How fake can a college roommate relationship be?

The friendship of plastic sisters, you deserve it, I used to circulate this sentence in my brain when I went to college. The appearance of the front and back of people really makes people feel hypocritical, as the saying goes, where there are many women, there are only broken hair and gossip. This sentence is really not unreasonable, one of my roommates is like this, facing your sister's eldest sister and shorter, making others look like she is your own sister, but there is no room for bad things about you behind your back, as if you have a family hatred with her.

The roommate relationship is as fake as it gets. Before I entered college, I saw a lot of jokes and stories about roommate relationships on Weibo, and most of them told us with facts that roommate relationships are difficult to do well, it is difficult to satisfy everyone, and the roommates I met are very strange, etc., at that time, I wanted to say why is it so difficult? Isn't it just a dormitory?

But when I actually lived in the dormitory, I realized how terrible the intrigue between the girls was.

They can be intimate with you in front of your classmates, and when they return to the dormitory, they are like taking off their masks, they are indifferent to you, they take advantage of you and don't allow you to have opinions, you feel wronged because you are small-minded, and every time there is a conflict, it must be your problem. It really makes people want to cry without tears, and what's more, there are small groups in the dormitory, making small moves with each other.

I once saw my roommate throw another roommate's stuff in the trash, and then they came back and found that they couldn't find it, and she pretended to help find it, and in the end, of course, the thing was not found, but people still have to thank her. I really can't describe this kind of behavior in words, how did they do it? Don't you blush?

Doesn't conscience hurt?

Later, after a long time, I was indifferent to seeing too much of this kind of thing, anyway, it was already so fake, so I made do with four years of college, and I guess I won't see you again after graduation.

On the surface, the two people are intimate, but in fact, they have a deep mustard in their hearts, they are not even ordinary friends, and it is very sad to think about it, they eat and live together every day, and the relationship is more terrible than two strangers.

My good friend said that there are two girls in her dormitory, and on the surface they have a very good relationship, so we will call them Xiaowei and Xiao'an for the time being. Xiaowei and Xiao'an lived in the upper and lower bunks, and when they were freshmen, the two of them ate together, went shopping together, and walked hand in hand. Everybody thought they were real friends, very good friends, but until something happened.

In their sophomore year, they bought a rice cooker together and sometimes steamed rice in the dorm room to cook. Once the dormitory manager aunt was checking for prohibited electrical appliances, and the result was just found out, and the school was particularly strict that time, and the students who were found had to deduct several credits. The dormitory manager went to their head of the room to ask about it, and the head of the room went back to the dormitory and asked whose rice cooker it was?

Good friends and others only know Xiaowei and Xiaoan, and the two often use them together, but it is not clear who bought them.

So a particularly chilling scene happened, because this matter involves credits, and it is also related to the ranking of many times at the end of the semester and the competition for scholarships. The two of them began to accuse each other, saying that they were each other, and no one took the initiative to admit it. They used to be so good, but now because of this incident, their relationship is almost broken.

Later, it was the head of the room who was afraid that this incident would have a worse impact, so he took the initiative to take this responsibility.

After this matter was resolved, the two of them remained the same as usual, but they began to change, and there was a deep estrangement. On the surface, the relationship is very good, but behind the scenes, both of them are saying bad things about each other. Maybe they used to have a friendship with each other, or maybe they have always treated each other falsely.

How to say it, many faces. but thou shalt listen to me, and it shall be thee, whatever thou shalt be. If you are in a good mood, you will take care of you, otherwise, stop at any time, what you do will annoy others, no matter whether others are embarrassed or not, you will always be at fault.

I don't want to play with others, but if you don't play, you won't be able to get by, see who is good. Usually, you can play very well (like), each with its own thoughts.

I don't think that some relationships that are harmonious on the surface, but actually have a bad relationship with each other are fake, after all, a dormitory, looking down and not looking up, should the relationship be very stiff, and the whole dormitory people look embarrassed?

Of course, saying bad things behind your back, if you say it untruthfully, is indeed a very immoral behavior.

In fact, it's really just that many people seem to get along very well, and secretly this one who says that bad thing, probably just a smile on his face and a grin in his heart, just act as if nothing happened, although some people will say that you are too simple. But most of the time it's okay, there are always some people who can inadvertently give warmth.

One second it's funny to spray air with you, and the next second you can directly start fighting and fight to the death.

Not necessarily, our dorm is the kind where you can eat two dishes per person and you can eat eight dishes.