A particularly intimate move with the opposite sex, at this moment I especially want to give up this relationship, and I especially want to break up with the other party.

The other person always ignores my emotions, and when I am very depressed, the other person always does not help and does not comfort me, and at this time I will want to give up the relationship.

Sometimes I will scold, such behavior is unacceptable, and I am the most disappointed in this relationship.

I think for girls, if they want to give up on someone, they will slowly become stronger on their own and no longer rely on you. If girls like you and love you, they will be very dependent on you and want to help them solve problems when they encounter difficulties, but when they want to give up the relationship, they will exercise their ability to be independent.

When I want to give up a relationship, I feel that the other half is not very good, no matter what he does, no matter how I look at it, I feel that he is not pleasing to the eye. I don't even feel interested in arguing with him.

He no longer sends frequent messages, always finds excuses to prevaricate his fantasies about the future, and is unwilling to go out on dates more, and even his speech becomes perfunctory.

I will deliberately be unfamiliar with the other party's affairs and take the initiative to meet the opposite sex around me in front of him.

If you want to give up a relationship, you will be very impatient before, you will have little contact with the other party, and you don't usually talk to him much, and you will slowly forget this relationship.

You will gradually lose contact with each other or have little contact, you will find a lot of problems with each other, and you will feel that there are many problems in the relationship between two people.

Before preparing to give up a relationship, there will be some obvious manifestations: first, they will deliberately avoid the connection between the two; the second is to no longer care about each other as before; The third is to borrow some trivial things to quarrel.

There will be a little hesitation and struggle, some confusion and overwhelm, very lost, and there will be a lot of reluctance in my heart, but I regret that I can't continue this relationship.