May I ask everyone, after the age of 40, why do you feel that you suddenly rarely live a married lif

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In fact, whether the relationship between husband and wife is good or not depends not only on the way they get along, but also on whether the sex life between husband and wife is harmonious. A good sex life can make the relationship between each other very good, and it is also easy to relax and meet physical and mental needs. So why do many couples fade into their lives around the age of forty?

First of all, the biggest reason is because of the disharmony of sexual life caused by emotional incompatibility, which stems from the contradictions accumulated with each other for a long time, and it is easier to stimulate with the improvement of life pressure in middle age.

The second thing is physiological factors, men are busy making money and struggling, and they have little energy to take care of women, and they are becoming less and less confident about their married life, and even begin to resist. And the needs of women are getting bigger and bigger, and slowly they begin to contradict each other.

Why is there anything special about life at age 45 and over? Whose life is not real life? It's nothing more than eating, drinking, sleeping, joys and sorrows.

Could it be that the life of a twenty-year-old is floating in the clouds? My husband and I are both over 45 years old, so we can be qualified to nag, right?

First of all, there are old and young, and life is particularly purposeful. That is, we must ensure our own safety and basically do not do high-risk things, because we cannot put our lives in danger and we cannot let the old and young lose their support. Second, it is particularly responsible, that is, you must work, you must work hard, and you must earn back your wages, because you can't let the old and the young lose their economic support.

Third, it is an empty-nest middle-aged person, accompanying the elderly who are not empty-nesting, and living a dull life. At the age of forty or fifty, the children basically flew out to study, leaving two empty nesters. Seventy or eighty-year-olds don't have empty nests.

Fourth, it is estimated that it is also what you are most concerned about, are you still snapping? Of course it will snap. However, it has been twenty or thirty years, and all the tricks that should be used have been exhausted, and the result is still the same old routine.

A song of the week? Isn't it a little too little? I think that when people reach middle age, it is like a river entering the plains, how to be comfortable and how to pass lazily.

There is no such urgent roar, and there is no such legend of dragon spirit and tiger and hungry wolf! Many people like to say what thirty, forty, fifty, or whatever, and I personally think it's not so fierce. Tell me about it, please?

Like, see you every day?

Fifth, the work pressure is not so great. At the age of forty or fifty, the work is not good or bad, and the leader is not like hammering walnuts every day and knocking all the time. So, it's perfectly fine to get done and do a good job.

However, it is impossible to think that the carp jumps the dragon gate. So, two widens for each other. Sixth, the economic pressure is not so great.

If you want to eat or wear, you can basically deal with it. Reading books on the Internet every day, playing games, petting cats and dogs, going out on weekends, and going out for self-driving trips on annual vacation. The only thing that is a little different from others is that we basically don't spend our business time with outsiders.

Because I feel that time is precious, I like to stay with my family, and I don't want to invite friends and go to eat seafood or something. That's probably the norm.

Couples after the age of 40, family affection replaces love, although it is bland but also happy. The years are ruthless, and the couples after the age of 40, while the marriage gives a sense of responsibility, life is also filled with the trivialities of firewood, rice, oil and salt. To be honest, when a woman reaches this age, the definition of happiness becomes simpler and simpler.

Your children can be sensible, your parents can be healthy, and your family can be harmonious and happy.

Firewood, rice, oil and salt children, when they reach a certain age, slowly the focus of life will be on the cultivation of children.

Two reasons tell you why middle-aged couples have no married life after the age of forty.

At this time, there is not much energy to enjoy these, the focus is on the family, they not only have to consider their own family life, but also to consider the future pension of their parents. is at an age when there are old and young, and at this time, the physical strength of both parties is not good, and they are down-looking about sex.

Hello, this is because after the age of 40, the hormone secretion in the body will gradually decrease, and the desire will also decrease. In addition, the physical fitness is not as good as when I was young, and the married life is less.

Generally speaking, with the increase of age, some physiological functions will decline, but some are in the prime of life, and the quality requirements are high, so after the 40s, only a small number of people rarely live a married life.

Forty-year-old men have a normal sex life, and three times a week is basically fine, unless they hate their wives.

Husband and wife sex life is two-sided. If one party wants and the other doesn't want it, it will be uninteresting, and if you do this for a long time, you will be disappointed and the relationship will not be harmonious. Add to that the pressure of family life, not to mention any sex.

Is it said to be male or female? Generally, after the age of 40, there are some women who are cold to sex, and then there is less married life.

Before the age of forty, it was hard to wait! After the age of forty, it is waiting for hard !!

After 35, the human body began to go downhill, young and energetic, and it was fine the next day, and when it reached 40, it was tired the next day, and it was not interesting. Usually once a week or 3 times a month. More is a burden.

At this time, they were mostly busy with their respective careers and training their children, and they didn't have the mind and energy to live a married life.

It's not that I don't want to, but the other half has lost sexual interest at all, so I can only go back to my old business, please five girls!

It is very rare, there is no time and no physical strength, the burden of life is overwhelming, the children's learning and life have to worry, and the parents are not in good health, and they have to care.

The more you do, the faster you die, and you should do less in order to live longer.

I didn't adjust it well, but once every three days in fifty, which was good.

