Some people say that the best education is companionship, what do you think parents should do?

Indeed, parents should spend as much time with their children as possible and have more exchanges of ideas with their children.

Now that the social pressure is increasing, it is no longer realistic for parents to give up a person to work at home to accompany their children, so what we need to do is to accompany them after work, high-quality companionship is not necessarily related to time, take children to participate in parent-child activities, and enhance the emotional interaction with children; For example, children's sports days, parent-teacher conferences, various handicraft activities, and family gatherings are the best ways to accompany children.

Parents should lead by example, children's habits are basically learning from their parents, when I was a child, my parents often read books, so, I also often read books, although I can't understand, but I often sit alone ** to read, so now I have to write better than my peers.

In the child's education. Companionship is the most important thing. And the most important thing is to teach by example.

It is said that "the most affectionate confession is companionship", this sentence is not only suitable for couples, but also for relatives, and for all the people we care about.

The best love and education of parents for their children is indeed only accompaniment, children come to the world with the help of the mother's womb, parents are the strongest bond of children in this world, and only when children stay with their parents, they can get the greatest sense of security.

First of all, parents can give better guidance to their children's growth than grandparents. When parents accompany their children, they not only provide food and clothing, but also provide ideological guidance. Parents have a more up-to-date vision and thoughts, and the pulse between their own blood and bones is closer and easier to communicate.

Parents should always pay attention to the growth of their children, saying that everyone's childhood is carefree, and only parents can provide a strong umbrella to give their children such a happy childhood. Therefore, we cannot ignore the slightest change in children at the critical moment of growth, and childhood has a significant impact on everyone's character development and value formation.

Secondly, as parents who accompany their children, we should lead by example in the education of our children. We are always accustomed to telling our children a lot of big truths and admonishing them with all our hearts, but what really works is actually what we do.

Children never listen to what we say, but they can see what we do, and our behavior is what really affects our children.

I still remember that two years ago, the host Dong Qing talked about her son for the first time, and she said with tears in her eyes at that time: "What kind of person do you want your child to become, it's very simple, you just want to become." "We always want our children to read more, but we haven't turned a page of books ourselves all year round; We always want our children to exercise more, but we have basically become Ge You ...... lying on the sofaThis kind of behavior, even if we talk wildly and foaming at the mouth, is not convincing to the child.

At the end of the day, companionship is the best education, but the best education can only be achieved if we lead by example and teach by example.

This is because the company of parents cannot be replaced by others, and in the process of accompanying children, they can also cultivate children's personalities, and at the same time, they are particularly helpful for children's future social life.

Because the company of parents can make children feel cared for, their hearts are full of love, and their character will naturally become very good.

First, companionship should be focused. "Being in Cao Ying's heart is in Han", only accompanying the child, doing his own things in his hands, thinking about his own things, this is not a real companionship, this is a kind of "perfunctory". True companionship is something like this:

Parents should arrange special time with them, during which they should put aside their own things and concentrate on spending time with their children, reading books, playing games together, or doing activities with their children. Companionship is not only a physical existence, but also a psychological existence. When accompanied, the parent's body and mind should be in line with the child's activities.

Second, companionship should be centered on the child's needs. In the activities of accompanying children, the needs of parents and children are often inconsistent, and parents' interests and hobbies are often different from those of children. For example, many parents think that gaming is a waste of time, while many young children consider gaming to be their favorite.

Spending time with your child means that your child's needs are at the center and doing what your child loves to do in a way that your child enjoys. Reading a book that your child likes to read, playing a game that your child likes, and watching a movie that your child likes are all good companions.

Thirdly, the ideal companionship is one that takes into account the needs of both parents and children. Companionship should be centered on the needs of the child, which comes first, but if you can find a way to accompany the needs of both parents and children, it is undoubtedly ideal. For example, find a movie that is suitable for all ages that makes both parents and children feel extremely happy, or for example, do activity games with your child to combine your child's active needs with your parents' fitness needs.

Sneaking into the night with the wind, moisturizing things silently, accompanying is like moisturizing things silently drizzle, unconsciously enhancing the relationship between parents and children, saving one savings asset after another in the parent-child bank account, and when the epidemic dissipates and the spring flowers bloom, parents and children will enjoy the benefits brought by parent-child companionship.

Children face high-intensity learning every day, and parents often ignore the most important thing besides "grades" - companionship. For children, companionship is undoubtedly the best education.

1. The growth of children should be patient and accepting.

Children in the first and second grades are in the toddler stage of their learning careers. All learning activities are new to him and need to be developed little by little, and many of the poor performance is due to the difficulty of learning unfamiliar content. No child is born with the ability to write and do arithmetic, and it is normal for many children to write slowly, fail to finish exams, or even remember what they have learned.

In helping children through this stage of schooling, parents are both teachers and companions. The premise is that parents should help their children in a way that is accepting and loving.

2. Use "sweetness" to help children quit bad habits.

Some parents of elementary school students complained that their children's homework was very difficult, and their children always had to write until nearly 11 o'clock when they could finish their homework quickly. Once the habit of friction is formed, there will be endless troubles.

When a child moves on to middle and high school, the amount of homework increases dramatically, and it takes a lot of time for the child to complete the homework. Friction greatly reduces children's learning efficiency, and children will be more resistant to homework.

3. Establish a "Family Day".

Most of today's children are only children, and there are no siblings to play with them, and parents can only play the role of parents and companions at the same time.

Play is a child's nature, and playing more can make children show their personality to the fullest, and their personality becomes sunny and cheerful. In many cases, it is not that children do not have time to play, but that parents are not willing to spend time and energy with their children on weekends, because it requires a certain amount of time and energy.

Family education, the environment in which they grew up, and the company of their parents are very important for a child. These three play an important role in the development of children. If you don't make up for it in time, it may affect your child's life.

