I m having a hard time convincing myself to accept that state of life, what should I do?

Hehe, your question, whether it's big or not, it's not small, the so-called "parents are short, and everyone has a scripture that is difficult to read".

The people in your in-law's family are relatively traditional, they want to see you become a "married daughter-in-law", and a little feudal hope that you conform to the inherent lifestyle of his family. And the habits you have developed since childhood cannot be changed in ...... short period of time

I don't know if you will have the opportunity to live independently in the future, but if it can be achieved in a short time, you can compromise for the time being. But if you can't go out independently in the short term, then you might as well talk to your husband, but don't look like you're stingy, just tell him what you think objectively.

Don't quarrel, long live understanding.

Like so many people's family, or don't live together, I have a lot of friends near you are like you, the relationship between the two people is good, but the family is always involved in the problem, as for the living habits are different, my husband and I are also a north and a south, they do you don't like to eat, then you try to eat yourself, from his point of view, this is his habit since childhood, if it is us, it is difficult to change, understand each other.

Since you like your boyfriend very much, then try to adapt and accept his family, this is his family after all, you can't let him forget about his wife after taking it, such a man is incompetent. At the same time, there is no need to care about some of his sister's opinions, if you think what she says makes sense, then you can accept it. If there is no reason, you don't have to refute it to your face, it will affect your relationship, and you can just ignore it.

I think that as a future daughter-in-law, I should respect and honor his parents, especially his parents, and whatever is good should be shared with the family. In this way, he will think that you are a very good person and will love you even more. I wish you all happiness!

In fact, these are all trivial things in life, and many families will encounter a point! There are also those who are smaller than yours and have been arguing for a long time or are vindictive! Relax!

If it's not delicious, eat less! Or try to make your favorite food yourself! As for the question of whether you come back with anything or not!

I won't say anything when I see my family, don't think like that, my family will do that! Just because you think about it doesn't mean your family will be like that! If you bring it, your family will share it with you, so it's okay if you don't bring it, so it's nothing!

Don't overthink it!If you have nothing to do, go out and wash it!Sometimes don't care too much about what other people think!

If any of your family members washed, they would think about whether you would wake up!Or if the water is boiled, the sound will be smaller!I don't know if the advice I said will help you solve your problems!

Can I live alone after getting married?If so, the problem will only be temporary. If you can't live alone in marriage in the future, then carefully consider whether you can endure it for the rest of your life or break up with him.

If you love him, wait until you get married and live alone....Bear with me now.

Don't think about it so much. Now there are still a few people who live with the old man after getting married, and besides, the person who marries him is not his family. Don't think too much about it.

Anyone who doesn't force it, if you suppress it for too long, you will get depression.

It's really helpless, change the environment and change the life, or the small couple will live by themselves

Pluck up the courage to go!There are many things on the road to life that need to be faced alone!Don't develop a dependency mentality, you won't be lonely if you communicate with people more in the future!Hope to adopt.

Survival of the fittest. If you correct your mentality, communicate with them well, communicate with them, confide your troubles to them, and entrust your heart to them, then you will not feel that this kind of place will be so uncomfortable.

What are you afraid of, it's not a final exam, a parent-teacher conference, it's just some activities, be bold, and it will be fine.

Find another one that is as single as you.

This friend, you copy well!

Obsessive-compulsive thinking is very painful, and a problem must be thought of, thought of being clear, and thinking of headaches.

If you want to think about it, think about it for an hour, think about it for a day, you know that it is not necessary, but you just can't control it, you can't help it, you can't think about it, you feel uncomfortable, you are anxious, after a long time, you will be very uncomfortable, very depressed, very painful, you want to divert it through attention, you can't do it at all, you can't convince yourself that it's impossible;

Obsessive-compulsive thinking is a psychological problem that must be solved by professional psychological adjustment, but there are really few experts who can ** obsessive-compulsive disorder, it is recommended that you find a psychologist to help you, and pay attention to whether the expert can analyze the cause of the problem and whether there is a set of adjustment techniques; You can go to the Internet to find out first;

Best wishes

We can't do obsessive-compulsive disorder if we are tough, otherwise it would not be called obsessive-compulsive disorder.

Sometimes it's a good thing to see it, but you don't call it open, why are you disheartened, first of all, you have no love, you have no feelings for family, friends and even the surrounding environment, in fact, you don't find yourself this kind of love, of course, love is also included.

Second, you have no spiritual support, which is very dangerous, the walking dead can do anything, many girls have fallen because of this, and there is no regret, you must always have hope when you come to this world, you have no experience of life at all now, you need too many reasons.

Thirdly, you have no sense of responsibility and lack a sense of responsibility.

Heart disease also needs heart medicine, you don't find the root cause, interact with people more, and then integrate into the society.

I have similar feelings, I checked, anxiety disorder, depression and obsessive-compulsive disorder. There is no way, you can only change it yourself, you need to find something you are interested in to do and do it as a job. To put it bluntly, it's fun, but be realistic.

Interests need to be discovered, and happiness needs to be shared. Try to do your best to do one thing wholeheartedly, enjoy your success and harvest, try to change your lifestyle, try to do things that you will not be unwilling or good at before, try to understand the bits and pieces of life with your heart, treat and cherish the people around you, sincere and sincere. Give yourself more hope and believe in the beauty of life.

Think about things from a different perspective, think more from the perspective of people who are worse than you, go out for a walk, broaden your horizons, you are too self-centered, you don't pay attention to the needs of the people around you, and when you start to open your heart to the world, you will be optimistic and open-minded.

