How can an impulsive person learn to tolerate The price of forbearance is being bullied

Suddenly my heart was filled with pride, like a flower full of dew, trembling and uncontrollable.

Memories become blank, and regrets bind your heart like a rope. Life is inherently a tragedy, or it is simply to combat the emptiness of the meaning of life itself. I wasn't convinced at the time, but now I realize how accurate it is.

Since life is a train that eventually leads to nothing, why don't I open the window as soon as possible and jump in without hesitation to meet the dark sleep that will eventually arrive in advance?

Summary. Dear, excessive tolerance will only make people more presumptuous and despise you.

Thank you. Thank you.

People often lament that horses are honest and let others ride, and people are honest and let others bully. Honest people suffer, and society is too unfair. In fact, this cannot be blamed entirely on social unfairness, it is necessary to reflect on why you don't have the courage to express your original self?

If you find yourself often playing a role against your will, then don't expect others to change, but refuse to play it yourself. Because others don't respect your personality and always ask you to be obedient, it's because you blindly tolerate it so that others treat you like this. Even though you inadvertently taught others to do it.

Dear, excessive tolerance will only make people more presumptuous and despise you.

Thank you. People often lament that horses are honest and let others ride, and people are honest and let others bully. Honest people suffer, and society is too unfair.

In fact, this cannot be blamed entirely on social unfairness, it is necessary to reflect on why you don't have the courage to express your original self? If you find yourself often playing a role against your will, then don't expect others to change, but refuse to play it yourself. Because others don't respect your personality and always ask you to be obedient, it's because you blindly tolerate it so that others treat you like this.

Even though you inadvertently taught others to do it. 【】

Dear, excessive tolerance will only make people more presumptuous and despise you.

Thank you. People often lament that horses are honest and let others ride, and people are honest and let others bully. Honest people suffer, and society is too unfair.

In fact, this cannot be blamed entirely on social unfairness, it is necessary to reflect on why you don't have the courage to express your original self? If you find yourself often playing a role against your will, then don't expect others to change, but refuse to play it yourself. Because others don't respect your personality and always ask you to be obedient, it's because you blindly tolerate it so that others treat you like this.

Even though you inadvertently taught others to do it. 【】

Dear, excessive tolerance will only make people more presumptuous and despise you.

For the sake of harmony, it is not enough to blindly tolerate, the most important thing is to communicate more and let the other party understand your mood. This is especially true between friends. You have to tell him what the other party is most wrong, and don't blindly indulge him.

That's what a true friend is! The same goes for lovers!

The thought of one day is unbearable, and there are many disasters in fighting and winning. If you can't bear to be sick, you will be entangled for the rest of your life. It doesn't matter if you let people take one step, the amount of great blessing is great without trouble.

We often encounter a lot of contradictions in daily life, when encountering contradictions, if we are not willing to suffer, step by step, fight for reason, and die to save face, thinking that forbearance is to lose face and lose dignity, and in the end it can only make the contradictions continue to escalate and intensify. In fact, forbearance is not to be dignified, but to be mature, calm, rational, open-minded, a temporary concession can be exchanged for the gratitude and respect of others, to avoid the deepening of contradictions, wouldn't it be better. Society is like a net, intricate, we will inevitably have misunderstandings or frictions with others, be kind to grievances, learn to respect people you don't like, and fill your heart with tolerance, so that there will be less resentment, more happiness, and more respect.

Think from other perspectives, even not listen to those who don't want to listen, try to be tolerant of others... If it doesn't work, you'll get angry if you don't look at anything else.

When others point out all your shortcomings, smile and accept them. Don't do something bad with someone because you point out your shortcomings. When others ask you to do too many things, but if you can do what you can do, you have to be patient to do what you promise to do what you think is the best.

Everything has long and short, yin and yang, round and short, pros and cons, wins and losses, not to mention the ever-changing life! When dealing with disputes and contradictions, why don't you think about it more: let one step be higher in life.

Those neighborhood disputes, relatives and friends turn against each other, calm down, think about it, will feel a little ridiculous and even ridiculous. Are you willing to be the protagonist of the squinting laughter of the onlookers? So, take a step back and turn hostility into friendship, why not?

Smart people do not blindly compete, when necessary, they prefer to take a step back and avoid their edge, sometimes they can not only win the respect of bystanders, but also win the respect of their opponents, you say, who is the real winner?

Don't let hatred overshadow your character, and don't let strife, tarnish your image. Tolerance is a virtue, and to be tolerant of others is to be kind to yourself. Remember this saying:

The heart is a container, and when love grows more and more, hatred is squeezed out. "Let us learn to be tolerant, learn to be patient, fill our hearts with love, and be kind to resentment.

In our social life, if all of us learn to be tolerant, then we will eliminate how many contradictions between people will be eliminated, and the world we live in will become more peaceful and beautiful.

Forbearance is important, but you can't tolerate everything, forbearance is limited, and forbearance must be principled. Whether it is between people or between countries, tolerance should pay attention to a degree and a principle. With regard to things that seriously infringe upon the interests of the state and individuals, we should rise up and do the opposite, defend the interests of the state and protect our own rights and interests.

Back then, when the United States burned the flames of war to the banks of the Yalu River, posing a serious threat to the security of our country, the young republic, which had just undergone the baptism of war, faced an enemy armed to the teeth, did not retreat, resolutely sent troops to Korea, fought bloody battles, and finally drove the ferocious enemy across the 38th parallel. When the United States repeatedly criticized China's human rights issue at the UN Human Rights Conference, China did not back down and refuted it on the basis of reason, which ultimately failed the US conspiracy again and again. This is true between countries, so it should be the same between individuals, for people and things that seriously infringe on our rights and interests, we can not blindly retreat and tolerate, we should take up the model of the law, to resolutely protect our rights and interests.

Patience makes us peaceful, patience makes us live a good life, tolerance allows us to benefit a lot from work and communication, friends, let us all learn to endure!

The Buddha said: Face it with a smile and don't complain. Leisurely, casual, casual, casual. What is destined to change a lifetime is only in a hundred years, when that flower blooms.