At the age of forty, if your wife is by your side, it is good to do it once after waking up if you are not tired the next day, and you can also do it once before going to bed if you are not tired from work!

The pressure of life is tired of facing it every day! The child is older.

Today's people are still sexually active after the age of forty. Once a day no problem.

may have entered middle age, the old and the young, the pressure of work and life is relatively large, and under normal circumstances, they have generally experienced more than 10 years of married life, and each other has aesthetic fatigue, so the frequency of husband and wife life has decreased greatly.

47 up, once or twice a day, no problem.

It is very likely that it is due to stress, physical exhaustion, etcYou can talk to each other and find out why.

It's not that people don't have needs because they're older, this society. As long as you always maintain a sense of freshness in society, you have a sense of urgency and love for life. Then life will be on your arms no matter what time it is. Life will open its windows to you.

I saw a news story that said that after a person reaches the age of 40, especially as a woman, he will not have much interest in married life. I was really surprised after watching this news, is it that 40-year-olds are already too busy to take care of their married life? This is a very sad thing.

Understand at all times that you have to develop enough love for life. You have to have enough love and love for the slender people around you, so no matter how old you are, I believe that your love for people and love for the opposite sex. And the control of your desires will surely accompany you throughout your life.

You said I strongly disagree with that 40-year-old boy who doesn't feel like a couple. Well, what is the point of your life, how sad.

Yes, some couples will never quarrel after marriage, and some couples may have slept separately a long time ago, but I think no matter what, how long you have been married, you still have to maintain a basic married life, even if it is a small interaction, a kiss can be, which is also conducive to each other's physical and mental growth, and can also release each other's inner pressure.

After getting married, many people often say that they don't understand love, but in fact, they are too lazy to love. Sometimes the people around us may be very old, but a look they give each other is enough to make us envious for a long timeSometimes it's very emotional, we thought that we were intimate lovers under the same roof, but in the end, we became the most familiar strangers to each other.

Love seems to belong to young people, and it is natural that there will be no love after marriage, especially after being a husband and wife for so many years, it seems that there is no love at all. Some people's marriage is a siege, and I have a very deep agreement with this sentence. My husband and I have been sleeping in separate rooms for a long time, most of the time we just get off work and eat and go into our respective rooms to do our own things, and now most of the time we are scrolling through our phones, and then seeing late at night, and then going to sleep.

In fact, it doesn't matter how old you are, I think you all need love, after all, love is a kind of spiritual comfort. And now my marriage is powerless for me. I miss the time when I used to kiss, and now I only miss the old days.

We should improve the quality of our life and the interest in life between husband and wifeIn this way, our family can be harmonious and beautiful, and we can pass on this taste of love and influence our family members and friends around us.

No sickness, right? Sex at 40 years old? I'm almost 53 years old now, and I spend 6 to 7 times a month with my wife, and I never sleep in separate rooms.

You know, husband and wife must not leave sex, if there is no sex, there is no love, and the rest may only be a kind of family affection (habit) that has to be maintained.

Of course, my husband and I are twice a week, I am 42 years old and my husband is 47

There should be, as the saying goes, thirty or forty women are as hungry as tigers, if they are normal women, normal husband and wife life is a way to maintain the relationship between husband and wife, and it is also the guarantee of family harmony, as long as the two do not have two hearts, and they do not sleep in separate beds, they are indispensable, don't you say?

How can there be no 40-year-old, 40-year-old, as long as the man or woman is in good health, it is normal to have sex 1 or 2 times a day.

Yes, there are definitely forty-year-old women, hey, they are all wolf-like ages!

Yes, it is okay for husband and wife to have a good relationship and physical allow.

Yes, this must be had, one is good for physical and mental health, and the other is good for the husband and wife themselves and family unity, don't look for something new, both men and women pay attention, remember!

Yes, it's just not as frequent as before, mainly because first, people's physical strength has declined in middle age, and second, they have been married for many years, and they have become left and right hands with each other, the novelty has passed, and the desire is not big.

I'm 47, I want to have one more time a week, and my lover can't stand it.

My husband and I haven't had sex for almost 1 year, it's normal.

There must be, both men and women are in the ** period of life, and if not, it will be abnormal.

Yes, my husband and I are once or twice a week!

What's this, I'm fifty years old, except for my wife and aunt, I have to do it.

Of course there is. Don't say 40, it's 50, 60As long as there are feelings. This is a normal couple.

There should be, as for just isn't it normal? It's hard to say, it depends on the physical condition of the two people? , haven't you heard of it? 88. And a melon.

Forty years old is not very old, of course there will be a normal married life.

There must be, if my wife and I don't have sex every other day, we can't stand it, almost every day.

Yes, definitely, I'm 54 years old 2 times a week.

It's a bond, and after the age of 40, there are a lot of bonds between husband and wife, and they won't want to give up on each other easily at every turn.

I know what the changes are, and these changes are that the life of a couple will require their own independent space, and they don't want each other to disturb them.

After the age of forty, there will be these changes in the life of the couple, that is, the husband and wife will sleep in separate rooms, because the husband and wife have lived for such a long time, and they feel that it is time to have their own space for each other.

In fact, it should become more dependent on each other, and the two of them have long been accustomed to each other's existence.