Make more friends in reality When you are bored, you can ask them out to play Don't go to Internet cafes or other places You can go to your places with better scenery, relax, talk to them and talk about your thoughts, you will always gain more Pay more attention to your body, how does the state you said look like kidney deficiency

That's if you're content with the status quo, you can't do it, you can go to the mountains and work in the fields with the old farmers, and it will change over time.

Or, if you are with some rich second generation people who are richer, you can see their lives, think about your life, and motivate yourself, and if you are colleagues with me, maybe I can lead you, and my friends are with me, and they all feel that life is very fulfilling.

You need to relax, don't burden yourself too much, go out to travel and breathe fresh air at the right time, self-adjustment is the key.

Do you not want to do anything, you will get fat like that, get up early every day and exercise for 10 minutes, play with friends, watch movies and listen to **. Get back to your old self. Go your own way and let others say go.

Since you come to this world, there is always a place where you are needed, since something bad has happened, there must be a good thing behind, so that the good can be reflected.

There will be a lot of unhappiness and annoyance in life, but we have to treat it with a normal heart, although there is pressure, but it can be converted into motivation, although there are difficulties, but it can be regarded as an answer to a question, life should be meaningful, I believe that you will return to the previous happy and happy, and I wish you happiness.

Read more books, think more, think about how lucky we are to be in this world, and there will be happiness when there is comparison.

Make a goal for yourself, and make a plan every day to follow your own plan and enrich yourself. Step by step towards their own goals and ideals.

Find another object, the woman is the one who pleases herself, he will make you regain your enthusiasm for life; Getting out and about is an effective way to forget your worries.

Think more! Don't worry about it! Maintain a good mood every day and you can adjust your mood!

You've thrown yourself away, haven't you?

I'm the same as you, I was invincible in high school, I had excellent grades, I was like a god, I started to mess up in high school because of my early love, and now I don't want to review for graduate school, and I also feel that my memory is declining and hallucinating.

Listen to my own sickness.

You have to think about what you want first, you can't do it for too long, otherwise you will get used to it.

Hello? I don't know what happened to make you lose your joy in life? But I guess that thing must be important to you!

Maybe painful. But I still hope that you can remember that past and find the reason why you lost your life. If there's anything you can't let go, you can talk to someone!

Life needs to be faced!

If you have time to talk to a friend, or see a psychiatrist, what makes you so pessimistic, find answers, and watch more inspirational films.

There is nothing beautiful or beautiful in life, it's just that you always feel that it's not good, it's not good. If you want to change your mentality, it still depends on what problems you have.

I guess you'd better give him a chance. Since he confessed to you, it means that he doesn't want to lie to you at all. Because love cannot last forever in a false lie.

I know that when you encounter something like this, you will definitely feel very uncomfortable. No one is perfect, everyone has shortcomings, and everyone has their most vulnerable moments. It's because he loves you, so he handles things properly after being vulnerable.

He is also a measured person, and he doesn't drag his feet in doing things. You should give him a chance. Because there aren't many men like him who are used to admit their mistakes.

When everyone does something wrong, give him another chance. Give yourself a chance, too. After all, you love him dearly, and he loves you dearly.

You should give him a chance, after all, he has confessed, if he doesn't have this kind of confession to you, and has been hiding from you, then the consequences will be even more unimaginable in the future, I think you should at least give him a chance.

Why don't you just say hello......?Do you think the other party is a man? Or a dog......Be open-minded, ......

Forgive him

Pig, you are happy!

When this kind of thing happens, from the standpoint of a girl, you will feel a little uncomfortable, you love him very much, but loving one is not to let yourself be wronged, it is a good thing for him to confess to you, but whether it is true or false you have to observe him for a while. It's hard to say clearly about love, no matter what the circumstances, you should look at what you are saying now, if he really just momentarily dizzy, or still love you so much, and sincerely admit his mistakes to you, you forgive him.

If he changes, it's better to separate from him. Nowadays, there are many men who are addicted to the sea of desire, and there are not many who really understand love, so they should grasp it well, and if it is true love, they must cherish it.

You don't dare to believe him anymore because you have been wronged, and you hesitate to forgive him because you still love him.

If he takes the initiative to confess to you, then it means that he knows his mistakes and is brave enough to face them. You should be glad he didn't lie to you. ^

Change your role, today you do something like this and feel sorry for your boyfriend, what would you do? Do you also want his understanding and tolerance?

Should you give him a chance to regret it, man I don't know what I did after drinking, and I don't know that I regret it when I wake up, he can confess to you that he still cares about your existence, and he still loves you.

You ask us like this, it proves that you still love him, and it's not shallow, in this case, don't jump to conclusions, it's not good for anyone! You should be sensible about this! Think about the cause and effect of the incident, and the situation at that time!

If he did it in front of you, there must be a problem! Usually a man will carry you behind his back when he does such a thing! Overall, I was thinking you should give him a period of use!

It's up to you! I ask you to mention! After all, you are not married, and you still have to redeem yourself"Life"Leeway!

--A little too much! Hey!

I don't think most men will refuse that kiss, maybe it's the vanity in their hearts. Maybe I didn't want to give face to the female colleague.

I totally understand your feelings, any woman would have some ideas.

But he still confessed after all.

I think I should warn him, let him know that he is not good, and make sure that nothing like that will happen in the future.

After that, don't mind too much, just treat it as a small storm.

You tell me.