What does it look like when a man is vulnerable?

The fragile appearance was to sit there and not speak like Tan Zhushui, and his face was ugly.

Most men are not good at expressing their emotions, they look strong, but their hearts may have fallen, they are afraid that others will see their vulnerability and be looked down upon, so they often vent their vulnerability by drinking, smoking, etc.

I think men are generally stronger than women, but they are more fragile than women, women may go shopping and eat a big meal, but men will be very complicated!

When my boyfriend was vulnerable, he just leaned on my shoulder, didn't say a word, and looked out with a dull gaze. I would touch the back of his head (yes, just like touching a puppy's head) and tell him, "I'm so tired, I can cry if I want to, I'm here."

Then he would choke up and tell me a lot of things.

I got married and moved to Suzhou with my husband for more than three years, he went to work, and I took the baby. One day, the neighbor called to go to dinner, got a plate of crabs from Yangcheng Lake, and brought it to us to eat. I didn't pay much attention to it myself, but I probably casually said that the meat was sweet.

After returning home, I was busy bathing the children and cleaning up the house to sleep, and after cleaning up, I found that my husband's eyes were a little red, and he said that he couldn't live with me. I haven't been able to eat the crabs of Yangcheng Lake for so long, in fact, I am not so poor, I am more economical, and the repayment pressure has been relatively high in recent years, and I have to raise children. However, the best ending is probably to marry love, and the two work together in one direction.

My boyfriend was working hard in Nanchong alone, and suddenly called me ** that day: "Daughter-in-law, I'm so tired, I really want to come back, I don't want to live anymore." "After four days, I booked a ticket to Nanchong to see him, and when I arrived at the hotel, he hugged me fiercely:

You're finally here. "Hug very tightly, he saw that my eyes were unabashedly happy, and he covered up the tiredness, at that moment I felt very sorry for him, he was out alone and couldn't eat and sleep well, and he didn't say anything if he was in a bad mood, I didn't say it the next day, because he had a cold, he didn't see a doctor, he had a fever, and the fever that went away in the afternoon and burned up again at night, obviously uncomfortable and still holding me alive and not letting go: "I want to sleep with you."

Took care of him for two days, and I think all the tenderness of my life has been used on you.

will cry in front of you, making you a little overwhelmed, and you can only hug and comfort him.

When my boyfriend's grandmother died, I realized that he was so fragile too, he cried like a child, and he fell asleep late that day.

The man I've seen is about the same as a woman when he is vulnerable, and he stays at home all day, doesn't eat or drink, and doesn't want to see anyone, and as soon as you get close to him, he immediately roars like thunder and lets you leave.

The boy doesn't flick when he has tears, but he hasn't reached the sad place. When a man is really fragile, he will instinctively howl and cry, but after crying, he will quickly stand up, wipe the tears from the corners of his eyes, and continue to move forward.

I think everyone has a time when they are vulnerable, and men should be more decadent when they are vulnerable.

My boyfriend, a big boy who usually giggles, is sunny and clingy. Once I was sleeping in a daze at night, and suddenly I heard a small cry in my ear, and I woke up instantly. When I opened my eyes, I saw my boyfriend crying with his back to me, I had never seen him cry, and I was afraid that I would hear him.

After asking what was wrong, he didn't dare to ask again, hugged him and let him cry and wipe his tears. I cried for about an hour, and then there was endless silence. It's not silence, it's just the kind of sound that can't be heard, patting him in the face doesn't respond, I shout that he doesn't respond, and I really start crying again after he reacts, scared.

I poured water for him to drink, but there was no response, so I stared at the ceiling with blank eyes. Later, I asked him what was wrong, and he hugged me hard without saying anything. No matter how sunny a person is, he also has a very vulnerable side, he just doesn't let others know easily.

Probably when I first entered the industry, when the annual review was the hardest, I slept at two or three o'clock every day, and the data couldn't come out. Once in a while, I was racking my brains to squeeze the data, and I was anxious, and suddenly received my mother**, I blurted out: Mom, I'm so uncomfortable, I can't do it anymore, and then my emotions collapsed, and I cried bitterly at that moment.

A man without money is not self.

Strong respect, more likely to have low self-esteem (especially the wife is better), fear of loss (loss of you or loss of dignity, etc.), so will choose to deliberately escape, build a protective shell to protect their vulnerability, to forget their inferiority, so when you mention someone else's husband, he will immediately think of his own badness, of course, he will be very sensitive, he is afraid that you will reflect his shortcomings, and his inferiority complex reaction is also understandable. If you don't want to do this, then usually look at his strengths, praise him more, find less fault with him, at least let him understand that even if he has many shortcomings, he is the only one, maybe he has usually endured too much contempt, if you can give him a sense of security, give him a feeling that even if others look down on my wife and still regard me as a treasure, it is estimated that he will become more generous, you should maintain his self-esteem and help him build self-confidence. Boasting about the eagle in front of the swallow, how can you not feel awkward, you should tell him that I actually like small and exquisite.

After all, people who live together, take care of each other, not only in life, but also mentally.

1.Fragile men can't stand the blow.

Fragile men like to give up on things the most. 3.Fragile men are the most susceptible to collapse.

After others are hit, they will get worse and worse, and they will regroup and make a comeback. But for fragile men, it is difficult to stand up again after being hit, and they are basically in a state of collapse. The people we see in our daily lives who are not willing to work hard are basically more vulnerable people.

In fact, it is normal for us to encounter a little thing in life, and we must slowly learn to be strong, so as to be conducive to our future development.

All in all, fragile men are prone to unbearable blows, easy to fall apart when they encounter a little thing, often give up doing things in daily life, it is difficult to stick to something to the end, and often give up on themselves, and like to find various reasons for themselves to comfort themselves, and in the end the whole person has been decadent.