Focusing too much on form Isn t form important?

If you're going to determine if you're a perfectionist, take a look at the following questions:

1) When you are at work, do you distract yourself when someone is talking or interrupting, and you feel angry because of this?

2) When you're planning to shop, do you not want to ignore the person who is your **, but instead go for some information you need and then make a decision?

3) Do you feel very disgusted with people who are casual and secretly criticize them for being too irresponsible about their lives?

4) Do you keep thinking that something might be better if it were done in a different way?

5) Are you constantly upset with yourself or others, and therefore often critical of anything you do or what others do?

6) Do you often take care of the needs of others and give up your own needs and opportunities?

7) Do you often think that you are doing everything you can, but you often wish you could take it easier?

8) Do you always have a mental plan for what to do today and what to do tomorrow?

9) Do you often change your clothes or room settings because you are not satisfied with them?

10) Do you constantly redo the work yourself because someone else didn't get it right the first time?

These are the questions if you are. Undoubtedly, you are not far from a perfectionist.

It is precisely because of perfectionism that people can magnify their dissatisfaction with themselves into inferiority complex in the name of introspection, and then carry out crusades to artificially create a war in the spiritual world. As a result, the motivation to make progress has become the ** of self-punishment.

The so-called self-motivation, that is, from the difficulties to hope, from the imperfect self to find their own strengths, this kind of person is good at building self-esteem and self-confidence. And people who "demand" perfection can't do that. So, perfectionists always see no hope, what else can they do but feel sorry for themselves and give up on themselves every day?

The pursuit of perfection shows that you are a person who is strict with your life, which is very good, it means that you are a person with ideals, which is different from many people nowadays, you have to find that you are a merit.

But what is perfect in this world? Can you tell me what perfection is? I don't think you can tell you exactly what perfect is, so let me tell you, what is perfect.

The process is perfect (in school).

If you put your heart into the process, the result will be perfect.

When I was a sophomore in high school, I had to be dismissed from the school, and I scored 16 out of 120 in mathematics.

In the third year of high school, I used the perfect process to get a perfect score.

Now I am a junior undergraduate student majoring in a provincial and ministerial key major.

I hope my story can inspire you, it doesn't matter what happens, if you give up on yourself, the world will give you up.

No one is perfect. It's not too perfect.

A good beginning is important, but the content seems to be more important and beautiful. That's the most beautiful.

People always say.

Isn't the appearance of form important? When the "appearance" that is detached from the "essence" is only "the form and lead noisy style", it is called "walking the form". And in order to achieve the "essence", it is actually very important to adopt the form.

Like what. Educate children, sense of ritual, and even our culture.

To educate a child, we always need to take a form that attracts the child in order to preserve the child's interest in a certain content. It is very unwise to try to put a simple and crude stuff into a child's mind. This form is important.

In addition, it is often said.

In fact, this is also a form of sleepy search, which makes people feel the essence of the beauty of life, so can this form be said to be unimportant?

Mr. Yu Qiuyu defines culture in this way.

Our culture is also a form that embodies our habits, culminating in the formation of a collective personality.

Essence-based forms give us infinite space.