Parents are their children's first teachers and guides in life and thought. Without family education, children may become a person with no direction, no rules, no understanding of things and people, and various life abilities. Because school focuses on teaching knowledge, and the society actually needs parents to participate in teaching, and the learning of children who do not have family education or who have made mistakes in family education is also derailed from society.

It is easy to go in the wrong direction in understanding and life. Correct family education is the direction of children's future life.

A child is born a blank slate, growing in an environment full of sunlight and the power of knowledge, and growing in an environment full of negative energy. Things gather like people in groups, different living environments, and raise different groups of people. If you want your child not to become a problem child in the future, then you had better grow up in an environment with positive energy, so that you can have positive energy.

If you let him live around him with a complaining, lazy, and unmotivated crowd. Children who are baptized in this way every day will be infected into such people in the future. Because the people around him are like this, and if no one teaches him right and wrong, he will only imitate and learn from such people.

The companionship of parents is the most important of the three, and it is also the basis of family education and growth environment. If parents do not accompany their children, they cannot understand their children's learning and living environment, and they do not understand their children's psychology. Then all your education is not in the heart, and the education that does not enter the heart will most likely not work.

Parents accompanying their children can not only promote the parent-child relationship, but also find out the problems in their children's life and learning in time, and find ways to solve them in time. This is conducive to children's learning and life.

What should I do if my parents don't accompany their children, and when their children live and study, they don't know what to do? If there is no one to help them, the problems that arise cannot be solved in a timely manner, and the more they accumulate, the more they will become a big problem. As a result, children will develop the habit of not trying to find a way to solve a problem.

When parents are not around, the safety of children is also prone to problems. After all, the thoughts and actions of the average elderly people are not as responsive as their parents. No parent thinks it through.

Most of the elderly will only keep their children and are reluctant to educate their children. Children who grow up in doting like this have no resistance to society. Social adaptation and survivability, will be affected.

Standing in the growth of a child looking at the three issues of family education, growth environment, and parental companionship, you still can't quite understand his importance. But from the perspective of the child's future, you will understand the importance of this. If you don't pay attention to these three points.

In the future, children and parents will not be close, there will be no rules for doing anything, and they will even get into trouble, and they will be idle all day long and do not want to make progress. It's a problem child, and it's too late for you to pay attention to it. Parents are their children's first teachers, and excellent parents are also good guides for their children's growth.

Parental companionship is the most important, because the child can feel the warmth of his parents, he is generally more obedient, then he will get better family education, and the growth environment will be warmer.

Family. Because a good family education can make children better and helpful for later life, I think family education is the most important thing for children.

Family education, growth environment, parental companionship, all of which are indispensable for children, and the healthy and happy growth of children is inseparable from the care and guidance of parents.

The companionship of parents is the most important, and the other is also very important, which determines the growth and learning of children, so that children have a better future.

The companionship of parents is the most important, and only the companionship of parents will make children have love in their hearts and the spirit of selfless dedication.

Family education is the most important for children, because parents and children spend the longest time, so it can also help children develop particularly good habits.

These are very important and indispensable, the growth of children is very important, and many parents can give everything for their children.

What does companionship mean? What are the negative effects of over-accompaniment?

We must firmly emphasize with ideals and beliefs that the high-quality companionship of parents is the best education. Whether it is Dongzi or Yin Jianli, an authoritative expert in children's education, they all believe that parents should accompany their children and be their children's big friends.

In 2022, due to the new crown pneumonia epidemic, people across the country have been confined to their homes for a long time, and it is an excellent opportunity for practical activities to be accompanied by parents. Then I would like to ask: how many parents have the best education for the sake of companionship?

Come to think of it, a lot of nerve-wracking. In other words, low-quality companionship is not the type of companionship that the questioner often says. Only quality companionship is the best education, and this idea must be occupied.

Treat your child as a good friend, and basically become a confidant and faceless friend with your child in fair communication. Fair friends, learn to put down their posture, relax and play, play is efficient, happy and beneficial, learn to promote each other, people have their own aspirations. Once adults have God's perspective and parents from the perspective of adults, they will see that children wear colored eyes and have all kinds of shortcomings for children, and they want to compare with other people's children, and they will be angry and want to renovate and transform their children.

In addition to playing games and learning, there are also companions to sit idle. Children's development is not only about learning and training, but also about having fun, and it is important to play with friends of the same age. Parents want high-quality companionship, that is, in addition to playing with their children, they can also let go of their hands with peace of mind and allow their children to come out and play with their friends.

Only by changing fancy play can you play with intelligence and emotional intelligence. But you can just play, and do nothing is also accompaniment, see the child playing with him, parents do not interfere, parents just need to sit down, see it, ready to respond to the child's words anytime and anywhere, you must not be able to control yourself looking at the mobile phone when you sit together, you must focus all your attention on the child, if the parents themselves look at the mobile phone, it completely affects the companionship of this set of skills!

It is best to accompany the child to find his interests and assist the child in developing personal hobbies. Often, it is said that there will be no need to help, that is, it is necessary to pay attention to the fair communication between parents and children, and it is a good friend to discuss and guide children correctly. The child already has his own natural conscience, and everyone just needs to adapt to the situation.

For example, my son fell in love with being a small anchor on the holiday, broadcasting Tyrannosaurus rex, and he never got tired of it, which is also his spontaneous physical and mental health hobby, maintenance is applicable to him, just sit and listen to his endless storytelling, assist him in advertising, marketing in the circle of friends, highly recommended in various places, attracting a large number of explosive audiences, the child is concerned and urged, and the satisfaction is getting higher and higher. Accompanying children like that should be regarded as a very good way to accompany them, and it should be a good parent-child education review.