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To put it bluntly, you don't have any characteristics in your life, and you don't have a reason to convince yourself to be friends with you, but from what you said, you're a normal boy, and the ones in your dorm room are a little abnormal
Girls love to fight openly and secretly in the dormitory (of course, not all girls) First of all, you try to pay some to see if there is any gain and then stick to your own principles to make people look like you are not domineering and don't be very face-to-face The problem of classes and breaks Just let it be big men, don't worry about villains, it's really not okay to change the dormitory, remember, men don't make small reports, that will be despised by others
Actually, you're not bad, at least you still have a girlfriend, hehe, keep up the good work, bless you
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Normal. I used to think about it when I was in college.
But then I tried to put myself in someone else's shoes.
It's nothing.
Anyway, it's out of the house.
Multiple friends, multiple paths.
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Sometimes I have this situation too, and only by finding the source of the annoyance can we cure it. Here are a few possible scenarios:
1. It may be that the body is uncomfortable but you don't realize it, because people will be annoyed when they get sick.
2. Maybe something bad has happened recently, but no matter what happens, remember a truth and go with the flow.
3. It may be that the previous things or contradictions have not been resolved, so as soon as you think of something, you will be annoyed, that is to say, that thing will annoy you, you just need to remember what the unhappy thing you think of is, and think about whether there is still an unresolved part of those things, and then solve it. That's all for now.
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Then you must have encountered some troubles, so you will be upset, then it is recommended that you can calm yourself down, if there is a problem, you can also find your family, friends, chat, so that you can vent the bad emotions and your family, friends will also give you advice.
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Because you have loved, you will not become an enemy; Because I have been hurt, I won't be friends; It can only be the most familiar strangers. Love has been known, drunk has been drunk. The memories of love should be well collected, but the happiness in the future should be found separately.
Love is a feeling, not love is also a feeling, and it is often difficult to decide whether the feeling in the heart is love or not.
What you hold in your hands is not necessarily what you really have; What you have is not necessarily what you really inscribe in your heart.
There are many times in life when you need to consciously give up, because when you have, you may be losing, and when you give up, you may be regaining. Those who understand know how to give up, those who are true know how to sacrifice, and those who are happy know how to detach.
For those who don't love themselves, what is most needed is understanding, renunciation, and blessing. Too much self-inflicted affection is begging for alms. Loving and being loved are all things that make people happy. Don't let this turn into pain.
Now that you've been through it, years later, it's a good memory to think about it once in a while. Live more confidently, be happier, leave the most beautiful smile to the person who hurts you the most, and smart people know that they want to be happy. Cherish the people you love and the people who love you.
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When you face criticism or criticism from others, don't choose pain, choose a good mood, and take this criticism or criticism seriously;
When you have a conflict with your classmates, don't choose to be sad, choose a good mood, and think about how to improve the relationship;
When you and your family have a misunderstanding, don't choose to be uncomfortable, choose a good mood, and try to eliminate the misunderstanding;
When someone is dissatisfied with you, don't choose to be wronged, choose a good mood and try to make him understand;
Don't be angry when you're unhappy with the performance of others, choose a good mood and try to be understanding of others;
When you have a lot of things to do, don't be in a hurry, choose a good mood, and work hard to complete what you do;
When you do something wrong, don't just feel guilty, choose a good mood, and think calmly to find a solution;
When you say the wrong thing in front of everyone, don't just blame yourself, choose a good mood, and tell yourself that no one is perfect;
When you don't adapt to your new environment, don't be anxious, choose a good mood, and take the initiative to adapt;
When you encounter a problem that is difficult to solve, don't be discouraged, choose a good mood, and ask for help from others or put the problem aside;
When you meet someone you don't like, don't be disgusted, choose a good mood, and remind yourself that tolerance is a virtue.
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Why do people get annoyed.
Girls will be annoyed because there are too many clothes and they don't know which one to wear; Boys will be annoyed by this and that because they are getting older; It's annoying that the CPI is running fast, but the salary has not changed; Those who are not married are annoyed because they want to get married, and those who are married are annoyed because of what happens after marriage; annoyance of family matters, work matters, personal matters;
Annoying....The above things are not contained, juxtaposed, or combined.
According to this understanding, as a higher animal in the animal kingdom, isn't it annoying every day? Empiricism tells us that this is not the case.
Every day we are at work, busy, eating, communicating with friends...And all of these behaviors require us to spend time and energy, and this is how life is "lived". Those annoying things don't happen, it's not that you forget. It's just that your attention is on each individual thing, to deal with it.
In each of these individual things, you will feel a little tired and upset. Time passes in a second, day by day, and the "annoyance" of a single thing and a single thing at ordinary times eventually changes in quantity and quality. The important thing is that we are free from our troubles, we learn to deal with them, get rid of them, get happiness and live happily.
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Dear landlord.
Some things or some things, some people, when people have it, do not know how to cherish it, love it, once it is lost, they feel the preciousness of its existence and the value of use, but all regrets are irretrievable.
