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Anonymous users2024-02-11Your premarital phobia.
Your boyfriend's online chat is the fuse, and your lack of confidence is the root.
You only want to count on others in your heart, and look at you no matter what kind of person you are ... Isn't this kind of thinking too passive?
People look at you because you deserve to be seen.
But if you've been so unconfident, it's really hard to guarantee ... Your man will not look at others.
Nowadays web chatting is a very normal thing.
In the future, the wider the network application, it is estimated that it will be more common.
I think you've known each other for five years, and the man is definitely going to marry you.
It shows that you still have weight in his heart.
You can't just because of a certain woman on the Internet hit all your self-confidence and the five-year relationship between you all at once.
Besides, don't you also go online to ask questions, to talk to others about your relationship problems...
So, I don't think I should take my boyfriend's online chat too seriously.
If you feel that he is a good man worthy of your love, believe in him.
There is no doubt about employing people.
From this incident, you should also see that there is still a little problem between you.
I think you should be more confident at the moment, and don't say anything pretty, figure... Self-confidence is really important, that's the aura you exude! You can't afford to lose to others.
Again, it's a matter of boyfriend chatting... Instead of worrying, show your jealousy ... It's different. Let him know that you are not happy like this before marriage! Let him pay attention.
Besides, if people really have a clear conscience, you will be generous!!
Oh, take it easy... The road ahead is unknown.
If you worry too much about the future, it is better to grasp the real present.
We should be like McDull said: Dad lives in the past, Mom lives in the future, and only I live in the present.
Let's live now, live well, wouldn't it be good?
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Anonymous users2024-02-10It's really easy to talk about feelings, 5 years is a long time, but I also know that there are a lot of people who have broken up for 8 or even 10 years, and many times they are fickle, and if you care about him, it will only make him annoy you
I saw a story before that it was also a pair of lovers for 5 years, because of the breakdown of the relationship in online dating, the heroine was about the same as you, not beautiful, and not in good shape When the three of them met in an Internet café, the heroine said ten words to the girl, all about the details of the man, and finally I felt that the man's specific article, I forgot Remember, the details are moving.
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Anonymous users2024-02-09Don't think too much, my husband is even more outrageous, Saturday, we don't go to work, my husband plays on the computer until more than 1 o'clock in the middle of the night, I fell asleep on the sofa, and when I woke up, I saw him playing billiards with a beautiful woman**, the woman saw me appear in front of my husband, it was turned off, I also joked with the old public, nothing, the more you think about it, the more he wants to talk, want to talk to let him talk, the kind of thing is to find a few words on the Internet, it's over, it will only make me tired We are very happy now, without chatting with him, Cause us to quarrel or something, don't think too much about it.
Just wait to be a beautiful bride.
I wish you all happiness.
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Anonymous users2024-02-08The main manifestation of premarital phobia is that before marriage, you are very afraid of getting married, worried about your life after marriage, or you are very afraid of changing your role, so you don't want to get married. This can be addressed by actively self-adjusting, talking appropriately, and seeking support from family and friends. In addition, if the premarital phobia is very severe, you can't control yourself, and you don't even want to get married, you can seek help from a professional psychological counselor at this time.
1. Self-adjustment: The occurrence of premarital phobia may have a certain relationship with the sensitive personality and easy to be pessimistic, when such a problem arises, you can not pay too much attention to the negative aspects after marriage, worry too much about the change of role after marriage or the economic pressure after marriage, etc., you can use appropriate exercise, such as running, cycling, yoga, swimming, etc., to alleviate the negative emotions of fear and anxiety, and you can also increase some hobbies and actively participate in them, such as watching movies, eating food or listening to **, etc., to divert attention;
2. Learn to confide: When your premarital phobia is very serious, you need to talk to your family members appropriately, learn to express and seek comfort and encouragement from your family in time, so as to give yourself a sense of security and reduce negative emotions such as loneliness, fear, negativity, and pessimism;
3. Psychological and drug intervention: When your fear of marriage is very serious, and even there are problems such as wanting to break up and refusing to get married, you can seek help from a professional psychologist in time to recommend humanism, cognitive behavior, etc. Through the help of a psychological counselor, you can reasonably divert your attention, properly pour out your inner pressure, worries or worries about the future, and effectively resolve the negative emotions of fear and anxiety.
If it is still difficult to improve the chain car resistance, it can be carried out with anti-anxiety drugs under the guidance of a doctor**, such as diazepam, lorazepam, etc.
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Anonymous users2024-02-07From love to marriage, the most important thing is to trust two people who love each other, trust each other, and believe that your love can enter into marriage. If you miss out on the person you love, you will find that you originally wanted to find the right person to marry, but in the end you found someone who is not suitable and does not love.
However, life is so realistic and helpless. It is said that when a girl misses the person she wants to marry the most, she will become more and more critical; When a guy misses the person he wants to marry the most, he becomes more and more casual; Picky because no one is as good as you, casual because it's not you anyway. Therefore, there must be love in marriage.
It's easy to start a relationship, but it's even harder to keep a marriage going. If you want to overcome the fear of falling in love and getting married, you have to work together with two people!
From love to marriage, if you can manage love well, that is a happy woman, a happy woman will show a smile from the heart, this smile can not be concealed, but also will bring her happiness to her relatives and friends, maybe her family is ordinary, but because of her husband's love, she feels full of spirit level, her face is full of happiness and warmth, self-confidence and atmosphere, and she is more tolerant of the world. Happy women know that no matter how difficult they are, their husbands are strong shoulders that they can rely on, so that they don't feel lonely, and unhappy women mostly have sad faces all day long, show their feelings on their faces, and are full of disappointment in life, such a marriage has no soul.
In marriage, you must learn to be patientTwo people are going to take it.
Harmony is precious, try not to quarrel and quarrel less. 」
When everyone stepped into the marriage hall, very.
Many parents say this to their children.
But this idea is placed in the modern marriage relationship.
In fact, there is a great danger.
Like the past parents' generation, many people's ideas.
Don't quarrel, what you quarrel about, the quarrel will break.
Bad relationships, endure and pass. They.
It was reasonable and appropriate to think this way in a bygone era.
Functional needs, if you don't get married, the unit won't.
Divide the house, and there will be no man to pull it for you in winter.
Coal, buy cabbage, change gas canisters. Not the other way around.
Married, the man came back from work all day without food, his clothes were torn and no one to make up for them, and he slept miserably.
Cold kang, such a day both sides need each other.
The request is real.
So in marriage, even if two people have a share.
Differences, it is true that it will pass after enduring, and there are very few.
People say that they will divorce after two words, but now.
In the different, the society has developed and who has left whom.
We can all live, and we have a place to live, food, drink, and time when we are divorced.
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