I m in a hurry, I m going to face a love choice, and I don t know what to do???

You say, "She said she didn't care if I had money or not,......And now I feel more and more that she and I are not a good fit for ,......Love also cannot be counted as the foundational ,...... of marriageBut now we can't accept each other. I love her very much now......”

It seems that in your heart, love and marriage are two different things. You admit that you have love, but you can't get married. When you have not yet found a suitable marriage partner, you should first warm each other together to avoid loneliness and loneliness, but the final result must be a breakup.

That's what you think, right?

Does your girlfriend think the same way?

If she agrees with you, her family won't either. If she finds the right person and leaves you in the future, will you be miserable? How do you feel when your loved one is taken away by someone else?

If you find a new lover first, and she is 30 years old at that time, how do you send her? Can her family spare you?!

What if she doesn't care if you have money or not, and wants to follow you? And you didn't intend to give her a future in the first place, is it fair to her? When it comes to emotions, men and women are different.

Men are easy to spend, and once a woman gives a true love, she is equivalent to locking everything she has, and she sticks to it persistently and without regrets. Didn't you hurt her in that way?

Actually, your feelings for her are not real love. Love is selfish and exclusive. If you really love her, how can you tolerate someone else marrying her?!

She's just food for you, and you don't want to abandon her until there's a new and better taste, or you'll starve.

You are very selfish, you only think about your own gains and losses, and you do not think about her future from the woman's point of view. If she's a good girl, please let it go!

Landlord: I think you need to find a time to think about it and sort it out.

Don't think you're still young, it's not easy to find someone who loves you and you like her.

You say that your girlfriend is immature, but in fact you are wrong, girls have always matured earlier than men.

You say you love her, but you say that your personality is incompatible, which requires two people to understand and understand each other, and you may feel that the love is light and tasteless.

Since I love her usually a little bit of heart, it's actually easy to change.

When you are young, your personality is not strong, and it will change with the living environment.

When you get to your thirties, you'll feel it.

If you really don't want to get married, you can say that to her parentsYou're still young, you don't want to get married so early, you want to work hard, and you don't want your girlfriend to worry about life in the future.

Indicates that he is very self-motivated. I think her parents must be very satisfied.

Since you love her and your character is strong, you should change it for her so that your character can tolerate her strength. Both parents agree to your relationship, and she has already done so much for you, even **, what else do you want? We all know that we should find someone who "has a common goal, hobbies and language" when we get married, but how many people can find it, and if we find it, we must live to the end, which is obviously impossible.

Nowadays, many old people have lived together for sixty or seventy years, and their relationship is still good, is it because they have common goals, hobbies and language, no, because one of them has voluntarily changed and voluntarily tolerated for the happiness of both parties. If you really want to break up, just break up, don't find such a high-sounding reason, it's more hypocritical.

Do you really love her? Your heart is shaken, so what about her? Has she ever wavered, love and marriage are built on a certain foundation, is your foundation solid?

It's not strong, isn't it. If you want to give her so much happiness, then please work hard, and you are thinking about marriage when you have the right to give her happiness.

Actually, you already have the answer, but I don't think it's easy to say...

If you don't say it now, it will be more painful later.

Although you love each other, getting married is about living together, and I hope you can think about it.

I wish you happiness**

What a tangled person. The top says that they love each other, and the bottom says that they can't accept each other. Love is in thought, and marriage is material. Let's figure out what you're thinking and deciding how to do it.

The love given by one party will not last, let alone that you don't love her anymore. Make it clear to the other person's family.

Think about it for yourself, marriage events, and happiness for a lifetime.

If it's not suitable, bring it up early.

Love cannot be forced.

If it's not suitable, the sooner the better, and it's too late to play.

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ,...Or because he loves you.

There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

If you find.

If there are such people around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

In this world, everyone has one.

Those who want to look for it, once they miss it, they will not come back.

If you fall in love, don't let it go easily.

Abandon. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. Experienced love.

The life of love is beautiful, and the love that cannot stand the test is not profound. Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

Some people say that "regret is better than regret", and some people say "there is no beginning, no end, no pain". Now that I think about it, there are actually two kinds of people with different attitudes towards things, one is free and casual, and the other is conservative and introverted.

Among my friends, Xiao A and Xiao B are the representatives of the free and casual faction, and at first I didn't understand why Xiao A wanted to talk about a relationship for two or three months or even a month or two, and then spend a while to be sad, but now I seem to understand a little.

With the increase of age and experience, the standard for them to fall in love is to have a good impression of each other, and to be attractable, comfortable, and in tune with each other, no one knows what will happen in the future, so when the person who has feelings appears, bravely propose to be together and give each other a chance.

Just today, Xiao A told me that she broke up last night, and this is her sixth relationship, which lasted for more than a month. Just two days ago, her boyfriend came from city A to city B to find her, and in the face of the pressure of work and her boyfriend's incomprehension, the difference in living habits and the problem of distance, she proposed to break up, of course, the most important reason is that she didn't like it so much.

What impressed me was that she told me, "In order to catch up with the plan before the National Day, I didn't eat all day, I was really happy when he came, I took a car for more than two hours to pick him up after work, and it took two hours to come back, and it was more than two o'clock in the evening, he kept calling me, I have to go to work the next day, ** every time I am tired, I will rest, in fact, I don't think he understands me so much at all." See, work pressure and meeting time can also affect the relationship between two people.

Free and casual people will take their partner and relationship seriously in the process of love, and will also think about the present and the future, but when they find that it is not suitable, they will decisively propose to break up, and of course they will hesitate before that. I asked them if they regretted separating after being together, and the answer was very simple, "no regrets"! I admire them, brave, decisive and have no regrets!

The conservative and introverted faction carefully waits for his other half with the slogan of preferring to lack rather than excess, and when there is a goal, all kinds of rational trade-offs would rather miss than go wrong. Their attitude towards love is to love to the fullest, and when they see the love of seven or even five points full in the current society, they feel that it is not really, at least not the love they want. Thinking about people who have experienced the tempering of society and many relationships, for their broken hearts, maybe seven points full is all love.

There is never a regret pill in the world.

If it's so painful, why not find out the reason for the pain?

Feelings cannot be forced.