How to make yourself proud and not afraid of others

As for how to not be afraid of people, this is related to character and personality, and I don't have a quick solution in a short period of time. But let me give you some suggestions, first, we must be principled in doing things, and if we don't pay attention to principles, or even have the idea of harming people and rectifying people, then we will lose confidence in the first place.

Second, make yourself strong inside. When you encounter something unexpected, don't jump up in a panic right away, your face is red. Rather, it is about thinking about solutions and countermeasures right away.

Third, if someone is really too much to you and bullies your honesty, you can endure it once or twice, if it is again and again, again and again, you should no longer suppress your anger, but work hard with him to the end, bite him a few times if you can't win the fight, and pick up whatever you want to do with him. You're also a head, I'm also a head, who's afraid of whom. When it is found that spitting does not work to reason, fists may work.

Let others know that you're not easy to mess with.

Fourth, make more local friends, and when you encounter critical moments, you won't be afraid of anyone, and I am afraid of why I have such a big help.

Fifth, exercise more. The bulging muscles in the body are also a kind of guts.

Sixth, play some politics, if the fierce is always against you, then you go to the leader to reflect the situation and let the leader obey him.

When you become rich, you will naturally be arrogant and not afraid of others. But as a word of advice, no matter what type of person you end up becoming, remember the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation.

Domineering comes from self-confidence, if you have certain items that you are proud of, your domineering will naturally flow when you feel that your opponents are not as good as you. But the root cause is not your domineering personality, but your confidence in that project. To be domineering is to cultivate your self-confidence, of course, this can't just depend on yourself, because family, friends, classmates, and colleagues perceive you as a kind of social affirmation, and it is difficult for a person to achieve self-confidence without this social affirmation.

But let me give you a few suggestions, one, believe in yourself, don't prove it to yourself. For example, if you think you are good at basketball, don't think that you are not very good because you can't shoot, and you lack a pair of eyes to discover your strengths and find the shortcomings of others. Second, constantly improve yourself and let yourself live a fulfilling life.

If you spend all day reading and studying tomorrow, and you never get a thing, you may not feel strong, but you will feel that you have improved, accumulate countless improvements, and your self-confidence will become stronger and stronger. Without accumulation (simply put, no ability) there is no self-confidence, and without self-confidence, there is no domineering. 3. Learn to praise others.

Praise others will be praised by others, and I believe that it is much more practical for you to praise your mother's cooking skills every day than for you to help her cook. Your mother, who gets your approval, will in turn identify with "my son has grown up." There are many examples like this, treating people you don't know is like a mirror, you praise them, they praise you, you despise your opponent, and your opponent despises your ability.

How can you believe in being despised? What about domineering? Fourth, relax yourself and learn to distract.

Mood is the fundamental source of your attitude towards life, and a good mood will make you feel more comfortable today and more confident. If a fairy tells you that you will definitely make money if you buy ** today, will you buy it like crazy? But what do you think when you buy it and you learn that this fairy is actually **?

Will you think "it's over, it's all lost today", or "I hope I don't lose today" There is no self-confidence in the former idea, and the latter is peace of mind, and self-adjustment. Because**After all, you bought it yourself, and it doesn't actually depend on that "fairy". Of course, adjusting the mood is a matter of habit, and it is not something that can be learned and done in a while.

I hope you take it easy and try to improve your self-confidence, which in turn increases your domineering

First of all, you have to develop your own self-confidence, get back the self-confidence of the past, have confidence in yourself in everything, believe in you, you are the best.

Have faith in yourself and believe that you have natural talents in every aspect.

"No one shall be proud, but he shall not be without pride. This sentence of the art master Xu Beihong expresses a profound philosophy of life.

Indeed, no one should be arrogant. People with arrogance tend to be pretentious, thinking that they are capable and a cut above others, so that no one else is in sight. This was a harbinger of his future failure.

With arrogance, when he succeeds, praise and flattery come to him, he will be fluttering, unable to listen to criticism and advice, unable to distinguish between truth and falsehood and right and wrong, and ultimately fail. For such people, success is tantamount to "poison".

However, if there is no "arrogance", there should also be "arrogance". What is a proud bone? That is, you should have ambition, self-confidence, and tenacious and unyielding character.

The road of life is bumpy, failures and setbacks can come at any time, and cold eyes and sarcasm will follow. Do you sigh and attribute the reason to "your lack of talent" and never recover, or are you not afraid of ridicule, look for the reason, and face the difficulties? This depends on whether there is a "proud bone".

Self-confidence is the first step to success, and people with pride and confidence will not be discouraged after failure, on the contrary, they will continue to explore on a new basis.

Arrogance is that it looks arrogant on the surface, and it is more prominent in momentum;

Arrogance is to give people a feeling from the inside out, very principled.

The Chinese tradition is more respectful of Taoguang and Yanghui, that is, it is required not to be arrogant, but the premise is that there must be a proud connotation, strength, and principle of a person, so that there is the so-called "Tao" Guang "Yang" Hui.

Proud or arrogant personalities are not innate, and are mostly environmental influences.

For example, you have a well-to-do family, you have outstanding abilities, you have experienced hardships that others cannot bear, and so on. In short, it's different from others, and it's good to be different in your worldview.

Over time, the proud character was formed.

With the reasons in place, let's take a look at the countermeasures:

This pride can be dealt with in two ways:

One, hide.

This quality of modesty is noble because it is rare.

Answer: The Lord is also a proud person, although he understands his own confidence, but he often feels that this kind of pride is very naïve. It pales in comparison with people who are obviously confident but very modest.

It is recommended that the respondent often contact with more powerful and capable people, and his own little confidence is naturally insufficient. I can also learn slowly and become humble.

This kind of humility is more like a kind of hidden: being clear about what you have, but still willing to listen patiently and respect others.

This kind of person does not easily show his arrogance, but once it is shown, it gives people a sense of admiration that cannot be ignored.

Second, strengthening. If you have this kind of arrogance, you don't want to be humble. Let's just strengthen it a little more.

Who dares to say that "I was born to be talented."

As long as it's comfortable.

Humility Learn from others with an open mind.