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There is really no way to do this, you can have a good talk with your wife, I hope she will be less affected, but there is no way to completely eliminate her mother's influence on her.
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The mother-in-law has a bad character, so your wife has been living with him for so many years, and you have been affected for so many years, she must have been affected, well, it is not only affected now, so what do you want to do? You can only change your own wife and let him well, Mingyue is okay not to talk to his mother-in-law. Too much back and forth to live their own little life.
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If your mother-in-law's character is always bad, then you should try to stagger the time with your wife as much as possible, and don't let it affect your wife.
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Then you must have understood the situation in his family when you chose this wife to give birth to him you also know that your mother-in-law herself is this character, and now she will definitely not be able to change it, then you only. By the way, your wife doesn't. Make it all like your mother-in-law.
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If your character is not good, your temperament will always be affected, in that case, you will have to live alone with your wife, not with your mother-in-law, so you should be a little smaller.
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Then your mother-in-law's character is not good, so let your wife usually not be bewitched by your mother-in-law, and the most important thing is that you should be good to your wife, so that she will listen to you.
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You can tell your wife that you don't like people like him, and I think it's important to talk to your wife about it first and see how to deal with it.
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Just let the wife take care of her mother-in-law's house. Marry your family is your family's people.
It is enough to have a legal responsibility for the mother-in-law to support her.
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If the mother-in-law has a bad character, you go out to live with your wife, don't be with your mother-in-law, and don't live together as much as possible.
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Since you have chosen a wife, then talk to her about it. Well, let him not be influenced by his mother. Because after all, it's the two of you who live your life.
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The mother-in-law has a bad character, why does the wife say that it is an impact? Haven't all your wives been married to your family? The question of tutoring from an early age, what kind of tutor will teach what kind of child. Since you are married to your family, you will teach her slowly.
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What should I do if my mother-in-law has a bad character and his wife is always affected, I think you just need to influence him with your heart, and then, let him feel your sincerity, it should be easy to solve this problem.
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You can stay away from your mother-in-law and communicate more positive things with your wife.
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When you get married, you always give your wife together, if there is something wrong with your mother-in-law, you try to avoid it, don't go to direct contact, you will slowly change your wife.
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If the mother-in-law's character is not good, and the wife is always affected, try to tell the wife and the mother-in-law to be less together, and tell your wife not to listen too much to the mother-in-law.
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Or how to find a partner.
First, let's ask about the other party's family.
Some things are inherited.
This wife must have been inherited by his mother-in-law.
With his genes, it must also be a bad character.
So, although it can't be said to be like your mother-in-law.
But it is necessary to also integrate some bad character.
You persuade patiently, that is.
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There is no way for you to do this, after all, they are a family, unless your wife is influenced by you and stays away from this mother-in-law, there is no way.
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You should let him and your mother-in-law do less talking, some useless things, only less contact with him will not learn from him, so you can still pass. Type in some of your own thoughts and talk to him about them every day.
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If your mother-in-law's character is not good, your wife will definitely be affected, you can go to your mother-in-law's house less, and your life with your wife can be improved.
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The mother-in-law's character is not good, and the wife is always affected, so you should advise your wife not to be influenced by her.
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Then tell your wife that no matter what, she should have a correct outlook on life. You can't follow some bad qualities of your mother-in-law, otherwise you will ruin yourself.
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The wife's mother's character is not good, and it even affects the wife, which is indeed a bit difficult to handle, and in the face of such a problem, I can only communicate with my wife as much as possible.
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I usually communicate well with my wife, and I can't learn from her mother's behavior.
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I think you should set up a positive image and show your wife. Influence him with his actions. It may be better to receive results in this way.
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In fact, now I am living with you, the most important thing is that you can slowly influence her, comfort and accompany him more, as long as the two of you are happy together, she will be happy slowly.
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In fact, it is quite troublesome, so I can only move around less, and I have to mention one or two things to my wife often.
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If you feel that your wife has been influenced by your mother-in-law's character. Then you should communicate with your wife and educate her on a regular basis.
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There's no way he'll be afraid of running into such a person, because he'll only hear from his mother.
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1. Serious notion of male superiority and inferiority.
According to reason, the mother-in-law is also a mother, at least half a mother, but the mother-in-law of a friend is subconscious from beginning to end.
In his mouth, he thinks that his daughter is a money-loser, married for five years, his friends and his wife and children have gone to kindergarten, and his mother-in-law will still mention from time to time that whose daughter in the village graduated from junior high school and went out to make money for the family, whose daughter bought a house for her younger brother, and the one she raised by herself regretted that her daughter had no ability like this, she had no ability, and she found someone who couldn't make a lot of money.
's husband, I can't get any oil and water for my mother's family.
2. The inferior nature of playing right and wrong, and being competitive.
Originally, as an elder, she should be kind and filial to her mother and son, but she always provoked the relationship between her daughter and son-in-law for no reason, and even raised all kinds of rights and wrongs to her son-in-law's family at every turn.
3 Spoiling his sons, and oppressing his daughters.
No matter how bad the son is, he protects his son's words and deeds, his son is still thirty years old and still has clothes to reach out for food to open his mouth, no matter how good his daughter is, in short, he has always been to provoke trouble for his daughter, selfishly always think that the son is not good at dismantling the front because his sister did not help his younger brother who is grinding himself, especially in front of the public, in front of his daughter and son-in-law, saying that his daughter should not be allowed to go to college, and should go out early to make money for her mother's family.
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When the mother-in-law is not very good, in this case, it is best to stay away from the mother-in-law and live farther away from her.
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Since you think that your mother-in-law is a particularly bad person, then I think you should stay away from your mother-in-law in your usual life, and only by doing so can you make Li defeat your wife who has a better way, Ziqiao or be able to remain neutral.
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