Was there a moment when you realized that your parents are old and what should we do?

In our lives, there will always be a moment when we suddenly realize that it is really not easy to be parents, such as the moment when we become parents, that is to say, when we are in the delivery room, or after having our own baby, we will suddenly realize that it is not easy for our parents to bring themselves up.

In addition, when we go home for the Chinese New Year, we suddenly see that my parents' gray hair is getting more and more, and their backs are becoming more and more curved, and even sometimes when I come home, I find that I am taller than my parents.

In fact, there are a lot of such moments, sometimes we can see some changes in our parents, whether it is slowly getting older, or gray hair is becoming more and more, or some other situations, at this time we will realize that it is really not easy for parents to work for half a lifetime, and sometimes, when we fight with our parents, from some of their words, we can also hear that they will have a lot of difficulties at work or in life, and they will encounter a lot of problems. At this time, we can also understand their difficulty.

There is a saying that every family has a difficult scripture to read, which means that everyone will have their own difficulties that they often encounter, so at this time we must know how to understand each other, take care of our parents more, and let them live a good life, which is what we should do.

Honey, I can feel your feelings. It's just that in an instant, I suddenly found that my parents had more gray hair, the wrinkles on my face were deeper, and I was unspeakably sad and depressed, especially after we became parents, we could better understand the difficulties of our parents. The tree wants to be quiet and the wind does not stop, the child wants to raise but does not wait, pro, grasp the moment, do not regret the time when the time passes.

When you realize that your parents are old, you should cherish the time you spend with them, treat them well, honor them, and spend your old age with them!

First of all, when you are immersed in work.

I remember when I was a child, there was always such a picture in my mind: my parents were buried in the fields, and their clothes were soaked with sweat. But staring at the scorching sun, the parents still buried their heads in hard work.

At that time, I was a little kid, I could only sit on the sidelines and watch my parents, although I didn't know how to understand my parents at that time, but the picture of my parents working hard was deeply engraved in my mind. Later, as I grew up, I felt more and more that it was not easy to be a vice president, and I will never forget the picture of my parents burying their relatives and working, and that moment is the best proof of my parents' dedication to the family and children.

Secondly, see the gray hair of the parents.

I don't know when, I found out that my parents had gray hair on their heads, and at that moment I felt that it was too difficult for my parents, and the fatigue of life made them have white hair prematurely. My parents, who were young and strong in front of me, suddenly turned white, and I felt very guilty and uneasy. I don't feel comfortable accepting my parents' aging, and I also lament that life is not easy.

Again, see the wrinkles of the parents.

Also, the moment I noticed that Zen Zhihao's parents' faces had wrinkles, I suddenly felt very sour in my heart. At that moment, I suddenly felt that life was too difficult, and at the same time, I felt powerless as a child. Parents congratulate the whole family, and they no longer care about their appearance and aging.

They feel that their family and children are the most important, and that they have only selflessness in their hearts, not themselves.

In the hearts of each of our children, there may be many moments of life, in which we find that our parents are old, that our parents are hunchbacked, and that our parents are always giving to our children. Love your parents more and go home more to spend time with your parents.

In our lives, there will always be a moment when we suddenly realize that it is really not easy to be parents, such as the moment when we become parents, that is to say, when we are in the delivery room, or after having our own baby, we will suddenly realize that it is not easy for our parents to bring themselves up.

In addition, when we go home for the Chinese New Year, we suddenly see that my parents' gray hair is becoming more and more, and their backs are becoming more and more curved, and even sometimes when I come home, I find that I am taller than my parents.

In fact, there are a lot of such moments, sometimes we can see some changes in our parents, whether it is slowly getting older, or gray hair is becoming more and more, or some other situations, at this time we will realize that it is really not easy for parents to work for half a lifetime, and sometimes, when we fight with our parents, from some of their words, we can also hear that they will have a lot of difficulties at work or in life, and they will encounter a lot of problems. At this time, we can also understand their difficulty.

There is a saying that every family has a difficult scripture to read at a loss of rent stalls, which means that everyone will have their own difficulties that they often encounter, so at this time we must know how to understand each other, take care of our parents more, and let them live a good life, which is what we should do.

When the parents' faces quietly change, when the parents finally admit that they can't do anything, when the parents let go of what they like and consciously maintain, when the parents begin to look like a child who is not deeply involved in the world, when the parents want you to stay at home more, when the parents become cautious in front of you, when the parents want to face the second half of their lives, when the parents begin to plan for the second half of your life, etc., we will begin to feel that our parents are really old.

One, when you go to the street to buy groceries.

One morning during the winter vacation, I accompanied my father to buy vegetables on a whim, and the vegetable market was all for acquaintances, and I watched my father pick and choose among the enthusiastic greetings of the vendors. When I was about to leave, the girl who weighed me suddenly shouted to my father: "Uncle, wait a minute, there will be fresh beans soon!"

I'm shocked, uncle? Looking at my father again, it is true that his temples are gray ......

Second, when the teeth start to be bad.

I remember when I was a child, my father liked to drink a little wine, usually a pot of wine, plus a small plate of peanuts, in recent years I found that he began to think that peanuts were too hard, and always said that his teeth were useless!

Three, when you take a walk.

When I was a child, my mother took me for a walk to exercise, and my mother walked very fast, and I always complained: "Mom, slow down, I can't keep up!" "Yesterday I walked with her in the community and laughed at Xiaoxiao, and she said twice on the way: "You walk so fast, I am so tired to follow." ”

Fourth, when it starts to become verbose and nagging.

The last time I found out that my dad was getting old was after I worked for more than a year, my dad frequently sent me voices, repeated a sentence 3 or 5 times, and frequently transferred me the pseudoscience of those circle of friends: eggplant cures all diseases, 9 happy health philosophy, be careful when these conditions occur in the body, and which fruits must be eaten ......

Fifth, when you start to maintain your health.

Dog days everyone else wore half-sleeved shorts, but my parents wore long shirts and trousers. When I asked if it wasn't hot, they warned me in a matter-of-fact manner: You young people wear so little, and you will regret it when you are old.

6. When you start dyeing your hair gray.

One day when I came home and saw my mother clumsily dyeing her hair with inferior hair dye, she proudly showed me that the hair dye was carefully spelled with Aunt Zhang downstairs, less than 30 yuan, and the effect was better than that of the barbershop. This was the first time I knew that she had started dyeing her hair, and it turned out that my mother's black hair was not taken for granted.

Written at the end: In these moments of discovering that our parents are "getting old", we see the irresistibility of time and the irreversibility of the years, and at the same time, we also feel that no matter how hard the reality is, the love of our parents is still integrated in the meantime, giving us the strength to mature and grow up. Looking at it this way, "getting old" is not an opportunity for parents and children to see each other in life, reflect each other, and then warm each other.