The cup is lonely, being poured boiling water, the feeling of being hot, so the cup thinks this is the feeling of love, when the water becomes warmer, the cup feels very comfortable, I think this is the feeling of life, the water is cold, the cup is very scared, I think maybe this is the feeling of being afraid of losing, the water becomes cold again, the feeling of the cup is also very uncomfortable, I don't want to have a tasteless feeling, so I want to pour the water out、、、 the water is finally poured out, at this time the cup feels very comfortable, but it is also poured to the ground at the same time, Broken into pieces, the cup found that on every fragment, there will be traces of water, it knows that it still loves water in its heart, it wants to love water again but it is impossible, is it only lost will know how to cherish? Only when everything has passed does you know the happiness of the past? The facts have warned us to cherish what we have now, and not to regret it until we lose it, but it's too late.
Reality is always cruel, it doesn't give us that chance, some things are missed and won't come back.
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Troubles are a part of life, first of all, there is no way to avoid it, but it can be reduced or let the troubles not be troubles, the troubles are external and self-owned, first of all, the part that you give yourself can be controlled or reduced, and we from the outside find a way to face it positively, maybe we won't be troubled People don't have troubles that don't grow up, good luck.
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More and more people are annoyed because they don't have too many jobs, can't find what they want to do, don't know how to pass their time, and feel bored and annoyed. Annoyance is due to oneself, and happiness also comes because of oneself
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Life is not perfect, it is normal to have troubles, look down, learn not to be so stubborn, everyone is not as simple as laughing on the surface.
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Annoyance is because you have nothing to do, people will be cranky when they are idle, and of course they will be annoyed when they think of unhappy things, the best way to get out of this predicament is to keep yourself busy, let yourself be deeply engaged in what you like to do or are doing, when you complete your work or other things, you will have a sense of accomplishment, make your life very meaningful, and will also become fulfilling.
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Others always have their own personality, this is unchangeable! It's like you have your own personality! So at this time, you should understand others, use your tolerance to influence others, then others will get along with you very well, people need to pay each other, only in this way can you find the advantages of others, rather than others are self-righteous.
When you feel annoyed, you can chat and joke with your best friends, so that you will feel much better. You can also do what you feel best about. Unleash yourself completely, explode.
That will also relieve your boredom!
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You are not the only one in the world who is annoying, everyone will be annoying, you have to be annoyed if you have faced the world! Because you're still growing, it's annoying, and people can't live without it all their lives
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Because there is not a single thing in my heart that is pleasing to my eyes, and there is not a thing that is pleasing to my eyes, can I not be annoyed? Calm down and you won't find it that hard.
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Find your confidant and talk to him about your troubles.
You can also talk to strangers online.
Calm down and read a book. Let go of everything and get a good night's sleep.
Wake up and do what you have to do. But whatever you do, do it with a smile.
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in life. There is life and there is death. Have fun. Of course, there will be troubles. As long as you face and deal with the troubles of things correctly. Troubles will be away from you.
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The troubles are all because of my excessive attachment.
Even if you go on like this.
Not to mention that there will be no good results.
Why do we just give blindly? No one is selfless.
Everyone wants to be rewarded for their efforts.
At the very least, it has to be recognized, in fact, the situation is very clear, but you don't face it, and it just takes a while to forget.
To let go, if you can't love yourself well, then what can you do to love others well, yes, every truth is difficult to do.
Maybe it's easier said than done.
But all I can say is.
If you are neglected, why should you practice yourself?
Maybe I was like you in the past.
Time really can change everything.
Learn to be strong.
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In fact, I personally think that the easiest and most effective way is to chat with good friends, and it should be okay to release the depressed mood! Hehe.
Life is like a relay race, and there is no smooth sailing.
The road is not flat either.
The road ahead of you is very rough and bumpy.
You have to have faith in yourself.
Everything will pass ..
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People have seven emotions and six desires. Can it not be annoying? People are annoying, it doesn't matter. It's boring to live if it's not annoying.
I think you probably have all of your opinions
.You're too idle, when you're busy and happy, you don't have time to bother why people are annoyed, people are most annoyed by what they do, for family, for love, or for friendship?
I think it's because something in life doesn't go well, or maybe it's too demanding and always can't reach a lot of things that can be worth annoying, such as a shortage of funds.
It's too hot. Too much homework.
In fact, if you relax your mind, there will be nothing.
Because of the psychological effect of the things encountered, it will not be annoying to face it with a normal attitude!
If you don't like it, you will be annoyed.
Can this be expressed in a few words?
There are many reasons for this.
Upset will be there in any house. If it's a human being, it's back to it.
Then I don't think I can ask here.
Why upset.
What should I do if I am upset?
Annoyance is because you don't have a goal, establish a goal as soon as possible and strive for it.
It's annoying because it's annoying.
Whatever it is, because it doesn't live up to your expectations. So it's going to be a little annoying.
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